Male chastity device and US airport security

I'd have to agree. The TSA is the epitome of the extreme danger of giving stupid, petty people to much power.
 
I kind of understand what you are saying, Daddy. My sub asked me the other night if the chastity device was to be a permanent fixture. I asked him what he felt about that possibility, and he answered (as he often does) "That's your choice..." which doesnt really answer the question. (Yes I know it's my choice but what do you THINK? Fuck me, his submission is controlling sometimes :rolleyes:)

I thought about it a lot and I think that, while permanent chastity is likely to keep him subdued/willing/compliant, I feel he will have more of a sense of my control if I take the thing on and off at will. So that's what I have decided.

Of course when it's off he will not be permitted to self stimulate in any way and I THINK he will fess up if he does. We shall see. Or not see, as I possibly won't know, but I think he wont lie to me under certain conditions...

Am in the process of drawing up the Agreement between us and the punishment for that is going to be fucking horrible (for him, not me, obviously :D).
 
I kind of understand what you are saying, Daddy. My sub asked me the other night if the chastity device was to be a permanent fixture. I asked him what he felt about that possibility, and he answered (as he often does) "That's your choice..." which doesnt really answer the question. (Yes I know it's my choice but what do you THINK? Fuck me, his submission is controlling sometimes :rolleyes:)

Ah yes. That's when you need to make a statement rather than a question and tell him to tell you how he feels or what he thinks about something. And sometimes you need to tell him, "Whatever you want" is not an acceptable answer.

But also realize that it might be as simple as, "Whatever you want" to the sub. D/s can be kooky like that. It can be the simplest most complicated thing at times.

You'll figure it out as you go along. :)
 
Of course when it's off he will not be permitted to self stimulate in any way and I THINK he will fess up if he does. We shall see. Or not see, as I possibly won't know, but I think he wont lie to me under certain conditions...

Wait... He lies otherwise? ;)

I suspect self policing mind control is more powerful than restraint based control because he will have to make choices repeatedly, reinforcing his submission each time he does.
 
If he has the chastity device on then he is free to think of whatever he wants with the knowledge that he can't get an erection.

If you remove the device then he will have to consciously not think about arousing ideas or thoughts or risk getting an erection and thus disappointing you. Each time a naughty thought enters his head he will have to quickly dismiss it because he knows it is not what you want or allow.

The real fun comes when you purposely tease and torture him to see if you can get him aroused as he fights hard to not let it happen. ;)
 
Hmmm. I can see me achieving this when we live together but harder to achieve till then.


I am fortunate in that I am in contact with his ex Mistress, who was not his lover. (She is gay). She has told me what he responds best to so I have a head start. Certainly feminization works even when I am not present.

When he argues over the phone I tell him to put on something female. He does and he submits. I guess I just need to dress him every morning.
 
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