Knowing someone masturbates to you

[MatureChattyMan]

I'm probably too old to inspire anyone now, but I like the thought!

 

[Blase]

I'm probably too old to inspire anyone now, but I like the thought!

I wouldn't sell yourself short. Arousal online is mostly about your personality and your ability to get your sense of the erotic across to your partner - especially if we're talking about women, who tend to be less visual than we males.

I will say that I know there's currently at least one woman on Lit who sometimes touches herself while thinking of me, because she's told me so. And guess what? I'm older than I've ever been.

 

[explorer002]

Blase is quite right.
In my case, you just need to tell me exactly what you'd like to be doing to me, with me, in that instant. And visualizing that itself can make me feel oooh-so-good

 

[shynerdgirl]

Glad I don't need to worry about this.

 

[CandK_inSE]

I can remember 20-25 years ago when actually having a girlfriend was a pipe dream, using the internet to find cyber sex. That was somewhat enjoyable at times.

Now, if I do masturbate, it’s thinking about my wife or because she’s sending me dirty texts.

My wife rarely does it, but when she does, she sends me pictures, and says I wish you were the toy. They get used later.

 

[HornyTyler1998]

Not sure anyone does but I’d find it really hot

 

[MatureChattyMan]

Glad I don't need to worry about this.

It's nothing to worry about

 

[Mtnmike]

I can remember 20-25 years ago when actually having a girlfriend was a pipe dream, using the internet to find cyber sex. That was somewhat enjoyable at times.

Now, if I do masturbate, it’s thinking about my wife or because she’s sending me dirty texts.

My wife rarely does it, but when she does, she sends me pictures, and says I wish you were the toy. They get used later.

I hear ya, back when we had sex, my wife denied ever masturbating but I caught her several times before she admitted she just couldn't wait for me to get home. I have always found it a big turn on knowing a woman masturbates.

 

[dp4shelly]

Major turn on

A lot of guys that I sext with tell me that they often masturbate to me. And when I have guided masturbation with them in chat rooms I find it very hot. It is not as hot as real world sex but it adds a nice dimension to my own masturbation. I recently let a guy see a picture of my soaked pussy with white panties on that reveal some of my pink cunt opening. He said he used it to masturbate and that turned me on.

 

[cpcrazed]

A lot of guys that I sext with tell me that they often masturbate to me. And when I have guided masturbation with them in chat rooms I find it very hot. It is not as hot as real world sex but it adds a nice dimension to my own masturbation. I recently let a guy see a picture of my soaked pussy with white panties on that reveal some of my pink cunt opening. He said he used it to masturbate and that turned me on.

I can tell you for a fact that picture would have me rev'ed up. I have read a number of your posts and I'm absolutely not surprised that you have a number of men who are using you for inspiration. Your account name alone gets me intrigued...

 

[dp4shelly]

This illustrates the point...

I can tell you for a fact that picture would have me rev'ed up. I have read a number of your posts and I'm absolutely not surprised that you have a number of men who are using you for inspiration. Your account name alone gets me intrigued...

Just reading this post made me wet. I think it is natural to enjoy being sexually stimulating. With real life sex I think the focus should be to make it as thrilling as possible rather than focus on self-pleasure. If everyone involved is thinking like that then everyone involved is going to have a lot of pleasure. To me the gift of orgasm is a wonderful gift and I love the idea of being able to give the gift of orgasm to men that I have never met. To think that someplace some guy that I sext with has his meat in his hand and is cumming hard as he pictures me sucking or fucking him makes my clit twitch.

 

[LizVegas79]

I pretend to disapprove, but actually I usually take it as a wonderful and special compliment.

Many guys, and several other women too, have confessed in private PM's how much they've enjoyed one of my posts in What's She Saying? or my Ask Doctor Liz thread. I love that. Back before My Pervy Husband thread got deleted I use to get tons of compliments on the things I posted there! I should maybe revive that old thread.

 

[Mtnmike]

Just reading this post made me wet. I think it is natural to enjoy being sexually stimulating. With real life sex I think the focus should be to make it as thrilling as possible rather than focus on self-pleasure. If everyone involved is thinking like that then everyone involved is going to have a lot of pleasure. To me the gift of orgasm is a wonderful gift and I love the idea of being able to give the gift of orgasm to men that I have never met. To think that someplace some guy that I sext with has his meat in his hand and is cumming hard as he pictures me sucking or fucking him makes my clit twitch.

You hit the nail on the head !!!
If everyone thought like you, the world would be a happier place.

 

[Mtnmike]

I pretend to disapprove, but actually I usually take it as a wonderful and special compliment.

Many guys, and several other women too, have confessed in private PM's how much they've enjoyed one of my posts in What's She Saying? or my Ask Doctor Liz thread. I love that. Back before My Pervy Husband thread got deleted I use to get tons of compliments on the things I posted there! I should maybe revive that old thread.

As you should, everyone that has someone that masturbates to them should be grateful, unless it's just perverted.

 

[LizVegas79]

You hit the nail on the head !!!
If everyone thought like you, the world would be a happier place.

I agree completely. Hangups about sex and religion are pretty much at the root of everything that's wrong with our planet imho.

As you should, everyone that has someone that masturbates to them should be grateful, unless it's just perverted.

Some have crossed the line of being slightly perverted into outright gross and/or insulting, but most have been quite pleasant and respectful and even funny at times.
(you poor guys at work! lol)

 

[PapaRomantic]

Both brothers used my panties to masturbate with ~ strangely exciting...

Now you're stretching your credibility, sir....

 

[Crownvic]

My pm has gone off the chart since I posted a few pics and in to some threads lately. Loving it. Some fine dirty old men on lit. Keep them coming. Did I spell that right?!!

Cumming Beth....yes I enjoy it too...lol..

 

[CandK_inSE]

As you should, everyone that has someone that masturbates to them should be grateful, unless it's just perverted.

Even my wife has told me she enjoys the thought of me stroking to her.

She’s talked about wanting to make a video for us to use when one of us is away.

A few of my former girlfriends liked the idea of their guy masturbating to them. Others thought it nasty. Depends on the girl and how open minded they are.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

Eawwww

Rusty blade

 

[Runbow]

I love the idea of someone masturbating to me, but even lately I have been enjoying the idea of guys getting off to stories about me and my partners, like my ex wife.

I am happy to help them out. It feels different than having a woman masturbate to me (the gold standard, so hot), but it’s nice.

 

[Stacysmith287]

Hi

On of my mothers boyfriends enjoyed my little panties a few times. I'm guessing his mind wasn't on my mother lol. And there were a few stains on my netball skirt.

 

[leftie]

I love knowing

 

[MatureChattyMan]

I love knowing too.

 

[CyberKitty20]

Totally ... I've got an AmPics thread, and I definitely enjoy knowing that some guy has found one of my photos 'inspirational' ... provided it's expressed as appreciation and not just being creepy.

(Ha - that sounds like I'm marketing my thread. Totally not the intention ... just that it's something I enjoy.)

 

[MatureChattyMan]

Totally ... I've got an AmPics thread, and I definitely enjoy knowing that some guy has found one of my photos 'inspirational' ... provided it's expressed as appreciation and not just being creepy.

(Ha - that sounds like I'm marketing my thread. Totally not the intention ... just that it's something I enjoy.)

Oh, I'm sure you've inspired many an appreciative play!