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Quiet_Cool said:Dirt Man made what I think is the best point. It's a double standard, but I think it has less to do with men being expected to cheat, or women being in love with anyone.
The double standard bites us in the ass here, I think: When women pursue, or playfully accept the pursuit of, a man then she is "exploring her sexuality", regardless of whether her actions violate any moral standard. When men do it, we're just being ass holes. In the end, it yet again sucks to be male...
So you get one or two backlashes, and you immediately start crying?
I'd like to quote from the Swedish poet, Sonja Åkesson, who wrote about the double standard between men and women.
You get fat.
I get impressive.
You grow old.
I become distinguished.
You bitch and whine.
I state my opnion.
You gossip.
I am being social.
You're pining.
I'm horny.
The poem is muuuuuuuch longer, but I can't remember it all by heart.