Dram111512
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When you went-how long did you wait before someone approached you and asked if they could stroke your penis? Was it quick -or a while-and are you obliged to stroke back?
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Here is a short list of outdated links.
https://www.thebatorblog.com/events/bators-guide-jack-off-clubs/
bateworld is now blocked in this state but there are longer more detailed lists on there. Looked like some localized areas had groups that met right from the site.
I went to Philly jacks was the first one I went to. A nondescript door off Chestnut I think it was. I heard about it and didn't go for a long time. Then one day it was pouring rain I figured no one would be on the street to see me. Went in and buzzed through a door to steps. Walked up and buzzed another door. Once in it was 10$ and you put your clothes in a cube. Left your shoes on. There wasn't really places to sit. Tables with towels and lube. The protocol was ask to touch and don't ask more than once. No oral or anal sex. Period. Pretty simple. My visits were always lunch time. Mostly because I had free parking for work. In Center City that meant guys in suits would show up to rub one out real quick. Really enjoyed what I saw. I liked having my balls fondled because I didn't want to cum for a while. Was kind of surprised I wasn't always successful jerking others off. I didn't need that much effort. haha A few times there were women there. Mostly dressed to watch. Once I remember one laying back on a table and masturbating. At the time interesting and educational. I doubt there are women anywhere near these places now a days.
Went to Capitolbate 2013ish and it was more lit up and had a full wall porn projected. I went with an acquaintance and we found a massage table and laid back for each other to get jerked off and left. More recent '22 I visited the new location and it was packed. Smelled horrible like sweaty un-showered people. Kept my distance and rubbed one out since I was already naked. Won't go back. Found one local hatting here and it was a dark room. Totally dark. Got dressed and left.
Before covid happened and before lit for me I found meetup. There I found a few groups but too gay, butts and kissing doesn't work for me. I also found one I never heard of. CFNM. You had to 'meet the group' at a bar to gain access to the actual party. I was accepted. When I got there 5 or 6 women and about the same time one other guy. They were polite, but demanding. Trying to tell us not to get hard. They liked my butt and would pop it or squeeze it. I started getting up and about that time the other guy was already fully erect and I think felt ashamed or something. He jerked off and left me there by myself. They were actually really cool chicks. And fun. In the end several of them were sitting on the couch and pulled me to lay across them. I was in heaven. They had me so hard. And for so long when I came it was epic. Got a few shots that flew over my head. They loved it. The one lady that was more where my shoulders was had talked to me a lot. She cleaned most of it up. After I was having something to drink and putting my clothes on she said quiet come with me. I followed her home and had some of the best sex I had had in years.
The ladies that organized that party had "cuddle" parties. After the cuddle party there were select that were allowed to stay. Much more naked cuddle party. No sex or oral but I gave and got really nice hand jobs. I like when women are comfortable like that. I fell asleep with one of them. Very erotic evening. Then covid happened and all are memories.
If you can travel as a hetero male female couple there are many places around the country to partake and enjoy. Use swinglifestyle .com and there are lists of venues and if your female half is good at communicating many parties you can get invited to. Same rules. Don't be an a$$hole and the limits are yours and the person or persons you are interacting with to create.
Sex is still everywhere here. It is just much harder to find safe and clean venues.
https://www.thebatorblog.com/events/bators-guide-jack-off-clubs/
bateworld is now blocked in this state but there are longer more detailed lists on there. Looked like some localized areas had groups that met right from the site.
I went to Philly jacks was the first one I went to. A nondescript door off Chestnut I think it was. I heard about it and didn't go for a long time. Then one day it was pouring rain I figured no one would be on the street to see me. Went in and buzzed through a door to steps. Walked up and buzzed another door. Once in it was 10$ and you put your clothes in a cube. Left your shoes on. There wasn't really places to sit. Tables with towels and lube. The protocol was ask to touch and don't ask more than once. No oral or anal sex. Period. Pretty simple. My visits were always lunch time. Mostly because I had free parking for work. In Center City that meant guys in suits would show up to rub one out real quick. Really enjoyed what I saw. I liked having my balls fondled because I didn't want to cum for a while. Was kind of surprised I wasn't always successful jerking others off. I didn't need that much effort. haha A few times there were women there. Mostly dressed to watch. Once I remember one laying back on a table and masturbating. At the time interesting and educational. I doubt there are women anywhere near these places now a days.
Went to Capitolbate 2013ish and it was more lit up and had a full wall porn projected. I went with an acquaintance and we found a massage table and laid back for each other to get jerked off and left. More recent '22 I visited the new location and it was packed. Smelled horrible like sweaty un-showered people. Kept my distance and rubbed one out since I was already naked. Won't go back. Found one local hatting here and it was a dark room. Totally dark. Got dressed and left.
Before covid happened and before lit for me I found meetup. There I found a few groups but too gay, butts and kissing doesn't work for me. I also found one I never heard of. CFNM. You had to 'meet the group' at a bar to gain access to the actual party. I was accepted. When I got there 5 or 6 women and about the same time one other guy. They were polite, but demanding. Trying to tell us not to get hard. They liked my butt and would pop it or squeeze it. I started getting up and about that time the other guy was already fully erect and I think felt ashamed or something. He jerked off and left me there by myself. They were actually really cool chicks. And fun. In the end several of them were sitting on the couch and pulled me to lay across them. I was in heaven. They had me so hard. And for so long when I came it was epic. Got a few shots that flew over my head. They loved it. The one lady that was more where my shoulders was had talked to me a lot. She cleaned most of it up. After I was having something to drink and putting my clothes on she said quiet come with me. I followed her home and had some of the best sex I had had in years.
The ladies that organized that party had "cuddle" parties. After the cuddle party there were select that were allowed to stay. Much more naked cuddle party. No sex or oral but I gave and got really nice hand jobs. I like when women are comfortable like that. I fell asleep with one of them. Very erotic evening. Then covid happened and all are memories.
If you can travel as a hetero male female couple there are many places around the country to partake and enjoy. Use swinglifestyle .com and there are lists of venues and if your female half is good at communicating many parties you can get invited to. Same rules. Don't be an a$$hole and the limits are yours and the person or persons you are interacting with to create.
Sex is still everywhere here. It is just much harder to find safe and clean venues.
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Better to go alone in my opinion. If you have a friend to go with I am thinking you would both be better off getting together and helping each other out in private. Either way, when you go follow the rules. They are there so everyone can feel welcome and comfortable.
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That is interesting. Where are these?
AlexAtNight
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I feel so sheltered, knowing nothing about a place like this
Funny you asked, because I went back there just tonight for the first time in a year!
I can really only go in January (read this and you'll probably understand why https://www.literotica.com/s/bate-club-pt-01 -- large parts of this chapter are based on my visit exactly a year ago).
Tonight, I made sure to arrive once the event was already in full swing. Last time, I got there early and I didn't know anyone, but I've made some connections since. I was made to feel welcome by the organisers tonight, which was nice.
In my experience, you're not 'obliged' to do anything. If someone wanted to, I reckon they could just sit in a corner and watch. Most people are completely naked (I was too), though everyone gets a towel, but you don't have to. Tonight, some people wore boxers or shoes or whatever. Didn't take long for me to get my dick in someone's hand tonight (didn't take long to get tongues on my nipples either), and while I didn't feel obliged to return the favour, I wanted to.
The only problem with bate club is because it's a bate club, there's no sucking or fucking, but I dealt with that last night by going to a sauna.
