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Masturbating is my weakness!
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I love to masturbate also: )
Yeahhhhh! Finally, there are more woman out there who understand what it's like to have a HIGH, out of control sex drive--and I thought I was the only one! : )
I'm a 28 female and I didn't discover the joys of masturbation until my early 20s. I grew up Catholic (you know--the whole taboo subject of masturbation, guilt, blah blah). My boyfriend really taught me to open myself up sexually and I blame him for my addiction to masturbation (well, sex in general)hah.
I love to masturbate as well. I don't think there's anything weird or bad about the fact that we love to give ourselves pleasure. As women, it's a way of exploring our bodies and really getting in touch with our sexual needs and desires--thus, we can convey to our men/lovers what/how exactly we want/need to be sexually pleased. Also, I love to bring masturbation into the bedroom. I love to watch my boyfriend masturbate and he loves to watch me masturbate. It's just one big masturbation 'fest ; )
I was in a long distance relationship for a long time with him and he bought me many toys over the years (I have a nice collection now). We'd have phone sex and he'd love to hear me orgasm over the phone while playing with my toys. It was very erotic and really intensified and heightened our sex life. It can be the ultimate teasing before you fuck each other's brains out that next weekend--I loved it ; )
I always tease my boyfriend and tell him, guess how many times I masturbated today? It really turns him on--especially when I pleasure myself a lot during the day.
I love to masturbate and I love to orgasm. It's relaxing and fun and hey, if you're single--it's the safest form of sex : )
So to the women out there--masturbation is not a weakness--honey, it's power ; )So get out your toys, lube up, and enjoy pleasuring your pussies
And men--watch us sometimes--maybe you'll learn something new and learn a new technique to please your lover.
Have fun!
Javagirl
[Edited by Javagirl on 11-03-2000 at 09:03 PM]
Yeahhhhh! Finally, there are more woman out there who understand what it's like to have a HIGH, out of control sex drive--and I thought I was the only one! : )
I'm a 28 female and I didn't discover the joys of masturbation until my early 20s. I grew up Catholic (you know--the whole taboo subject of masturbation, guilt, blah blah). My boyfriend really taught me to open myself up sexually and I blame him for my addiction to masturbation (well, sex in general)hah.
I love to masturbate as well. I don't think there's anything weird or bad about the fact that we love to give ourselves pleasure. As women, it's a way of exploring our bodies and really getting in touch with our sexual needs and desires--thus, we can convey to our men/lovers what/how exactly we want/need to be sexually pleased. Also, I love to bring masturbation into the bedroom. I love to watch my boyfriend masturbate and he loves to watch me masturbate. It's just one big masturbation 'fest ; )
I was in a long distance relationship for a long time with him and he bought me many toys over the years (I have a nice collection now). We'd have phone sex and he'd love to hear me orgasm over the phone while playing with my toys. It was very erotic and really intensified and heightened our sex life. It can be the ultimate teasing before you fuck each other's brains out that next weekend--I loved it ; )
I always tease my boyfriend and tell him, guess how many times I masturbated today? It really turns him on--especially when I pleasure myself a lot during the day.
I love to masturbate and I love to orgasm. It's relaxing and fun and hey, if you're single--it's the safest form of sex : )
So to the women out there--masturbation is not a weakness--honey, it's power ; )So get out your toys, lube up, and enjoy pleasuring your pussies
And men--watch us sometimes--maybe you'll learn something new and learn a new technique to please your lover.Have fun!
Javagirl
[Edited by Javagirl on 11-03-2000 at 09:03 PM]
Java I couldn't agree more.
Your post was great. In my family we were all raised Catholic too. My cousin bought into the "good girls don't do that" and me well......, I have never smoked, drank, or done drugs, so I had to have SOME hobby!
Men can learn a lot from watching us masturbate, and vice versa. Also talking to each other during sex is important.
Letting each other know when something feels so good that it curls your toes, is necessary or its just flopping around on each other and not very fullfilling at all.
I began masturbating at a young age probably 9 or 10. Believe it or not, it was usually to the free Harlequin romances that come in the mail! Hey, I was easy then, what can I say.
I think people, women especially, who masturbate have a much healthier sex life and sexual drive than, people who claim they do not, most of which are lying through their teeth (except for my cousin).
All I can say is learn what brings you ECSTASY!
Your post was great. In my family we were all raised Catholic too. My cousin bought into the "good girls don't do that" and me well......, I have never smoked, drank, or done drugs, so I had to have SOME hobby!
Men can learn a lot from watching us masturbate, and vice versa. Also talking to each other during sex is important.
Letting each other know when something feels so good that it curls your toes, is necessary or its just flopping around on each other and not very fullfilling at all.
I began masturbating at a young age probably 9 or 10. Believe it or not, it was usually to the free Harlequin romances that come in the mail! Hey, I was easy then, what can I say.
I think people, women especially, who masturbate have a much healthier sex life and sexual drive than, people who claim they do not, most of which are lying through their teeth (except for my cousin).
All I can say is learn what brings you ECSTASY!
You go girlfriend : )
Yeah--you go girl : ) Amen X-tacy and no pun intended. Masturbation is great and I can't believe your 35 year old cousin has NEVER masturbated nor had an orgasm--that seems so foreign to me. She's missing out and I definitely agree that you need to buy her some toys : )
Masturbation does attribute to healthier, livelier sex life and also has been an interesting way to get know to know my body better and to get to know myself better as a woman in general.
To the men out there whose wives don't enjoy sex nor do they masturbate or experience orgasms--there's always a reason : ) Have you asked them why they don't like it or why they can't experience an orgasm? I believe that all women have the potential to enjoy sex--maybe not as much as I do ha--but I believe sexual pleasure is a must in life and for those women who don't enjoy it they are missing out big time...I don't know how anyone could NOT like sex ; )
There are so many taboos and sexual restrictions that have been placed on women re: sex and pleasure. Masturbation is clearly the ultimate of such taboos. I think there are a lot of women who don't admit to the fact that they masturbate because it's not considered "lady-like" and God forbid, they are portrayed as a slut. I hate these labels. You're not a slut or tramp if you pleasure yourself--if anything, you are very in tune to your body and your sexuality. Also, we get into those double standards--it's okay for the men to wank off but when it comes to a woman--women just don't do that--give me a break!
I always enjoy reading my boyfriend's subscription of Playboy--awesome articles. There was an excellent article this month by Jane Ransom describing how she likes to be pleased (by both men and women)--it was funny because she mentioned that there are a lot of women who really LIKE to fuck but are non-orgasmic because men need to realize what we need and how we like it haha...great article : ) A few great lines--if she still hasn't come yet and you are speeding up that doesn't mean you're going to hit your mark--you may be wayyyyy off base--as in, nowhere near her clit hah...I love it! Sorry--don't mean to male bash or anything...actually she was aiming the article at both men and women as lovers. She even slept with a porn star wowwww; )
Sorry I digressed--anyway, I'm glad you are on the same wavelength as me X-ctacy...maybe we should start a Masturbation Crusade and entice women all over the world to buy a vibe and get vibing : 0 ) hah.
Hey guys--I'm glad to read that you love the fact that us women like to play with our pussies : ) I know it's such a male fantasy but besides that--it gives you hope I know ; ) haha...yes, there are really women out there who truly love and crave and adore and really LOVE sex : ) (and masturbation).
Javagirl : )
Yeah--you go girl : ) Amen X-tacy and no pun intended. Masturbation is great and I can't believe your 35 year old cousin has NEVER masturbated nor had an orgasm--that seems so foreign to me. She's missing out and I definitely agree that you need to buy her some toys : )
Masturbation does attribute to healthier, livelier sex life and also has been an interesting way to get know to know my body better and to get to know myself better as a woman in general.
To the men out there whose wives don't enjoy sex nor do they masturbate or experience orgasms--there's always a reason : ) Have you asked them why they don't like it or why they can't experience an orgasm? I believe that all women have the potential to enjoy sex--maybe not as much as I do ha--but I believe sexual pleasure is a must in life and for those women who don't enjoy it they are missing out big time...I don't know how anyone could NOT like sex ; )
There are so many taboos and sexual restrictions that have been placed on women re: sex and pleasure. Masturbation is clearly the ultimate of such taboos. I think there are a lot of women who don't admit to the fact that they masturbate because it's not considered "lady-like" and God forbid, they are portrayed as a slut. I hate these labels. You're not a slut or tramp if you pleasure yourself--if anything, you are very in tune to your body and your sexuality. Also, we get into those double standards--it's okay for the men to wank off but when it comes to a woman--women just don't do that--give me a break!
I always enjoy reading my boyfriend's subscription of Playboy--awesome articles. There was an excellent article this month by Jane Ransom describing how she likes to be pleased (by both men and women)--it was funny because she mentioned that there are a lot of women who really LIKE to fuck but are non-orgasmic because men need to realize what we need and how we like it haha...great article : ) A few great lines--if she still hasn't come yet and you are speeding up that doesn't mean you're going to hit your mark--you may be wayyyyy off base--as in, nowhere near her clit hah...I love it! Sorry--don't mean to male bash or anything...actually she was aiming the article at both men and women as lovers. She even slept with a porn star wowwww; )
Sorry I digressed--anyway, I'm glad you are on the same wavelength as me X-ctacy...maybe we should start a Masturbation Crusade and entice women all over the world to buy a vibe and get vibing : 0 ) hah.
Hey guys--I'm glad to read that you love the fact that us women like to play with our pussies : ) I know it's such a male fantasy but besides that--it gives you hope I know ; ) haha...yes, there are really women out there who truly love and crave and adore and really LOVE sex : ) (and masturbation).
Javagirl : )
To all the women who enjoy masturbation: Way to go ladies!! I have been involved with a woman for some time who loves sex as much as I do (that means at least twice a day). When I am away on busines she has her toy box handy. (It can be distracting when she calls me at work and we do it over the phone.) It is great that you are open about it and enjoy it. We sometimes maturabet with each other and both enjoy the show. It is fun, safe, fun, relaxing, fun, healthy, and oh yeah... fun! I am glad there are those out there who will admit they enjoy it. Keep 'em wet and horny ladies, you'll be the better for it.
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Naughtie when wet!
First I want to thank everyone that has not just read my post, but actually took the time to leave a reply. THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!
Now, again, I did not say, masturbation was a weakness, I said it was MY weakness! I mean, I have tried to stop many times, but I just crave for that touch, that feel, that climax!!!!!!!!
I love sex, and when I can't get it,(b/c I am single) I just masturbate! I personally, would prefer to mastubate every day, than to sleep with a different guy every night!!! I love sex, but I love me more!!!!
So anyway, for all those who enjoy masturbating as much as I do, and you haven't left a reply, take a minute and do so. ok We would like to read about your desires and experiences too, concerning masturbation! ok Thank you.
It only takes a minute, to leave a reply.
Remember that!
First I want to thank everyone that has not just read my post, but actually took the time to leave a reply. THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!
Now, again, I did not say, masturbation was a weakness, I said it was MY weakness! I mean, I have tried to stop many times, but I just crave for that touch, that feel, that climax!!!!!!!!
I love sex, and when I can't get it,(b/c I am single) I just masturbate! I personally, would prefer to mastubate every day, than to sleep with a different guy every night!!! I love sex, but I love me more!!!!
So anyway, for all those who enjoy masturbating as much as I do, and you haven't left a reply, take a minute and do so. ok We would like to read about your desires and experiences too, concerning masturbation! ok Thank you.
It only takes a minute, to leave a reply.
Remember that!
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I think its brill...
I am 34, and been doing it every day since I was 14 or so!! I am just so glad that we can never ever run out of whats produced at the end of it!
Good on u girls for admitting u do it too like us blokes... only natural when u cant get anough I say x
I am 34, and been doing it every day since I was 14 or so!! I am just so glad that we can never ever run out of whats produced at the end of it!
Good on u girls for admitting u do it too like us blokes... only natural when u cant get anough I say x
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Masterbation fulfills a basic need, so I dont think there should be an stigma as to it being taboo. We do not feel guilty when we are sleepy, and go to sleep, nor eat when we are hungry. I think it perfectly wonderful you masterbate, and do so often. It shows you are in touch with your desires and passions and take control to see they are met.
The only way to learn to love another, is to truly love yourself, and, there is only one way one can find the "perfect lover" and that is to be one
The only way to learn to love another, is to truly love yourself, and, there is only one way one can find the "perfect lover" and that is to be one
I love this site! On average I masturbate 2-3 times on weekedays and 5-8 times on the weekend days. I am engaged and sexually satisfied, but can't control my added urges! My fiance is wonderful with meeting my needs, but since I can't be around him all of the time, I find myself so horny I just can't help myself! I have many female friends and they all love erotica and sex toys as much as me! They don't masturbate as much as me, but definately more than the average girl. It's nice to have a group of friends so open to discussing masturbation. We even went to pick some new toys out together just this last weekend! We went out for drinks and went to the sex shop (sometimes to the strip club instead it just depends!) We do that about once a month. Talk to your friends in town, you'd be surprised how high others sex drives can truly be. Maybe you can start your own masturbation club!
Right on breast y : )
You're a woman after my own libido hon : ) I WISH I had some female friends to go toy shopping with...you're not on the West Coast by chance? haha
My man pleasures me fully as well but I'm constantly horny 24/7 and the Net doesn't help me either hah...all that erotica at my fingertips : )
Maybe that's why I'm searching to fulfil my curiosity to be with a woman...to be completely and sexually free and open and satisfy all my horny, lusty urges : )...and I'd love to mutually masturbate in front of a woman as well hehehe...sorry I've digressed here--once again!
Masturbation and fantasy are a beautiful combo..add toys and voila!
Maybe you and I should start a Masturbation Club--masturbators of the world unite.
Keep the comments flowing
Javagirl
You're a woman after my own libido hon : ) I WISH I had some female friends to go toy shopping with...you're not on the West Coast by chance? haha
My man pleasures me fully as well but I'm constantly horny 24/7 and the Net doesn't help me either hah...all that erotica at my fingertips : )
Maybe that's why I'm searching to fulfil my curiosity to be with a woman...to be completely and sexually free and open and satisfy all my horny, lusty urges : )...and I'd love to mutually masturbate in front of a woman as well hehehe...sorry I've digressed here--once again!
Masturbation and fantasy are a beautiful combo..add toys and voila!
Maybe you and I should start a Masturbation Club--masturbators of the world unite.
Keep the comments flowing
Javagirl
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I Love to Masturbate
I sure would like to meet soem of you ladies that are as open with your sexual attitudes. I am 57 and have been masturbating since I was 12 because my sexual libido is so high. My wife doesn't want sex and she would rather die than to masturbate. I just wish I could get her to open up like you sweet ladies. Yes I have tried therapy. She doesn't think there is anything wrong with her, so why should she go to therapy. I have no choice but to masturbate. However, I enjoy masturbating so much I think I would still do it even if I could fuck every day. Damn, wouldn't that be a dream come true!!!!!
Keep those pussies lubricated, ladies. I love it.
Jay
I sure would like to meet soem of you ladies that are as open with your sexual attitudes. I am 57 and have been masturbating since I was 12 because my sexual libido is so high. My wife doesn't want sex and she would rather die than to masturbate. I just wish I could get her to open up like you sweet ladies. Yes I have tried therapy. She doesn't think there is anything wrong with her, so why should she go to therapy. I have no choice but to masturbate. However, I enjoy masturbating so much I think I would still do it even if I could fuck every day. Damn, wouldn't that be a dream come true!!!!!
Keep those pussies lubricated, ladies. I love it.
Jay
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No seriously, Ive enjoyed reading everyone's reply to these posts. Hey I have to tell you, you dont need to have a high sex drive to masturbate.
Im a 24 year old male and my wife and I love to masturbate together or over the phone when were apart. Our sex life is getting better-kinda fell apart when we had kids- but ill tell you one thing, masturbation is the cure all.
You're suffering from alot of stress at home or work, pop one off and you're instantly relaxed. Who needs those $5.00 squeeze toys!
You cant sleep at night? Instead of grabbing that sleep aid, pop another off and in minutes youll be out cold. And you'll get a great nights sleep!
No seriously, Ive enjoyed reading everyone's reply to these posts. Hey I have to tell you, you dont need to have a high sex drive to masturbate.
Im a 24 year old male and my wife and I love to masturbate together or over the phone when were apart. Our sex life is getting better-kinda fell apart when we had kids- but ill tell you one thing, masturbation is the cure all.
You're suffering from alot of stress at home or work, pop one off and you're instantly relaxed. Who needs those $5.00 squeeze toys!
You cant sleep at night? Instead of grabbing that sleep aid, pop another off and in minutes youll be out cold. And you'll get a great nights sleep!
What a weakness...
Is there a more enjoyable weakness to have?
I think about masturbating every day and sometimes just can't wait to get home to cum.
Revel in your weakness and discover what makes your nipples pop and your clit ache.
Like most, I would love to watch you masturbate for me and vice-versa.
Keep it wet and let me know how she blows.
Is there a more enjoyable weakness to have?
I think about masturbating every day and sometimes just can't wait to get home to cum.
Revel in your weakness and discover what makes your nipples pop and your clit ache.
Like most, I would love to watch you masturbate for me and vice-versa.
Keep it wet and let me know how she blows.
Hi, I masturbate frequently, even when reading my own stories.
I have never seen it as a problem even before I was widowed I masturbated and my husband loved to watch.
Some time ago a lady of, I think, 46 discussed her masturbating. I often wish she had contacted me. No I do not think there is any problem. I love it
I have never seen it as a problem even before I was widowed I masturbated and my husband loved to watch.
Some time ago a lady of, I think, 46 discussed her masturbating. I often wish she had contacted me. No I do not think there is any problem. I love it
I'm so glad to know there are other women like me. I love to masturbate and have since I was a child. I'm happily married to a man who has a very strong sex drive but I still masturbate every day. Even when I'm totally satisfied from great sex with him I have an overpowering urge to play with my pussy. I love masturbating after sex and rubbing his cum all over my clit. Watching a man masturbate is a huge turn on for me also. My orgasms are more intense from masturbation than any other type of sex although I cannot go for long periods of time ( more than 2 days) without the "real thing" Would love to exchange stories with any of you who share my obsession. Email me at bubette@literotica.org
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