UtilityCurve
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I'm sure there are a few haters who see the word "owned" and go full hornet, but as a guy I have heard women struggle to describe that feeling of extraordinary connection (which is fundamentally soul-to-soul, admitting of no measurement or quantification) and (here's the part men can't "get," though they have the own complementary feeling of "owning") satisfaction at having been selected for femininity/"woman-ness." And that's what they come up with. Unfortunately, "ownership," especially as it relates to people has an ugly history and Western culture has evolved ownership into a rite, ritual and fetish as it relates to things. It has too much baggage to carry in describing the feeling.For me, it's about the extreme intimacy of being claimed and owned at that moment. No matter how much society wants to confuse or blend roles between men and woman the act of having a man cum inside me feels so primal. It makes me feel so owned at that moment.
Because it is the necessary step to begin childbearing, I imagined (and I cheerfully admit I have been told, "no that's not it, but that's interesting") it is the point at which all the unique demands and (face it) discomfort the female body imposes on its occupant make sense, like "ah-ha, that's why all that other


Male readers will understand: It's my effort to translate "post-nut clarity" experienced in a LTR to a female expression. Female readers are invited to try their hand at describing what they think we feel (PNC).
Personally, this is why for the obligatory post-nut snooze, I tried to always spoon my wife (gone 11 years today, which is why I am so introspective, philosophical and ponderous) afterward, taking care to cup the breast resting on the mattress with the arm swung over her because she told me it had a unique way of making her feel safe, protected. She assured me that the wetness I caused (gave) was welcomed, wanted and acted to sort of prolong the connected and satisfied feelings.
Ladies, if you want to continue this, please do, but I suspect this introspection, at least on this level, is a limited-time offer.