Masturbating to someone else?

[Ginger_McHale]

Why the fuck would I ever masturbate to thoughts of my wife?

Isn't reality enough? LOL

Why the fuck even bother to answer if you are just going to be an asshole?

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I usually think of My girl with one of her family members.

 

[Whtfang2]

People seem to not be able to read. The thread says MASTURBATION, not sex. God what's so hard to understand?

He is aware, of course.

When I was married, (and since) my X and partners were part of my masturbation fantasy though as i eventually found out it only came between us in the end

 

[BongoGal]

Typically, my masturbation fantasies rarely involve current SOs.

 

[Mropietaylor69]

Typically, my masturbation fantasies rarely involve current SOs.

My only masturbation fantasy revolves around bongo gal. ssshhhh dont tell her

 

[vegasflasher]

wo am I thinkin about??

I certainly would "not" think about my SO when taking care of my business. If I have to take care of myself then there's something wrong in the relationship. Of course I don't have to worry bout that any more, she's in Utah and I'm down here in FABULOUS LASVEGAS!!

 

[Whtfang2]

I have never considered masterbation as something I had to do , but rather it can be convenient at times. I never thought of it as a reflection on the condition of any relationship I was in. I guess it would be if one were to choose it over their SO

 

[vegasflasher]

Before we separated I would sometimes take care of my self. But it was usually when she was not home and never was she in my fantasy. Like someone else said why would you want to fantasize about the one you're always with? To me, that did not mean I still didn't love her. course that was about 2 -3 years ago.There's just something about being told "rather" forcefully to get out and take your whiskey bottles and your friends with you!!!! My two other roommates were living with us up there in Ut. So us three guys cum back home here and are living very happily ever after!!!

 

[jhuson]

Doooh!

 

[pete]

I had been thinking about this for quite a while. Every time I masturbate I have a bit of a hard time thinking about my SO. I don't believe that it means he doesn't turn me on because we have a pretty awesome sex life and this used to happen with other partners as well, I've never fantasized about the person I'm with it just feels kind of awkward for me.

Is that weird? Instead I fantasize about all my different fetishes and even when I try to incorporate my SO's face into the fantasy it just ends up not working.

Am I the only one? Who or what do you fantasize about?

i wouldn't worry about this, honestly. masty time is *your* time, for you to indulge in your own personal thoughts & desires.

you probably spend a ton of time with your SO, and it sounds like that's going great, which is awesome. but for the half hour you spend touching yourself, you're allowed to think abougt what you want, who you want, without guilt.

 

[yandere]

i feel like masturbation is a private time i spend with myself and has nothing to do with an SO if i have one, or the quality or quantity of any sex we have.

no one needs to know your every thought. honestly it's weird to me that you would even tell your partner about the things you fantasize about when you're masturbating.

 

[sufisaint]

Imagination is a beautiful thing and everyone should explore their limits in fantasy without worrying about others judgments.

 

[Erosfan]

I tend to think about past lovers when I masturbate and fantasize about things I wish I had done, like masturbate in front of her.

I do focus totally on my wife when she asks me to get naked and cum on her tits!

 

[threewireman]

I hardly ever think about my current partner when I masturbate, seems like that's the norm as far as responses here/my personal experiences go

 

[quietlylooking]

As much as I adore him, I never think of my husband when I masturbate. That's my special time when I get to imagine all the things I can't do in real life

 

[free_and_easy]

As much as I adore him, I never think of my husband when I masturbate. That's my special time when I get to imagine all the things I can't do in real life

Pretty much sums it up for me

 

[jhuson]

As much as I adore him, I never think of my husband when I masturbate. That's my special time when I get to imagine all the things I can't do in real life

Such as......

 

[Tide_Couple]

My girlfriend is always involved in some way. She had me find a girl on lit to masturbate to and then tell her about it afterwards once and that was hot.

She usually thinks about a girl licking her when she masturbates, usually I'm in the corner watching as I take care of myself in her fantasy . . . or so she tells me

 

[quietlylooking]

Such as......

Sometimes they are suggestions that some of my Lit friends have given me... often related to coercing or even forcing me to do certain activities that in real life I might not do comfortably, but in my fantasies can be incredibly arousing. Perhaps you know what I mean?

 

[NYWings]

The wife has lost interest in sex for a couple reasons...
We are both in our 60's now but met when quite young.
We enjoyed the great pleasure of discovering sex together and experimented in may ways over the years.

So MANY times my thoughts during a mast session are reliving our experiences and sometimes taking the real experiences and turning them into a fantasy.

 

[jhuson]

Sometimes they are suggestions that some of my Lit friends have given me... often related to coercing or even forcing me to do certain activities that in real life I might not do comfortably, but in my fantasies can be incredibly arousing. Perhaps you know what I mean?

Perhaps I do....

 

[shewantsmore]

imagination is such a powerfull thing,thinking about being with someone else or a stranger,being forced to do things or thinking about other people what they are doing,so many different way to masturbate to

 

[epearce79]

............

 

[greystardust]

You don't understand. I just can't picture myself with him in any of the fantasies when I masturbate. He's part of my fantasies of course but when I do it I can't picture him in them.

It makes sense in this way - there are things that wouldn't turn him on, but which you desire very much. So, as the fantasy progresses, your desire is met with pleasure and sensation, but when associating him with that fantasy, the motion is cut?

If the fantasy revolved around his favourite activity, would his image still be absent?

 

[oldpupslave]

I think of who I may be with. A lot of times it is about my fetishes. Or being abused and used in sick ways. Even someone who passed me on the street. I do masturbate to one I am with. It seems to kill the mood and action when we get together at times!