bigleonardo
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Married Men or Women
Obviously this guy was a wacko.....weather single or married, if a married man is having an affair with either a single woman or a married woman, he has to respect her freedom.....
One thing I do disagree, is that some men don't have sex with there wive's anylonger, yes it can be a line as my wife doesn't understand me any longer, but we are staying together for the kids....but in my case....my wife and I had a totally fulfilling sex life, until she had a minor heart problem, that had her in the hospital for a few days, it was cardiac arhytmia (sp) and to keep her heart beat normal....the medications that do that job, do stop the desire's in a woman, plus she is also on an anti depresentent and they also take the buzz out of either a guy or a girl.....
Hell I want my wife and her ticker to be fine....but occasionaly if i go out to play the person I am playing with knows full well of my position......and if she wants to that is simply up to her, but for me to put boundries on her would be sick...totally irresponsible....
SexyChele said:
Hmmm...I was going to avoid this, but especially after photo-god's comments I just couldn't pass it up.
Was it a turn on? No more or less than being with anyone else, really. He was just a man after all, not some sort of superior being.
Was it something that was more exciting than being with a single person Oh HELL no! Oh, yes, in the beginning everything was fun and easy. Then he fell in love with me. (contrary to photo-god's belief that it is a single woman who falls for the guy) Now, the thing was, if HE had a family commitment, it was all well and fine for him to cancel out on a date with me at the last minute. BUT, if I had an opportunity to go out with some one, and he and I weren't meeting up anyway, he would go ballistic. He didn't want to divorce his wife (the kids, after all, you know - and the house - and the business - and he might lose his truck - so MUCH to consider!), but he didn't want me going out with anyone else. I was to be at his beck and call 24/7, because of course, being married, he never knew when he could catch a few moments away from wifey-poo.
So, no, it wasn't more exciting than being with a single man. It was a hellish prison that I was thankful to finally have the sense to say good-bye to. At least with single men you don't get that double standard thing going on to that degree.
Plus, even though single men will lie, married men do it a whole hell of a lot better. Like the line, "My wife just won't have sex with me anymore"? Yeah, sure, uh-huh, whatever. More like, "My wife won't have sex as often as I want." BIG difference, guys. And any man who tells me they are married and don't have sex? Don't be surprised if I laugh in your face, cuz it IS a lie!
Did you feel a sense of getting caught which made it more exciting No, didn't have that. Why? Because we were caught. And getting caught is NO fun. Oh, of course, he just "accidently" left my phone number on the front seat of her car. And my picture just "happened" to fall out of the visor of his truck when his wife drove it to the store one day. Listening to a pathetic, crying woman on my answering machine begging me to leave her husband alone is anything BUT exciting.
Oh? And the real kicker? When his wife didn't know where he was, she would call me and then put their 5 year old son on the phone when I answered to asked where his "daddy" was. Yeah. That's what ended it. Nope. No excitement there. They were both wackos, and I'm thankful to have neither one of them in my life anymore.
Married men? Nope. No way. Never, ever again. Can't trust 'em, don't want 'em, totally uninterested in 'em. They have some one to take care of their "needs" - and if they think their wife isn't doing just that, then they need to look at their relationship and find out what is wrong instead of looking for a new bed to hop into.
Well? You did ask....
Obviously this guy was a wacko.....weather single or married, if a married man is having an affair with either a single woman or a married woman, he has to respect her freedom.....
One thing I do disagree, is that some men don't have sex with there wive's anylonger, yes it can be a line as my wife doesn't understand me any longer, but we are staying together for the kids....but in my case....my wife and I had a totally fulfilling sex life, until she had a minor heart problem, that had her in the hospital for a few days, it was cardiac arhytmia (sp) and to keep her heart beat normal....the medications that do that job, do stop the desire's in a woman, plus she is also on an anti depresentent and they also take the buzz out of either a guy or a girl.....
Hell I want my wife and her ticker to be fine....but occasionaly if i go out to play the person I am playing with knows full well of my position......and if she wants to that is simply up to her, but for me to put boundries on her would be sick...totally irresponsible....