Mature Ladies At Church

I am a rabbi so lead services at synagogue, not church. But some of the women who attend are amazingly sexy and I do fantasize and wonder what it would be like to take them into my study and start kissing and fondling them.
Do any of them inadvertently flash some panty or bra, or maybe pussy and tit?
 
None of those in my congregation do. But when they come to talk to me after services or at other times, I can sometimes sense an interest in engaging beyond the professional and into the flirtatious.

I have always behaved with impeccable courtesy and respect to all my congregants but have fantasised about sexual encounters ok many occasions.
 
None of those in my congregation do. But when they come to talk to me after services or at other times, I can sometimes sense an interest in engaging beyond the professional and into the flirtatious.

I have always behaved with impeccable courtesy and respect to all my congregants but have fantasised about sexual encounters ok many occasions.
How are they flirtatious?

I'm sure that you're always courteous and proper around them.
 
None of those in my congregation do. But when they come to talk to me after services or at other times, I can sometimes sense an interest in engaging beyond the professional and into the flirtatious.

I have always behaved with impeccable courtesy and respect to all my congregants but have fantasised about sexual encounters ok many occasions.
Has anyone ever approached you for consul on sexual urges in a way which makes you wonder if they are attempting to coax you into sex?
 
Let me go on record. There is a line that must not be crossed in any group that is never crossed. Those coming to a minister rabbi etc must be trusted that that are there for counseling and the person coming to them can have full trust in that. Just my opinion
 
Let me go on record. There is a line that must not be crossed in any group that is never crossed. Those coming to a minister rabbi etc must be trusted that that are there for counseling and the person coming to them can have full trust in that. Just my opinion
My questions have always been more along the lines of things seen inadvertantly, never anything direct. However when he said the women seemed to flirt with him I was just aiming for definitions.
 
Let me go on record. There is a line that must not be crossed in any group that is never crossed. Those coming to a minister rabbi etc must be trusted that that are there for counseling and the person coming to them can have full trust in that. Just my opinion
If you read the headlines, pastors as a group are the worst at crossing the line of trust with adult women:

https://news.yahoo.com/hipster-megachurch-shambles-over-pastor-045337396.html
https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/News/wom...ng-church-pastor-carl-lentz/story?id=74305467
https://allthatsinteresting.com/andy-savage-sexual-assault
 
Has anyone ever approached you for consul on sexual urges in a way which makes you wonder if they are attempting to coax you into sex?
It’s hard to say. It’s such a taboo that I dare not even think about it but I confess that I have occasionally wondered if a woman was being flirtatious. I will acknowledge that there are some very attractive women in my congregation.
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We have found some flirtatious women at church, when we attended. One we became good friends with, she was married. We would hang out, and eventually she opened up about sex and all that she felt she missed. Things progressed with her and my wife, and then with all 3 of us.
 
I have seen things like this destroy people. It is a dangerous place to open yourself or put yourself in a situation where these flirtatious feeling can be acted upon. For both parties. (Let me say I am no pastor or are really in theses situations) just sayin.
 
It’s hard to say. It’s such a taboo that I dare not even think about it but I confess that I have occasionally wondered if a woman was being flirtatious. I will acknowledge that there are some very attractive women in my congregation.
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It is kind of a thorny subject. Deep discussion of religion and morals is very personal, and sex has huge implications in adult relationships, so its not uncommon to be brought up. From that feelings could easily develop...no different than how feelings can develop for therapists and clients however.

But no one should put much thought into pastoral headlines. The media loves to sensationalize news, and so every pastoral event will be a huge scandal and headline.
 
I'll share this from my experience. I was in a church youth group. When my class graduated from high school, the 'younger' girls from the class behind us became the 'top dogs' of the group and that year a new Youth Minister came to the church. He was a good-looking guy, maybe 22 or 23. The girls just swarmed him. I do not know if there was any actual hanky-panky. I hope not. But this poor guy had these barely legal gals throwing themselves at him.

There is, for a small number of women I think, a barrier between proper church behavior and unleashing every naughty desire they've ever had. For some this barrier is very strong. For others, not so much.
 
I remember a funny incident where my ex-wife and I were sitting down front with the kids. Not in the front row, but just one back. She was dressed up at the time, not inappropriate, but a above the knee dress with pantyhose and high heels, a type of outfit she often wore to church.

Anyway, as she crossed one leg over the other, from the elevated pulpit I watched as our pastors eyes followed her movement in a lopping motion as "flop", her leg went over the other. There was no question what he was watching! It was kind of funny, but completely understandable.
 
I remember a funny incident where my ex-wife and I were sitting down front with the kids. Not in the front row, but just one back. She was dressed up at the time, not inappropriate, but a above the knee dress with pantyhose and high heels, a type of outfit she often wore to church.

Anyway, as she crossed one leg over the other, from the elevated pulpit I watched as our pastors eyes followed her movement in a lopping motion as "flop", her leg went over the other. There was no question what he was watching! It was kind of funny, but completely understandable.
Love when she does that....very erotic...
 
I found out some time ago, that Church Ladies dress up for the same reasons that other ladies do -- to attract men. Easy to spot the available ones; their sexy skirts and blouses are just a little too sexy and just a little too tight. Of course, being picked up and fucked isn't always on their mind, some just want to be admired.

I wonder if this varies from denomination to denomination
 
We have found some flirtatious women at church, when we attended. One we became good friends with, she was married. We would hang out, and eventually she opened up about sex and all that she felt she missed. Things progressed with her and my wife, and then with all 3 of us.
Religion is so good at bringing people closer together......as in an orgy!
 
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