Male bisexuality and the Kinsey scale

[LoftyCraig]

Scored a 2, which is probably accurate.

took this a few times, usually a 4

 

[alan59]

I scored 5 which is basically gay with some Herero tendencies. I think that is quite accurate.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

Scored a 4 which I would have said before taking the test.

I find women physically attractive, but mainly in an envious way...love how they look, how they walk, the way they carry themselves. When I see an attractive man, I am "checking him out" imagining his naked.

 

[Crios]

A "3" here which I believe is accurate. If I'd taken this test 30 years ago (I'm in my 60s now), I'm sure I would've scored close to 100% hetero

 

[saintcero]

I tested to a 3 also. I would summarize as emotionally = hetero and physically = bi

 

[MichelleD55]

I got a 3.
I've always been turned on by women. I was not turned on by guys or even thought about sex with them when younger. Then in my 40's I would enjoy gay porn and get turned on thinking about sucking a cock or getting fucked, but mostly when I was cross dressed.

 

[Crios]

I got a 3.
I've always been turned on by women. I was not turned on by guys or even thought about sex with them when younger. Then in my 40's I would enjoy gay porn and get turned on thinking about sucking a cock or getting fucked, but mostly when I was cross dressed.

My experience was a bit similar although I started cross dressing and sucking my own cock when I was in my teens. Never thought of having anything to do with a man, however. I was definitely into girls and have had a very satisfying, happy life with my wife for the last 40+ years. However, in maybe the last ten years, I've been more and more attracted to men...first, just the "package/junk," then more and more the whole body. My wife pegs me regularly and, when she does, sometimes I'm fantasizing a male lover is fucking me for real.

 

[MichelleD55]

Many years ago I tried sucking my own cock but never got any closer than just the tip and couldn't stay there for more than a few seconds.
I wish I was more flexible and now couldn't even get close.
My wife tried pegging me, but had problems with the harness we had. I'm still trying to get her to consider a different harness.
I did get a Hismith fucking machine recently. I love it and it works great. All the reviews you read about it are not out of line.

 

[J1biboi]

I took the test again, after 2 years I'm still a 3.

 

[bimori]

My experience was a bit similar although I started cross dressing and sucking my own cock when I was in my teens. Never thought of having anything to do with a man, however. I was definitely into girls and have had a very satisfying, happy life with my wife for the last 40+ years. However, in maybe the last ten years, I've been more and more attracted to men...first, just the "package/junk," then more and more the whole body. My wife pegs me regularly and, when she does, sometimes I'm fantasizing a male lover is fucking me for real.

Oh wow this story could be mine. Started selfsucking at a young age then turned to crossdressing while selfsucking, toys in ass. I still love eating my cum daily and still love it. Oh by the way I scored a 3.

 

[Valendon]

I remember taking a Kinsey years ago, but don't think it had the same questions? At any rate, I'm a "3" on the current online version--equally hetero and homosexual--which is right on the money as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Xyzz90212]

I scored a 2, which seems pretty much right.

 

[starfish71]

I scored a 3... which is probably accurate... I have zero romantic/emotional interest in men, and actually only a passing physical attraction when out an about... for example I was at an event on a military base this weekend, and as I was walking around I noticed that I my head was only turned by good looking women, and not by good looking and fit men... did I notice that some were good looking and fit? Sure, but was not dwelling on it in the same way... at the same time, put a nice cock in front of me and I get a little weak in the knees (maybe more than a little)... show me a lingerie catalog and I am both admiring the models and thinking about how hot it would be to get fucked wearing the outfits...

 

[AncientAviator]

For a long time, the mantra about male bisexuality has been "you're either straight, gay, or lying", with the implication that "bisexual" men are really just gay men who aren't completely comfortable with a gay identity. Early studies measuring sexual arousal in self-identified gay, straight, and bisexual men seemed to support this.

Since then, it's been argued those studies used a self-selecting group of people as their sample (later studies of bisexual men did show arousal to both hetero and homosexual scenes), and social attitudes have also changed, so most people now acknowledge that male bisexuality does exist - something that probably shouldn't have been debated at all since we know that in Ancient Greek and Roman society it was common for individuals to have lovers of both sexes at some point in their lives.

However, my own limited impression is that most bisexual men have a strong if not overwhelming preference for one sex or the other. In other words, some "bisexuals" are mostly heterosexual men who are willing and able to engage in homosexual sex because that's what's available at the moment, or because they're kinky and like to try new things. Other "bisexuals" are primarily homosexual men who are willing and able to have sex with women.

Are there really a lot of men out there who are equally or nearly equally satisfied with a partner of either sex, without an overwhelming preference? What I'm getting at is the point that on the Kinsey scale of 0 (completely straight, no homosexual desires or experiences) to 6 (completely homosexual, with no heterosexual desires and experiences), male 1's and 5's are (I'm guessing) a lot more common than 3's (equally happy with both) or even 2 or 4's (leaning straight or gay, but quite happy in both worlds).

To me, it seems rather strange to take someone like Marlon Brando (probably a 1 on the scale) and Gore Vidal (probably a 5) and put them both in the same "bisexual" bin, when they have more in common with a 0 or a 6, respectively.

I'm not trying to start a flame war or offend anyone, but I am interested in people's take on this.

I'm in total agreement. There are guys who will receive a blow job from other guys but will not reciprocate or do anything else. On the opposite end are guys who identify as female and desire to get pregnant. I'm closer to the former. I'm into reciprocal blow jobs and frotting but no, kissing cuddling or anal.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Just took the test and I’m a 2.

I don’t have any emotional attachment to same sex but just have a desire for some occasional cock.

My desire for cock peaks about every 6 months. I think that's healthy. It certainly keeps me satisfied and happy. Plus it never gets old, from too much frequency

 

[dodgeboy2]

I have taken the test many time mostly always coming up somewhere in the middle, but I do find that if I take the test more so in the winter months my tendency towards homosexuality is stronger towards a full blown twink it can be funny that way at least for myself!

 

[Stom15720]

I am bi-sexual. 85% heterosexual, 89% homosexual. Interesting how that has changed over the years..... married to a woman but fantasize about sex with men.

 

[dodgeboy2]

I am bi-sexual. 85% heterosexual, 89% homosexual. Interesting how that has changed over the years..... married to a woman but fantasize about sex with men.

I hear you many days I am with my wife I am imagining it's a man below me with a nice tight hole, the few and I mean very very few time my wife sucks my cock I imagine it's some hot man's lips wrapped around it bobbing deep, truthfully it's nowadays the only way I can cum when she does because comparing her to all my other blowjobs she is at the bottom of the list (not that I would tell her that, but I have offered some tips in the past and bless her for trying but something she is I guess just not made to give them) and to make matters worse for me it is a turnoff that she is spits and is not a swallower.

 

[BiGuy999]

I scored a 2 but I'm pretty certain some weeks I could just as easily be a 5 or a 1.

Maybe I'm just weird but I find my fantasies change massively from week to week or even hour to hour.

When I read stories or watch porn I never really know where I'm going to end up on both the gay/straight and the vanilla/kinky scales. Often I'll start at one end of the scales thinking that's what I want but quickly find it's not working for me and in the end find out I actually wanted the complete opposite.

I don't doubt there are people who spend there whole lives with a fixed sexuality but personally I appear to be the complete opposite of that. My sexuality is so chaotic that I've given up even trying to tie it down or give it a name.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Yes, I got 2, but I sometimes have fantasies that would score 5 or 6. Does it matter?

 

[rc1989]

I scored a 3. My first 6 years were with guys. Enjoyed sucking dick more than even masturbation. Then 30 years married. Now more into jacking but have sucked 3 in last few years.

 

[cdstefi]

I recently managed to test myself on this.

I have no romantic attraction to men at all, I find us as a gender crass, dumb, assholes. I'm not physically attracted to male physiques the way I am to a shapely woman.

But, I've always been fascinated by cocks. Obviously I own one and have a lot of fun with it. And have always imagined how much fun I could have with somebody else's.

So after several years of dithering, selectiveness and filtering, I did finally hook up with a guy I genuinely liked (didn't fancy per se, not physically, but chatted and got on really well with) and we met, chatted, still got on well in meatspace, and we went back to his and I could not get out of my clothes and onto his dick fast enough. I had him in my hand, in my mouth, and OK not in my ass but I did enjoy him cumming on my cock.

Dunno where this puts me on any scale but I do now know I like cock

 

[SynareStar]

That is fantastic! Sounds like you had a great experience! Good for you. I have the same thought, that, I may start slowly, but once we got to his place, I'd be like a madman just craving to get his clothes off, look at his cock, see what it feels like in my hand, then my lips and tongue and in my mouth! I fantasize about anal as well, but the manual feeling and blow job would be the way I would like to start....I sometimes wonder that, if the mood is right, and I topok the plunge that I would become a razing cocksucker with the guy. I do wonder what his cock would feel like in my ass, and also wonder what it would feel like to have my cock in his ass....Once in, it would be hard not to become an animal and just pound him, or have him pound me....I masturbate a lot about these fantasies....Glad you took the plunge!

 

[SuperSissy]

I am a 3. Hopelessly normal.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

My score

Interesting.....I got a 3. I would have expected a 2, maybe a 1. Doesn't really matter, though. I am comfortable with my sexual interests since I accepted my desires as part of who I am as a person.

I just retook this test after 4 years, and I am still a 3. Honestly, as strong as my homosexual desires have become, I would have expected to have become a 4.