Leahaven

[Paul4play]

Hello Everybody,

It's been like forever since I have been here, but a lot has happened, so I thought I would try to post an update in case anyone is interested.

Robbie and I are fine. Better than fine. It's like we are in the honeymoon phase that we should have had right after we got married. I would like to believe it will never go away, but I am sure that eventually it will.

When the new year was approaching, I told Robbie we were going to start a new yearly ritual in which he would solemnly vow his devotion to me, and I would vow to own him....to direct, discipline, and manage his service to me. On New Year's, at the stroke of midnight, Robbie, caged, leashed, and kneeling, recited his vows to me. To affirm our vows, he received pain and tease and denial, and I received a long, luxurious indulgence in his gift of oral sexual pleasure.

He really has become the most exceptional servant boy.

I have taken a new job. I don't want to say much about it out here, but it is very different from what I was doing, and it will include some travel, which I am looking forward to. I am hoping that my travel time will allow me some time to come out here and post like I used to. Idk, yet.

I am no longer seeing Jack. He just wasn't all that fun, to be honest.

I am still seeing Alex, and our relationship has only gotten better. There is a lot to talk about here, but it will have to wait. I don't have much time right now.

I have started going to the gym every morning on the weekdays. In the mornings is when I used to come to this site and post, but that has become even more difficult to do now.

I will try to catch up on messages, but it will have to wait until tomorrow.

I hope you are all doing well.

I have to go. Take care.

Happy to hear you and Robbie are settling into your true roles, and that you and Alex are doing well. The new job will hopefully present you with new and exciting opportunities! Looking forward to hearing more, and always happy to offer an opinion if you wish.

 

[Artfan2]

Hello Everybody,

It's been like forever since I have been here, but a lot has happened, so I thought I would try to post an update in case anyone is interested.

Robbie and I are fine. Better than fine. It's like we are in the honeymoon phase that we should have had right after we got married. I would like to believe it will never go away, but I am sure that eventually it will.

When the new year was approaching, I told Robbie we were going to start a new yearly ritual in which he would solemnly vow his devotion to me, and I would vow to own him....to direct, discipline, and manage his service to me. On New Year's, at the stroke of midnight, Robbie, caged, leashed, and kneeling, recited his vows to me. To affirm our vows, he received pain and tease and denial, and I received a long, luxurious indulgence in his gift of oral sexual pleasure.

He really has become the most exceptional servant boy.

I have taken a new job. I don't want to say much about it out here, but it is very different from what I was doing, and it will include some travel, which I am looking forward to. I am hoping that my travel time will allow me some time to come out here and post like I used to. Idk, yet.

I am no longer seeing Jack. He just wasn't all that fun, to be honest.

I am still seeing Alex, and our relationship has only gotten better. There is a lot to talk about here, but it will have to wait. I don't have much time right now.

I have started going to the gym every morning on the weekdays. In the mornings is when I used to come to this site and post, but that has become even more difficult to do now.

I will try to catch up on messages, but it will have to wait until tomorrow.

I hope you are all doing well.

I have to go. Take care.

Glad to hear that things are going well with you, Robbie and Alex.

That's quite a delicious image of Robbie kneeling down and going down on you to begin the new year.

 

[LeaHaven]

Happy to hear you and Robbie are settling into your true roles, and that you and Alex are doing well. The new job will hopefully present you with new and exciting opportunities! Looking forward to hearing more, and always happy to offer an opinion if you wish.

You are always welcome to offer an opinion. That's never a problem for me. Opinions and suggestions in these forums have been so totally helpful and insightful.

 

[LeaHaven]

That's quite a delicious image of Robbie kneeling down and going down on you to begin the new year.

I think so, too! Ty!

 

[cuckoldbill]

I think so, too! Ty!

What a fab thread. Thank you LeaHaven . Love the vows at midnight on. I wish you and Robbie a wonderful year of excitement, adventure and love .

 

[LeaHaven]

Here is what I really want to tell you about...

Alex has stayed the night with us more than a few times. I have always been concerned about, "What do you tell your wife?" He had never answered that question with anything believable, and I never wanted to spoil the sex I had coming, so I let it go. But eventually, I needed an answer.

He and I were eating dinner at a restaurant, and I asked again. "...and Alex," I said, "this time I need a real answer."

He looked down at his plate for a few seconds, with a smirk, deciding what to say. Then his expression got serious, he looked up at me and said, "She knows."

"She knows what?"

"She knows," he insisted.

"She knows that we're having sex?"

"Yes."

I tilted my head at him. I didn't believe a word of it. After some more back and forth, he explained.

Before they had kids, he and Janie had a situation that almost turned into sex with another couple. In time, on other occasions, it did turn into sex. (He says it only happened a few times, but his timeline doesn't add up.) After that, they tried to get into the swing culture, but Janie got pregnant before they met any other couples. After their first kid, he says she was no longer interested in other couples, and after their second kid, she was no longer interested in sex. She understands that he can't go without ever having sex again, so she "looks the other way."

I told him that "looks the other way" doesn't exactly make me feel comfortable. He insisted that his relationship with me wasn't a problem for Janie.

You know, if he had been honest from the beginning, I might have believed what he was saying that night, but I was doubting everything he said, and I told him that.

"I'll prove it," he told me. "Meet us for dinner. You and Robbie"

I rolled my eyes. There was no way I was going to meet with his wife again after all that had gone on. What if she asked me about it? I mean, would she?

It took some days, but he (and Robbie) convinced me to do it. Same restaurant where Robbie and I met them before. I've never been so nervous in my life.

In case you can't tell....I don't have enough to do in my new job.

I will finish this at another time.

 

[Toro1886]

Here is what I really want to tell you about...

Alex has stayed the night with us more than a few times. I have always been concerned about, "What do you tell your wife?" He had never answered that question with anything believable, and I never wanted to spoil the sex I had coming, so I let it go. But eventually, I needed an answer.

He and I were eating dinner at a restaurant, and I asked again. "...and Alex," I said, "this time I need a real answer."

He looked down at his plate for a few seconds, with a smirk, deciding what to say. Then his expression got serious, he looked up at me and said, "She knows."

"She knows what?"

"She knows," he insisted.

"She knows that we're having sex?"

"Yes."

I tilted my head at him. I didn't believe a word of it. After some more back and forth, he explained.

Before they had kids, he and Janie had a situation that almost turned into sex with another couple. In time, on other occasions, it did turn into sex. (He says it only happened a few times, but his timeline doesn't add up.) After that, they tried to get into the swing culture, but Janie got pregnant before they met any other couples. After their first kid, he says she was no longer interested in other couples, and after their second kid, she was no longer interested in sex. She understands that he can't go without ever having sex again, so she "looks the other way."

I told him that "looks the other way" doesn't exactly make me feel comfortable. He insisted that his relationship with me wasn't a problem for Janie.

You know, if he had been honest from the beginning, I might have believed what he was saying that night, but I was doubting everything he said, and I told him that.

"I'll prove it," he told me. "Meet us for dinner. You and Robbie"

I rolled my eyes. There was no way I was going to meet with his wife again after all that had gone on. What if she asked me about it? I mean, would she?

It took some days, but he (and Robbie) convinced me to do it. Same restaurant where Robbie and I met them before. I've never been so nervous in my life.

In case you can't tell....I don't have enough to do in my new job.

I will finish this at another time.

oh you wicked tease...and that of course is your provocative! ;-P

 

[LeaHaven]

oh you wicked tease...and that of course is your provocative! ;-P

I've learned

 

[LeaHaven]

When I read what I wrote above about Alex's wife knowing he was getting sex elsewhere, it sounds so....uneventful....pragmatic But he and I have talked about the fact that Janie is no longer interested in sex, and while it is nice of her to let him go elsewhere, their sexless marriage is stressful and difficult. Alex misses sex with his wife. He has told me that her lack of interest in him in that way makes him feel like she's lost interest in him completely. He worships the ground she walks on, but she doesn't seem to care.

I know it's kind of depressing reading about this, but I don't think it's right for me to make it seem like his life is a fairy tale. I also wanted you to know that, as he explains it, the concessions she allows him do not make up for a sexless marriage.

Maybe others have been in a similar situation.

 

[naughty_stories]

You give me hope that such a marriage can work.

 

[dave's thing]

When I read what I wrote above about Alex's wife knowing he was getting sex elsewhere, it sounds so....uneventful....pragmatic But he and I have talked about the fact that Janie is no longer interested in sex, and while it is nice of her to let him go elsewhere, their sexless marriage is stressful and difficult. Alex misses sex with his wife. He has told me that her lack of interest in him in that way makes him feel like she's lost interest in him completely. He worships the ground she walks on, but she doesn't seem to care.

I know it's kind of depressing reading about this, but I don't think it's right for me to make it seem like his life is a fairy tale. I also wanted you to know that, as he explains it, the concessions she allows him do not make up for a sexless marriage.

Maybe others have been in a similar situation.

Been going thru it for 3ish years.
Know exactly how he feels

 

[Artfan2]

... I also wanted you to know that, as he explains it, the concessions she allows him do not make up for a sexless marriage.

Maybe others have been in a similar situation.

No doubt the sexless marriage increases his desire and appreciation for sex outside of the marriage. And I'm sure that there are others in a similar situation.