Life after first sharing experience

[bill3901]

Hubby seems to think me with another women may trump that..haha

well it's not taboo per say, but in my case since my wife is not really into it and has never done it and probably a year ago would never have considered it, it might be more taboo

 

[lynn-23]

Not sure what made it so hot? Maybe because it is forbidden? What ever it was made us close. We found a single man on here. He was very respectful and courteous. Which is a hard thing to find. My husband is the only man i ever had sex with so it was definitely a different experience for me

How old were/are you all? Were you the pill?

 

[bill3901]

How old were/are you all? Were you the pill?

lynn, you ask great questions!

 

[Pretty_kitty169]

lynn, you ask great questions!

I am 34, not on pill. We used condoms

 

[Pretty_kitty169]

I am 34, not on pill. We used condoms

Hubby is 38, other guy was 40

 

[magicalmoments]

It is a overwhelming roller coaster of emotion. In the end you have to remember how much you trust one another

That overwhelming roller coaster of emotion you mention is what resonates with me. It has stayed with me as fresh as though it was yesterday and that first time for me was 30 odd years ago.

Your other point about trust and communication is also key to this type of fun being successful. That caused our hiccup the morning after but was quickly dealt with. Good luck for a long and happy exploration through the future.

 

[Doopey]

Was there instant gratification and a desire that you want to do it again sometime? or was there a period of discussion to figure out how you both felt about it?

 

[Pretty_kitty169]

Was there instant gratification and a desire that you want to do it again sometime? or was there a period of discussion to figure out how you both felt about it?

There is a period of discussion afterword for us.

 

[CuriousFF]

This is a thread I will be watching and reading. This is something my wife and I have been talking about, her being shared and me being shared.

 

[patientlee]

Sharing happened for other than the usual reasons - led to a threesome.

"Life after" has only been a few months.

Do tell, Ms. Mustard.

 

[SandraMustard]

I did PL, as PanhandlePatty.

So far, so good.

 

[patientlee]

I did PL, as PanhandlePatty.

So far, so good.

I will read through that thread this weekend. I did read one or two of the posts. I don't come here too often though, so I lost track of it.

You devil.

 

[SandraMustard]

I will read through that thread this weekend. I did read one or two of the posts. I don't come here too often though, so I lost track of it.

You devil.

Do you really mean that I am a bad person?

I've changed, so has Jack. It has brought new excitement for BOTH of us so I believe it's been the right thing to do at this time ... for us.

 

[patientlee]

Do you really mean that I am a bad person?

I've changed, so has Jack. It has brought new excitement for BOTH of us so I believe it's been the right thing to do at this time ... for us.

I didn't get a chance to read it this weekend. I didn't take out the computer once, and my damn phone forgets to charge itself. I planned to get some reading and writing done, but that didn't really happen.

I'll try to read through it tonight, so I can tell if you truly are a devil.