Thank you for the question Barbelle. I've been thinking about it all day to try to come up with an answer.
It's a longish one so I crave your indulgence.
In the four years I've been exclusively into women I would think I have had more lovers who would be described as butch than femme. Maybe 3 to !. As I may have said I met Kat at a Munch. I'd only gone along with a couple whose wife and I had played together (he is her sub). I was very attracted to Her straight away. Taller than me, dressed in jeans, tee and leather jacket, longish hair in a ponytail and glasses (oh my god its one of my biggest attractions to any woman, beautiful eyes in glasses). She actually came over and chatted to me and we got on well but didn't exchange numbers. It took Her four days to track me down and invite me on a date. That was when She explained that She is a Domme. I was intrigued. I had spanked lightly and been spanked lightly during sex but that was all. We went out again and I asked more questions. On our third date (and that's where the picture came from) She asked me outright if I was prepared to try submission to Her. I jumped at the chance and her I am now.
I guess the simple answer is about a month after I met Her though the spark had been lit the first night
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