married women

In all seriousness I cheated on my husband with other women and will regret it forever. It was not what caused the divorce that was merely the last straw but it made me feel bad about myself and feel even worse for what it did to him and he didn't deserve to be made to feel like that.

I doubt he was made to feel bad about you having sex with another woman
 
It's actually really hot. Especially if you're both on the same page. However feelings can get in the way on either side and then it's usually time to part ways. :( In our marriage i'm the outgoing flirty Gemini charmer :devil: and my wife is the exact opposite a Virgo. We stay together because we're so different I suppose.
 
chatman2

All my affairs were with married women as they too wanted to have a fling.
However I've regreted passing up a couple. One I was glad to pass up as she wanted me to come inside and I know she wanted an affair and two things stopped me as I found out her son to a previous marriage was home from school and she made a statement,"when I find what I want I'm not going to let go" One I really wanted to go out with made the statement in my office I could take her to lunch etc as her husband wouldn't mind. She even wanted to come back in my office and show me a good time. All my staff was watching the floor show as I would call it. Well I planned to go out the back door the next time she came in and talk to her out at her car, but she never came in again. I believe she told her husband as he always came in after that.
I had two husbands find out, and was lucky there was no problem. However my mother and sis in law knew about my affair as he went to talk to them when she left him a year or so and he thought she may have followed me to another state. I also hired an assistant and he told me my previous neighbor and friend of his had told him an FBI or investigator had come to him and asked if anyone was at my house meeting my first fling's description. I believe she had written some checks or something and they were looking for her.
It's a small world sometimes....Lucky my sis n law didn't tell my wife. Her husband even wrote me and said he loved her and wanted her back. I really didn't know where she was.
 
Over the years, I've had affairs with about 15 women who were married. Most middle aged, from about 39-55. I was married too (still am) and it was always sort of a "friends with benefits" type thing. Most of them were like me, basically ok in their marriage and not wanting to leave, just a bit bored and frustrated with the same old same old. I found that they (as I was) were much more willing to speak openly about their sexual needs than they were with their husbands. We were both more willing to accept each other's sexuality than our respective spouses (at least at the time). In some cases, their husbands seemed to have a major "madonna/whore" problem and couldn't accept their wives wanting semi-kinky sex. One wanted to suck her husband off in the car and he thought she was crazy. She also wanted to have sex in their backyard pool and he couldn't figure why anybody would want to do it in the open. I was willing to help her with both fantasies. She told me, "all my life I've been a good girl, did what my mom told me, did what the church told me, did what my husband told me. Now, I want to be bad for a change".

The above was the same in several cases.....husbands that just didn't want to listen and cooperate. In some cases, their husbands had physical erection problems but were unwilling to opt for viatra or to make better use of their tongues. Trust me guys, if you don't want to open up with your wives and go the extra mile with them, there's somebody else out there who will. I have to say that these were relationships were good for both of us, stayed uncomplicated (except in one case but that's another story) and I don't think any of us ever had any regrets and after several months (in two cases after several years) we went our separate ways with our marriages intact and with fond memories.
 
What's not to love about us married women? We do know more about how to please a man, woman............and their minds! Yes, many of us are naughty, we've had plenty of time to experiment!

Tifani

Could not say it in a better way ;-)
 
Everybody likes the married ladies! What is the reason? Experience? Does that really depend on marriage?
 
Everybody likes the married ladies! What is the reason? Experience? Does that really depend on marriage?

I think its several things... Its naughty, forbidden( or supposedly), sense of danger of being caught, since married it can be no strings attached, married women usually know what they want or know what they are missing and the guy wants to try and provide that...

What is your thought on it ?
 
This is an interesting thread.
I think the men get beaten up a bit in the whole 'cheating' perspective of the conversation.

Last time I checked, it took two WILLING, people to make love.

Just saying......
 
Everybody likes the married ladies! What is the reason? Experience? Does that really depend on marriage?

As a married woman -- not my wife -- once told me about the attraction of the married man, (and the same might apply for the married woman)...

Married men try harder.
 
How about a fetish for married yet separated women that have a divorce pending? I need to find a thread for that. In all seriousness I cheated on my husband with other women and will regret it forever. It was not what caused the divorce that was merely the last straw but it made me feel bad about myself and feel even worse for what it did to him and he didn't deserve to be made to feel like that.



Ouch! Seriously, I wish you would lay off boredVAwife--She is actually pretty nice, and I mean G.D., it takes time to sort ourselves out and its all got to be done as OJT. So just give her a break, eh?
 
<<<< I think its several things... Its naughty, forbidden( or supposedly), sense of danger of being caught, since married it can be no strings attached, married women usually know what they want or know what they are missing and the guy wants to try and provide that... What is your thought on it ? >>>

I think you are right on target. Most of the married women I've had relationships with were looking primarly for a "friends with benefits" type thing. In a couple of cases, their husbands actually had erectile disfunction issues and one even sort of gave tacit agreement to his wife to find another cock as long as she was super careful and discreet about it. In several cases, it was women who had husbands who just weren't that adventurous in bed or actually chastized and humiliated their wives and made them feel like whores for wanting more than just straight missionary fucking every Wednseday and Saturday. These women wanted to get out of chapter one of the "God Blesses the Married You" marriage manual and move to the advanced class of the "Joy of Sex". Their husbands were too busy watching football all Sunday afternoon.

In most cases, these women were essentially satisfied financially and socially in their marriages and had kids and didn't want some messy breakup. In a couple of cases, I met and spoke with several women that wanted to get out of their marriages and find somebody new. From them, I ran like hell. I didn't want any strings and complications and in most cases, there were never any arguments or ill feelings or emotional baggage. It was perfect. They were just looking for good raw physical sex with someone who wasn't ugly enough to scare dogs and smart enough to speak in complete sentences.
 
<<<< I think its several things... Its naughty, forbidden( or supposedly), sense of danger of being caught, since married it can be no strings attached, married women usually know what they want or know what they are missing and the guy wants to try and provide that... What is your thought on it ? >>>

I think you are right on target. Most of the married women I've had relationships with were looking primarly for a "friends with benefits" type thing. In a couple of cases, their husbands actually had erectile disfunction issues and one even sort of gave tacit agreement to his wife to find another cock as long as she was super careful and discreet about it. In several cases, it was women who had husbands who just weren't that adventurous in bed or actually chastized and humiliated their wives and made them feel like whores for wanting more than just straight missionary fucking every Wednseday and Saturday. These women wanted to get out of chapter one of the "God Blesses the Married You" marriage manual and move to the advanced class of the "Joy of Sex". Their husbands were too busy watching football all Sunday afternoon.

In most cases, these women were essentially satisfied financially and socially in their marriages and had kids and didn't want some messy breakup. In a couple of cases, I met and spoke with several women that wanted to get out of their marriages and find somebody new. From them, I ran like hell. I didn't want any strings and complications and in most cases, there were never any arguments or ill feelings or emotional baggage. It was perfect. They were just looking for good raw physical sex with someone who wasn't ugly enough to scare dogs and smart enough to speak in complete sentences.

There you have it. They just want the raw sex, someone to satisfy that need, for them to be wanted, leered at, seen for that sexuall appeal. No baggage..
 
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