Married cocksuckers and finding a friend

[mayihaveanother]

I'm pretty sure I would be cool with receiving a blow job from another guy. I have had a few opportunities offered but I have hesitated to go ahead with it because I feel bad that I am not there yet on reciprocating. I just don't think I could give just any guy a blow job. I would feel like an ass to have some guy blow me and then not do the same for him.

I can only speak for me, but it is such a turn on for me to give pleasure with my lips, tongue, and mouth to either women or men, that I don't ever expect or need recip. Giving oral pleasure IS my pleasure!

 

[need2please72]

Some like to give it and some like to receive it. Everyone is different and cool

 

[crankyandtesty]

Chicago

 

[load69]

I can only speak for me, but it is such a turn on for me to give pleasure with my lips, tongue, and mouth to either women or men, that I don't ever expect or need recip. Giving oral pleasure IS my pleasure!

I agree...a nice load of hot cum is all that I would need.

 

[mayihaveanother]

I'm in Idaho but I visit western Washington once a month or so

I agree...a nice load of hot cum is all that I would need.

I'm in Vancouver WA... give me a shout if you're anywherenon the I-5 corridor

 

[mayihaveanother]

I'm in Idaho but I visit western Washington once a month or so

Tacoma is only a 2.5 hour drive, and I would love to wrap my lips around... well, you know.

 

[mayihaveanother]

I agree...a nice load of hot cum is all that I would need.

Yes indeed! Now I'm hungry!

 

[mayihaveanother]

Hi, 71 mwm in S FL, would like to find a married bud and enjoy chatting anytime.

would you be okay chatting with a recently widowed guy?

 

[Topher1972]

Tampa Bay Area looking for cock sucking buddy

 

[Up4fun&69]

My experience is this…
When I was married (both of us nudists), we met a couple new to nudism. Over time, about 10 years and two children for them, we spent enough time together that almost all boundaries came down. Lots of verbal and physical flirting. Two very competitive women, so challenges about handjobs and blowjobs and who could make who cum first. After my divorce, the couple asked me to join them in full, ongoing 3sum fun under the pretense that she had never been with anyone else but her husband. That play progressed from MFM, to MF, to MMF, to MM…all with her consent. Turns out that he was bi-curious and they knew I was safe and could be trusted. We played in the above combos for about 10 years, whenever we could.
When I moved away, I tried to meet other M for mainly oral play through many different channels…swingers websites, nudist websites, gay/bi websites, CL, Doublelist, etc. I’d say that in the past 10 years, 99% of the people I contacted, got to know, traded pics, and set up a first meet, flaked and were never heard from again. I met one M in my neighborhood who learned that I was a nudist and used that as a lead into more sexual conversations. We ended up meeting a couple of times. I met another M through a swingers websites. It was supposed to be for 3sum fun but he later admitted his MM curiosity and wanted just us to meet. We met up once. And I met another M through a dating website (even though my profile was just for women). We talked and as he lived nearby, we met twice.
So, through the past 10 years, out of all of the membership moneys for the websites, out of all of the time posting, reaching out, answering others reaching out to me, clearing the calendar and setting up meets, and then having those meets fall apart, I met 3 men. And what they all had in common was that 1) they were married, 2) they were following through on either their curiosity or urges, and 3) the spouse did not know. And as a result, those three men changed or canceled meetups a total of 20 times and only following through on those 5 times noted above. And all three stopped communications because it just got to be too hard to arrange meetups as the spouse’s schedules were so fluid, and because they felt guilty.
Now, that’s just my experience. And I know that others have had better experiences. (Plus, I am very careful about remaining did-free and many men I’ve connected with couldn’t care less, both single and married.) But I shake my head at the time and money I’ve wasted trying to connect with strangers online. I think that the best way to meet potential MM playmates is through friends or maybe friends of friends, especially if they are swingers or nudists, because there’s already a level of trust there. And if there are scheduling issues, that friendship or connection means that there’s understanding and a “control” in not getting too upset over it. Obviously, if the wife knows and supports it, it makes life simpler. But such situations are few and far between.
I recently moved to NE Florida. And in my first year here, I can tell you that the above still holds true. Fingers crossed I can break with the past record and find a regular playmate, one way or the other.

 

[trainnut]

I’ve been getting my dick sucked by other men since high school
I chilled out a bit when I got married but the decline in marital sex led back to getting relief from men
I had a crisis of conscience and decided being a receiver only wasn’t fair so I started to suck cock
I’ve grown to enjoy a hard penis in my mouth and ultimately taking the load and swallowing
I learned how to deep throat and not gag
I since got divorced and started dating a very sexual woman but the desire for cock hasn’t faded
It’s just part of my life

 

[novice68writer123]

My experience is this…
When I was married (both of us nudists), we met a couple new to nudism. Over time, about 10 years and two children for them, we spent enough time together that almost all boundaries came down. Lots of verbal and physical flirting. Two very competitive women, so challenges about handjobs and blowjobs and who could make who cum first. After my divorce, the couple asked me to join them in full, ongoing 3sum fun under the pretense that she had never been with anyone else but her husband. That play progressed from MFM, to MF, to MMF, to MM…all with her consent. Turns out that he was bi-curious and they knew I was safe and could be trusted. We played in the above combos for about 10 years, whenever we could.
When I moved away, I tried to meet other M for mainly oral play through many different channels…swingers websites, nudist websites, gay/bi websites, CL, Doublelist, etc. I’d say that in the past 10 years, 99% of the people I contacted, got to know, traded pics, and set up a first meet, flaked and were never heard from again. I met one M in my neighborhood who learned that I was a nudist and used that as a lead into more sexual conversations. We ended up meeting a couple of times. I met another M through a swingers websites. It was supposed to be for 3sum fun but he later admitted his MM curiosity and wanted just us to meet. We met up once. And I met another M through a dating website (even though my profile was just for women). We talked and as he lived nearby, we met twice.
So, through the past 10 years, out of all of the membership moneys for the websites, out of all of the time posting, reaching out, answering others reaching out to me, clearing the calendar and setting up meets, and then having those meets fall apart, I met 3 men. And what they all had in common was that 1) they were married, 2) they were following through on either their curiosity or urges, and 3) the spouse did not know. And as a result, those three men changed or canceled meetups a total of 20 times and only following through on those 5 times noted above. And all three stopped communications because it just got to be too hard to arrange meetups as the spouse’s schedules were so fluid, and because they felt guilty.
Now, that’s just my experience. And I know that others have had better experiences. (Plus, I am very careful about remaining did-free and many men I’ve connected with couldn’t care less, both single and married.) But I shake my head at the time and money I’ve wasted trying to connect with strangers online. I think that the best way to meet potential MM playmates is through friends or maybe friends of friends, especially if they are swingers or nudists, because there’s already a level of trust there. And if there are scheduling issues, that friendship or connection means that there’s understanding and a “control” in not getting too upset over it. Obviously, if the wife knows and supports it, it makes life simpler. But such situations are few and far between.
I recently moved to NE Florida. And in my first year here, I can tell you that the above still holds true. Fingers crossed I can break with the past record and find a regular playmate, one way or the other.

You nailed it perfectly. Though i'm not a nudist but I guess I'm a closet nudist. Grin. I can't afford to hook up with a stranger, the fear of being caught, etc. I'm sure there are Lots of regular married guys in my area that are in sexless marriages that would enjoy some bi-curious fun. But actually making that happen is basically impossible. But I like your thought of a friend of a friend kind of thing. Someone that you actually know and trust, especially if your married but not having sex, your wife knows and trusts them. I can retire in 6 months and I enjoy walking and hiking. So i hope that once retired I can be out there more. And maybe I will meet someone and have a friendship that leads to something more. One can always hope because no sex for 15 years is driving me batty. But I'm glad i re connected here because even if it's just in the cloud, having conversations with like minded guys, is helpful, even if it would never go beyond words on a screen.
MWM 56 bi-curious, sexless marriage

 

[DrewC40s]

Good point!!! I would take any clean safe cock that I could get right now. I will worry about his load later

If you lived out here in LV, I’d be happy to help!

Married bi man here. Haven’t had a fwb since my 20’s (mid 40’s now). Wish I could meet someone ideally married (so discrete), clean, and interested in a long term friendship with mutual enjoyment of all sorts.

I read stories all the time of that happening, but it’s so damned hard (no pun intended) to find…

 

[write_or_wrong]

My experience is this…
When I was married (both of us nudists), we met a couple new to nudism. Over time, about 10 years and two children for them, we spent enough time together that almost all boundaries came down. Lots of verbal and physical flirting. Two very competitive women, so challenges about handjobs and blowjobs and who could make who cum first. After my divorce, the couple asked me to join them in full, ongoing 3sum fun under the pretense that she had never been with anyone else but her husband. That play progressed from MFM, to MF, to MMF, to MM…all with her consent. Turns out that he was bi-curious and they knew I was safe and could be trusted. We played in the above combos for about 10 years, whenever we could.
When I moved away, I tried to meet other M for mainly oral play through many different channels…swingers websites, nudist websites, gay/bi websites, CL, Doublelist, etc. I’d say that in the past 10 years, 99% of the people I contacted, got to know, traded pics, and set up a first meet, flaked and were never heard from again. I met one M in my neighborhood who learned that I was a nudist and used that as a lead into more sexual conversations. We ended up meeting a couple of times. I met another M through a swingers websites. It was supposed to be for 3sum fun but he later admitted his MM curiosity and wanted just us to meet. We met up once. And I met another M through a dating website (even though my profile was just for women). We talked and as he lived nearby, we met twice.
So, through the past 10 years, out of all of the membership moneys for the websites, out of all of the time posting, reaching out, answering others reaching out to me, clearing the calendar and setting up meets, and then having those meets fall apart, I met 3 men. And what they all had in common was that 1) they were married, 2) they were following through on either their curiosity or urges, and 3) the spouse did not know. And as a result, those three men changed or canceled meetups a total of 20 times and only following through on those 5 times noted above. And all three stopped communications because it just got to be too hard to arrange meetups as the spouse’s schedules were so fluid, and because they felt guilty.
Now, that’s just my experience. And I know that others have had better experiences. (Plus, I am very careful about remaining did-free and many men I’ve connected with couldn’t care less, both single and married.) But I shake my head at the time and money I’ve wasted trying to connect with strangers online. I think that the best way to meet potential MM playmates is through friends or maybe friends of friends, especially if they are swingers or nudists, because there’s already a level of trust there. And if there are scheduling issues, that friendship or connection means that there’s understanding and a “control” in not getting too upset over it. Obviously, if the wife knows and supports it, it makes life simpler. But such situations are few and far between.
I recently moved to NE Florida. And in my first year here, I can tell you that the above still holds true. Fingers crossed I can break with the past record and find a regular playmate, one way or the other.

My experience has been very similar except for the nudism aspect, which I love buy don't get to practice much. If you're lucky, one in ten people will even respond to your ad/post/email. And only one in ten of those will even end up meeting you in person. So we're already at a one percent potential rate, with half to ninety percent of the ones you meet ending up with having fun in person. That means that enjoying three male FWBs and four MF couples took a hell of a lot of work. BTW, the best success with the guys was lunch hour meetups (no wife involved).

 

[johnlooking16]

It's been years for me, but I love to suck, and have since I was a young one. I'm in Mesquite NV, about an hour north of LV. Like many of you, in a sexless marriage and honestly would rather suck than fuck. I've always enjoyed going down on her after more than the lead up, and told her I love it when she asks me to clean up my mess. But, it's been over 2 years since there's been anything happening at home.

 

[Jodaily]

I’ve always been straight, but loved watching porn. Eventually realized I loved watching cocks. Went to a glory hole, after having seen a lot of vids with women on the other side of the wall. Well, the beard on the other side gave it away, but in for a penny in for a pound. Got an awesome blow job. Had to go back the next week for more fun, and was tempted to the dark side. Now I’m infatuated with sucking cock. Went there a time or two more, but worried about safety. Haven’t sucked since those times. Wife got seriously pissed when she found out I’d gone there. Oops. Ah well. Just jerk off fantasizing about it now. Would love to find a friend who wanted to trade blow jobs with me.

 

[oldladylove]

I love this thread. Am also married and love cock. But, I'm terrified of picking up something. My calculation is that the guy who sucks my cock has sucked plenty of other cocks too. Therefore there's a good chance of contracting something unpleasant and bringing it home. How do you guys deal with that?

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I’ve always been straight, but loved watching porn. Eventually realized I loved watching cocks. Went to a glory hole, after having seen a lot of vids with women on the other side of the wall. Well, the beard on the other side gave it away, but in for a penny in for a pound. Got an awesome blow job. Had to go back the next week for more fun, and was tempted to the dark side. Now I’m infatuated with sucking cock. Went there a time or two more, but worried about safety. Haven’t sucked since those times. Wife got seriously pissed when she found out I’d gone there. Oops. Ah well. Just jerk off fantasizing about it now. Would love to find a friend who wanted to trade blow jobs with me.

Did your wife just find out that you went to the ABS, or did she also find out that you sucked cock there?

 

[Jodaily]

Did you wife just find out that you went to the ABS, or did she also find out that you sucked cock there?

Stupidly left the receipt in my shirt pocket. Couldn’t lie to her so I had to tell her. Just not how many or how much I liked it. Would do it again if I knew it was safe. That’s why it would be so nice to find a local hubby to share with.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Stupidly left the receipt in my shirt pocket. Couldn’t lie to her so I had to tell her. Just not how many or how much I liked it. Would do it again if I knew it was safe. That’s why it would be so nice to find a local hubby to share with.

Did you tell her the whole truth? Or did you just say that you were there?

So did you get the receipt for getting or giving a blow job? Haha.

Wife pissed off about "How many" - times there? - cocks sucked?

"How much you liked it" - giving or getting Blow Jobs?

Also - Does your "tongue in cheek" tag line means what I think it does?

 

[Jodaily]

Did you tell her the whole truth? Or did you just say that you were there?

Well, I did kind of have to tell her what kind of place this was. It wasn’t til some time later what really happens at glory holes.

So did you get the receipt for getting or giving a blow job? Haha.

I’d have to say that first time was to get a blowjob. Having never been to an actual glory hole, I thought there might be a lady giving the bj. Ha, the beard gave it away. Felt mighty good,

Wife pissed off about "How many" - times there? - cocks sucked?

Didn’t really tell her how often or how many times. A gentleman never tells

"How much you liked it" - giving or getting Blow Jobs?

And no, never discussed how much I really enjoyed it, on either side of the wall.

Also - Does your "tongue in cheek" tag line means what I think it does?

Maybe, maybe not.

 

[docoral]

My experience is this…
When I was married (both of us nudists), we met a couple new to nudism. Over time, about 10 years and two children for them, we spent enough time together that almost all boundaries came down. Lots of verbal and physical flirting. Two very competitive women, so challenges about handjobs and blowjobs and who could make who cum first. After my divorce, the couple asked me to join them in full, ongoing 3sum fun under the pretense that she had never been with anyone else but her husband. That play progressed from MFM, to MF, to MMF, to MM…all with her consent. Turns out that he was bi-curious and they knew I was safe and could be trusted. We played in the above combos for about 10 years, whenever we could.
When I moved away, I tried to meet other M for mainly oral play through many different channels…swingers websites, nudist websites, gay/bi websites, CL, Doublelist, etc. I’d say that in the past 10 years, 99% of the people I contacted, got to know, traded pics, and set up a first meet, flaked and were never heard from again. I met one M in my neighborhood who learned that I was a nudist and used that as a lead into more sexual conversations. We ended up meeting a couple of times. I met another M through a swingers websites. It was supposed to be for 3sum fun but he later admitted his MM curiosity and wanted just us to meet. We met up once. And I met another M through a dating website (even though my profile was just for women). We talked and as he lived nearby, we met twice.
So, through the past 10 years, out of all of the membership moneys for the websites, out of all of the time posting, reaching out, answering others reaching out to me, clearing the calendar and setting up meets, and then having those meets fall apart, I met 3 men. And what they all had in common was that 1) they were married, 2) they were following through on either their curiosity or urges, and 3) the spouse did not know. And as a result, those three men changed or canceled meetups a total of 20 times and only following through on those 5 times noted above. And all three stopped communications because it just got to be too hard to arrange meetups as the spouse’s schedules were so fluid, and because they felt guilty.
Now, that’s just my experience. And I know that others have had better experiences. (Plus, I am very careful about remaining did-free and many men I’ve connected with couldn’t care less, both single and married.) But I shake my head at the time and money I’ve wasted trying to connect with strangers online. I think that the best way to meet potential MM playmates is through friends or maybe friends of friends, especially if they are swingers or nudists, because there’s already a level of trust there. And if there are scheduling issues, that friendship or connection means that there’s understanding and a “control” in not getting too upset over it. Obviously, if the wife knows and supports it, it makes life simpler. But such situations are few and far between.
I recently moved to NE Florida. And in my first year here, I can tell you that the above still holds true. Fingers crossed I can break with the past record and find a regular playmate, one way or the other.

It's very difficult to find a playmate today, nearly impossible. The websites are crap. I tried some pay sites and came up snake eyes. Silverdaddies flopped. AAF is a flop. Most that respond to profiles are not safe, liars or just lose interest when you show interest. I tried posting ISO married in need, got a few positive responses and then they disappear.

 

[sissinabra]

Completely agree !

BiggerCity is a place that I found that local playmates are available to chat and eventually meet .

Geared towards the heavier set , there are search preferences that will
Direct you to your preferred body type .
Hope you can find fun nearby !

 

[kccasey]

I’m in Kansas

Missouri here, what part of Kansas?