Let me be the best part of your day.

[Red_and_Mackie]

Five months after she posted her op and all of 15 words long. And the whole world seems to congregate below her feet and applaud her. For what exactly, I will never know.

You must know posting on this thread to bash a woman who (I assume) you've never met does her favors by bumping the thread....... right?

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Been a while, but just spent some time with this lovely woman and missing her, so... bump.

Wishing all the happiness in the world, my dear. (rose)

 

[LTMMC]

Been a while, but just spent some time with this lovely woman and missing her, so... bump.

Wishing all the happiness in the world, my dear. (rose)

If you miss her so badly, why don't you simply write her again? Who knows, she may even write you back. I conversed with her briefly once, but my words apparently were not magic enough to elicite a second response from her.

But you might be luckier than me. Wishing you all the best anyway!

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

If you miss her so badly, why don't you simply write her again? Who knows, she may even write you back. I conversed with her briefly once, but my words apparently were not magic enough to elicite a second response from her.

But you might be luckier than me. Wishing you all the best anyway!

Thanks for wishing me the best.
But you obviously didn't read through this thread!

I've seen your posts.
You seem combative. Bitter. Expecting disappointment.
I can't imagine words with that foundation will be "magic enough" for anybody.

Kindness and warmth will get you to better places with women here.
Or anywhere for that matter.

 

[LTMMC]

Thanks for wishing me the best.
But you obviously didn't read through this thread!

I've seen your posts.
You seem combative. Bitter. Expecting disappointment.
I can't imagine words with that foundation will be "magic enough" for anybody.

Kindness and warmth will get you to better places with women here.
Or anywhere for that matter.

Why don't you simply let ME worry about my own problems, while you worry about YOURS?

 

[touchmysoul]

Is this the true unicorn?

I think what you are looking for is admirable and have thought the same thoughts as far as who I want to talk to and where I want it to go.
But gentlemen, just like real life it all comes down to chemistry. Every person wanting the same things will not be a good fit. It is rarely personal so do not take it personally.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

A nostalgic feel-good holiday bump for a woman who deserves the world.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

I'm feeling saucy!

A bump for a woman who deserves much better than the hand she's been dealt.

 

[one_love]

I'm feeling saucy!

A bump for a woman who deserves much better than the hand she's been dealt.

You just bumped a personal…that was posted in 2019…by a person with 5 posts. Guess the Rona affects everyone different.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

You just bumped a personal…that was posted in 2019…by a person with 5 posts. Guess the Rona affects everyone different.

Sure did!
She's a good friend. A lovely woman. My wife and I adore her beyond measure.
When life gets a little rough for her I bump this thread.
It might be an old personal but it's still a gateway to an awesome person!

 

[In_Mars_Orbit]

You just bumped a personal…that was posted in 2019…by a person with 5 posts. Guess the Rona affects everyone different.

Sure did!
She's a good friend. A lovely woman. My wife and I adore her beyond measure.
When life gets a little rough for her I bump this thread.
It might be an old personal but it's still a gateway to an awesome person!

Mackie, you're wonderful. Thank you! (And give Red a really good hug for me.)

Yes, I'm still around. Life has changed quite a bit from that initial post! It's complicated and delightful and challenging and filled with astounding depths of love and hope.

As for bumping this thread... you know what? A person can never have too many friends, and should never stop trying to be the best part of someone's day. Couldn't we all benefit from that?

Here's to love, wherever and however it finds you.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Mackie, you're wonderful. Thank you! (And give Red a really good hug for me.)

Yes, I'm still around. Life has changed quite a bit from that initial post! It's complicated and delightful and challenging and filled with astounding depths of love and hope.

As for bumping this thread... you know what? A person can never have too many friends, and should never stop trying to be the best part of someone's day. Couldn't we all benefit from that?

Here's to love, wherever and however it finds you.

 

[sapson]

Best part of my day

As a new member on lit reading through these threads and seeing the positivity and amazing people who are bringing warmth to one another.

 

[mr_d_w]

Yeah, I love this thread!

 

[In_Mars_Orbit]

As a new member on lit reading through these threads and seeing the positivity and amazing people who are bringing warmth to one another.

Welcome! There are so many wonderful people here. You'll find some of them!

Yeah, I love this thread!

It always makes me smile when I see it's been bumped again. What a sweet walk down memory lane!

 

[falkor207]

Welcome! There are so many wonderful people here. You'll find some of them!



It always makes me smile when I see it's been bumped again. What a sweet walk down memory lane!

Greetings Mars Orbit. Hope you're doing well in the new year! Since we last connected my home situation has had a turn around and trending back up. I appreciate all we had and wanted to wish you well!

 

[In_Mars_Orbit]

Greetings Mars Orbit. Hope you're doing well in the new year! Since we last connected my home situation has had a turn around and trending back up. I appreciate all we had and wanted to wish you well!

I'm so glad things are going well for you! I wish you all the best.

 

[cutcrystal]

First I was gutted because I had missed out on a post which dated back to 2019 and sent a PM saying so and wishing well. Whst was posted would have suited me in the here and mow. Imagine my surprise when I got a reply inviting me to chat. Oh God! And that was unmitigated disaster. I could not say anything that was apparently of any interest to the other party and got near zero responses to anything I said. Tearful and feeling that doomed feeling I simply gave up trying. There was simply going to be no connection. And I could not even get replies. So what was the point? The consensus was no spark. I do not have the answers. All I know was that I felt isolated and alienated and that this rudeness was something else - I mean no replies. At the end of the day it was just a totally unrealistic dream on my part. We were never going to connect. Chalk and cheese, manure and butter. Whatever the reason we couldn't even get through a fraction of a conversation. I write this because for each disaster in life there are still plenty of connections. And with any luck In Mars Orbit will connect. As for me I was searching for something preferable to my current isolation within a relationship and just encountered more of the same.

 

[In_Mars_Orbit]

First I was gutted because I had missed out on a post which dated back to 2019 and sent a PM saying so and wishing well. Whst was posted would have suited me in the here and mow. Imagine my surprise when I got a reply inviting me to chat. Oh God! And that was unmitigated disaster. I could not say anything that was apparently of any interest to the other party and got near zero responses to anything I said. Tearful and feeling that doomed feeling I simply gave up trying. There was simply going to be no connection. And I could not even get replies. So what was the point? The consensus was no spark. I do not have the answers. All I know was that I felt isolated and alienated and that this rudeness was something else - I mean no replies. At the end of the day it was just a totally unrealistic dream on my part. We were never going to connect. Chalk and cheese, manure and butter. Whatever the reason we couldn't even get through a fraction of a conversation. I write this because for each disaster in life there are still plenty of connections. And with any luck In Mars Orbit will connect. As for me I was searching for something preferable to my current isolation within a relationship and just encountered more of the same.

Wow. I'm very sorry you feel that way.

This would have been much better served as a PM, since it seems you took our extremely brief conversation quite personally. I apologize that I can't provide you with the sounding board you need, but I won't apologize for no "spark" as that's not something anyone can control. It simply is, or isn't.

I hope you find what you are looking for. I'm sure it's out there. I wish you all the best.

 

[Jakevillines]

Wow. I'm very sorry you feel that way.

This would have been much better served as a PM, since it seems you took our extremely brief conversation quite personally. I apologize that I can't provide you with the sounding board you need, but I won't apologize for no "spark" as that's not something anyone can control. It simply is, or isn't.

I hope you find what you are looking for. I'm sure it's out there. I wish you all the best.

Awkward.

 

[In_Mars_Orbit]

Awkward.

Indeed.

 

[NC_Coastal]

Quiet desperation is the English way.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Well damn I missed some shit didn't I? Wow.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

OK so some people give me all sorts of shit when I bump this "old" thread but believe me...
She's worth the bump (and the bumping, so I hear).

My dear friend is having a ROUGH weekend and I thought maybe some of the gentlemen of Lit might like to make her acquaintance.

(You're welcome in advance.)

 

[Acd_1]

I know this a very old personal. I am new here and so far not really impressed.

What would one have to do to even be answered??? Even "Begone!!"??

I have reacted to a few posts but.......

Happpy days I suppose. It is what it is...