goodsonformom
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This is such a great topic, Thank you Ron for opening Pandora's box. From a man who is now very masculine in appearance, but has his beginnings as a more submissive young male and has always recognized his bisexuality, I applaud this discussion. I don't know if the label masculine is being applied correctly, as many Dominant Gay men are very masculine. Can't this question be more appropriately discussed in the forum of are there any masculine males who desire to be with another masculine male? Of course, there are. I think what we may be talking about is a Bi-curious male or a male who believes he's a straight male and is in denial of his true desires or capacity to be with another male sexually. We read stories quite often about straight men turned Bi or Gay, for a wide variety of reasons. The question of whether the male in "question," is not if he is willing to be with a sissy or more feminine male, but is he more or less attracted to them. I've known plenty of masculine males who would only date or have a relationship with a sissy or more feminine male as it seemed closer to being with a woman. From my perspective, this makes far more sense for a man who struggles with his masculinity or is in denial of his own sexuality. I think much of this centers around the "cock"....many men would never admit to being intrigued by the power of the cock nor might they post on forums like this, but you might be surprised. I believe it's dangerous to attempt to pigeonhole a man's sexuality and desires into neat boxes. We all have had sexual and masculine experiences relating to men all of our lives, how those experiences have impacted us by opening and closing doors is varied and individual. There is a part of this world that is becoming more open and inclusive, and then there are those who are desperately holding on to past fears and judgmental rhetoric.On the LGBTQIA+ forum, there are many threads about "sissydom" and the desire to be a sissy. This desire is foreign to me, and, I think, to many gay and bisexual men. On one thread, the comment was made that masculine men don't post on forums like this and are mainly concerned with getting their rocks off. Suck, fuck, cum, go. Maybe that's true for many, but from my own personal experience of sex with other men, the best sex has been relational, even if it was only a brief relationship, The emotional side of sex is, in my opinion, powerful.
I would like to see posts from other masculine men who also have no desire to be a sissy, or even to be with a sissy. I'd like to test the waters to see if the comment referenced above is true, or if, as I suspect, other masculine men do actually post on forums like this.
So, masculine men, are you out there? And are you in touch with your emotions without losing your sense of masculinity? It will be interesting to see if this thread goes anywhere.
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