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I've got a question. Do you ever experience lack of confidence, or insecurity?
I used to all the time, all damn day. My tattoo of lavender under my breast is for my anxiety as lavender calms me. I dont want to get into details of everytihng but I had experienced a major trauma a couple years back and something changed inside of me and now I just dont give a single F what most people think (obviously that doesnt mean my parents and family or manager or best/close friends etc) and then being on a place like this where I do get to hear more than my share of compliments about my body or me in general, it just continually fills my confidence meter up as well. I think I have a lot to offer in a variety of areas and while there are plenty of things that get me down in terms of maybe career or my health or whatever, or if I have some issues with a friend or family member, overall I tend to think...hell yeah, I can do this, hell yeah I rock/you dont know what yer missing!...that sort. So I am anything but egotistical I think, but confident? Even if its sometimes a false bravado, I try to remain as confident as I can!
 
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I used to all the time, all damn day. My tattoo of lavender under my breast is for my anxiety as lavender calms me. I dont want to get into details of everytihng but I had experienced a major trauma a couple years back and something changed inside of me and now I just dont give a single F what most people think (obviously that doesnt mean my parents and family or manager and or best/close friends etc) and then being on a place like this where I do get to hear more than my share of compliments about my body or me in general, it just continually fills my confidence meter up as well. I think I have a lot to offer in a variety of areas and while there are plenty of things that get me down in terms of maybe career or my health or whatever, or if I have some issues with a friend or family member, overall I tend to think...hell yeah, I can do this, hell yeah I rock/you dont know what yer missing!...that sort. So I am anything but egotistical I think, but confident? Even if its sometimes a false bravado, I try to remain as confident as I can!
@LilKitKat I think the topic of self confidence somehow is related the cultural things or how a given nation think about it.

I saw many times that people confuse an arrogant person with a confident person, especially in the case of athletes.

Self confidence means for me that I am in harmony with myself, my core values, my believes, my limits, my strong and weak points while be more and more conscious and practise self control.
If I practise the above things and communicate properly I can be honest as well.

If somebody read carefully the book "The Art of War" it talks about the self-awareness and the continuous risk management as well.
 
Hey all. Not sure how much Ill be on this weekend. Heading to the gym in a moment, then gotta do some chores, take my dog out for a good stroll, planning on seeing some friends tonight and unsure tomorrow but possibly out for breakfast before chillin on the last day of rest before the world definitely returns to work on Monday. Ill try to check in a bit, but no promises.
So with that said, enjoy your Saturday and Sunday too, and see ya on Monday...

oh and...despite a few messages asking otherwise, I am not reposting either of those two recent pictures without the emojis haha. Hopefully there is enough there or in my thread in general to fuel your fantasies and get the blood flowin! :devilish:

Enjoy your weekend!!! Be safe, be well! And thanks again for all of the love on here! I super appreciate you all!
😘😘😘
 
Hey all. Not sure how much Ill be on this weekend. Heading to the gym in a moment, then gotta do some chores, take my dog out for a good stroll, planning on seeing some friends tonight and unsure tomorrow but possibly out for breakfast before chillin on the last day of rest before the world definitely returns to work on Monday. Ill try to check in a bit, but no promises.
So with that said, enjoy your Saturday and Sunday too, and see ya on Monday...

oh and...despite a few messages asking otherwise, I am not reposting either of those two recent pictures without the emojis haha. Hopefully there is enough there or in my thread in general to fuel your fantasies and get the blood flowin! :devilish:

Enjoy your weekend!!! Be safe, be well! And thanks again for all of the love on here! I super appreciate you all!
😘😘😘
Work a good sweat … one way or another… enjoy
 
Hey all. Not sure how much Ill be on this weekend. Heading to the gym in a moment, then gotta do some chores, take my dog out for a good stroll, planning on seeing some friends tonight and unsure tomorrow but possibly out for breakfast before chillin on the last day of rest before the world definitely returns to work on Monday. Ill try to check in a bit, but no promises.
So with that said, enjoy your Saturday and Sunday too, and see ya on Monday...

oh and...despite a few messages asking otherwise, I am not reposting either of those two recent pictures without the emojis haha. Hopefully there is enough there or in my thread in general to fuel your fantasies and get the blood flowin! :devilish:

Enjoy your weekend!!! Be safe, be well! And thanks again for all of the love on here! I super appreciate you all!
😘😘😘
Oh yes, blood and other fluids 🍆 💦

Enjoy your weekend little kat ❤️🥰
 
I used to all the time, all damn day. My tattoo of lavender under my breast is for my anxiety as lavender calms me. I dont want to get into details of everytihng but I had experienced a major trauma a couple years back and something changed inside of me and now I just dont give a single F what most people think (obviously that doesnt mean my parents and family or manager or best/close friends etc) and then being on a place like this where I do get to hear more than my share of compliments about my body or me in general, it just continually fills my confidence meter up as well. I think I have a lot to offer in a variety of areas and while there are plenty of things that get me down in terms of maybe career or my health or whatever, or if I have some issues with a friend or family member, overall I tend to think...hell yeah, I can do this, hell yeah I rock/you dont know what yer missing!...that sort. So I am anything but egotistical I think, but confident? Even if its sometimes a false bravado, I try to remain as confident as I can!
I’m so honored to know you. You’re an incredible woman and just a pure gift and treasure here on Lit!!!
 
I used to all the time, all damn day. My tattoo of lavender under my breast is for my anxiety as lavender calms me. I dont want to get into details of everytihng but I had experienced a major trauma a couple years back and something changed inside of me and now I just dont give a single F what most people think (obviously that doesnt mean my parents and family or manager or best/close friends etc) and then being on a place like this where I do get to hear more than my share of compliments about my body or me in general, it just continually fills my confidence meter up as well. I think I have a lot to offer in a variety of areas and while there are plenty of things that get me down in terms of maybe career or my health or whatever, or if I have some issues with a friend or family member, overall I tend to think...hell yeah, I can do this, hell yeah I rock/you dont know what yer missing!...that sort. So I am anything but egotistical I think, but confident? Even if its sometimes a false bravado, I try to remain as confident as I can!
“The most beautiful thing you can wear is your confidence.”

And seeing how gorgeous everything else is about you, it is evident how attractive your confidence is.

You are who you are, the sum of your experiences - good and bad - and you are loved.

Have a good rest of your weekend!
 
“The most beautiful thing you can wear is your confidence.”

And seeing how gorgeous everything else is about you, it is evident how attractive your confidence is.

You are who you are, the sum of your experiences - good and bad - and you are loved.

Have a good rest of your weekend!
Thank you so very much. I absolutely appreciate you and your humor, the music videos and pics posted, the stories you have shared and your friendship!
 
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