Looking for instruction on being a sub male

[onceburned]

be nice someone handed out manuals..

Woukln't it, though?

But Sweetdommes suggested one way to do it. Me, I always click on the "Quote" button that is in the lower right hand corner of each message.

 

[SweetDommes]

Woukln't it, though?

But Sweetdommes suggested one way to do it. Me, I always click on the "Quote" button that is in the lower right hand corner of each message.

I actually suggested two ways to do it.

 

[Seduce]

i have no idea how to make those little boxed in frames and didnt know ya had to be so particular about how ya write to people.

be nice someone handed out manuals..

so much for being nice and trying to help, huh?

i'm sorry. i see again a good deed never goes unpunished......

its too bad....and i had hope for people being nice?

ok
i quit
i';m sorry

If you were reading other people posts more carefully, you would notice how they quote each other all the time.
Sometimes you answer after couple of other posts, and is good to know whom you are actually addressing.

SweetDommes is right, we were only trying to help you.

And the user manual on vbcode you may actually find here

Edited to say: You have FAQ as well. And search option too, for anything specific you want to know, so you dont have to start thread that has already been around and mostly answered.
And every board has "sticky" thread in which you may read why and how particular you should be to write to people.

Am I not being nice and helpful?

 

[onceburned]

I actually suggested two ways to do it.

oh darn. That ought to teach me not to post when I am sleepy!
(although.... I will probably do it again)

 

[AAkasha]

i have no idea how to make those little boxed in frames and didnt know ya had to be so particular about how ya write to people.

be nice someone handed out manuals..

so much for being nice and trying to help, huh?

i'm sorry. i see again a good deed never goes unpunished......

its too bad....and i had hope for people being nice?

ok
i quit
i';m sorry

If this is the way you react to someone pointing out a correction on how to post on a board on the Internet, I would hate to think how you, as a service slave, react when your Mistress points out you didn't clean something properly.

You aren't being punished, and it's not like anyone flamed you. Are you always so overly-sensitive about correction?

Akasha

 

[Her sissy slave]

define

If this is the way you react to someone pointing out a correction on how to post on a board on the Internet, I would hate to think how you, as a service slave, react when your Mistress points out you didn't clean something properly.

You aren't being punished, and it's not like anyone flamed you. Are you always so overly-sensitive about correction?

Akasha

define over sensitive. i dont recall being told i had to answer to you or anyone else....yet i am called to answer because someone has their back hairs up over some stupid thing with posting? oh puh leeeze. get something real to worry about. this is stupid to even discuss.

this is wasting my time...ok?
leave it be and drop this for pity sake.
as if it matters in the big picture of the planet? right?

NOT!

 

[AAkasha]

define over sensitive. i dont recall being told i had to answer to you or anyone else....yet i am called to answer because someone has their back hairs up over some stupid thing with posting? oh puh leeeze. get something real to worry about. this is stupid to even discuss.

this is wasting my time...ok?
leave it be and drop this for pity sake.
as if it matters in the big picture of the planet? right?

NOT!

The reason your mailbox is empty is because you have a bad attitude
You are angry, resentful, and cranky. Who wants a guy around 24/7 who has a stick up his ass and any suggestions for change rants, "I am what I am!"

Well, if you want to seriously connect with someone, you have to be at least semi pleasant so someone wants to be in the same room with you.

The reason it's "important" to figure out how to post here is so that people don't misunderstand your posts -- pure and simple. Sure, it's not a "rule", but a lot of people sure as hell don't want your words mistaken for theirs, can you see why?

Apparently you finally figured out how to do it and use it, so the big rebellious streak is gone. Why couldn't you laugh it off and say "Oops!" like most people? No, instead, you have to tirade on and one about how bad your life is and you don't need to follow rules and you are big boy and blah blah blah.

Please. Enough already.

Akasha

 

[LunarKitten]

Sorry. Im a straight sub male, new to the BDSM scene. I have an off and on girlfriend that is introducing me to the sceene but while its fun, she doenst teach me... she justs commands, and we have little interaction. I am into alot of fantasy and roleplaying... daddy/daughter, mother/son, watersports, light pain (scratching, spanking, nothing heavy) sex in public... all within the relm of having a 24/7 dom/mistress

I wana learn more about becoming a better sub for my partner, and reading more on the dom/sub relationship. Also get tips from sub males, or dom feamales on what they want/expect out of a sub male.

Hmmm...well, within the confines of your on again off again relationship, you can begin to learn what she likes and how by what and how often she commands you to do something. If she tells you to get on your knees, then bends over and positions your legs to where she likes, try to remember exactly the position and repeat it the next time - she might even remark on this to you later.

Basically, training merely teaches you what the trainer likes and dislikes. You can grab a copy of Emily Post's Ettiquette, if you want to learn the proper ways to do things. Otherwise your only choice is to go to her and have a heart to heart conversation on what she likes and expects. Then you will have something concrete to work on. If she likes English tea service, Emily Post has an excellent entry. If she likes to entertain, offer to serve - also in Emily Post.

Go into detail with her. Ask her about kneeling positions, ask her about body language.

Good luck!