Meeting Married Men

It has been a long time since I had to search out married men that want their cock sucked. I had a regular friend for about 3 or so years but that ended when I moved to a small town about 5 years ago. Since then I have not found a new friend,
i seem now to be unable to read the signs and because of this I have not had the pleasure of sucking a nice hard cock in a long long time. What do I need to look for, what’s the obvious and less obvious signs. Tired of only eating my own cum.
I am 63 bi mwm. I have been married for 41 years. I have wanted to suck cock for 40 plus years. I finally got a chance about 10 years ago.
My best friend, I found out he was bi. I told him that I wanted to try sucking cock. We ended up sucking each other many times for about 6 years. He and his wife moved out of state. We have gotten together a few times since. I have been trying to find another married guy to play with. It is so hard to find out who wants to play and that can play.
 
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I've used Doublelist successfully and now have 2 regular married men about my age who I meet for fun.

It takes a while to identify those who are not flakes, who can exchange a few emails with to explain what we both want out of it, and you can begin to get a good feeling about. Good enough to meet and see how things go. The work is required but can pay off.

I've also used Doublelist for quick hook-ups when I'm horny and need to get rid of a load - there are usually lots of responses to that kind of ad.
 
I've used Doublelist successfully and now have 2 regular married men about my age who I meet for fun.

It takes a while to identify those who are not flakes, who can exchange a few emails with to explain what we both want out of it, and you can begin to get a good feeling about. Good enough to meet and see how things go. The work is required but can pay off.

I've also used Doublelist for quick hook-ups when I'm horny and need to get rid of a load - there are usually lots of responses to that kind of ad.
I just may need to finally relent and give DL a try though I'm still very hesitant for the obvious reasons. Though as time goes on without me sucking on a hard cock I just may get desperate and find other alternative ways so DL may be best??
 
I just may need to finally relent and give DL a try though I'm still very hesitant for the obvious reasons. Though as time goes on without me sucking on a hard cock I just may get desperate and find other alternative ways so DL may be best??
To have the best chance of a longer term thing with one or two guys, my experience is that DL is the best. Maybe the best of a bad bunch, mind you. Silverdaddies is also worth a go - someone else on here mentioned it, too. I've had a profile on there for a while and it seems to be a good way to interact with local mature gents (if that's what you're after).

A lot of it may be location-dependent. I'm in a very big urban/sub-urban area so may have the luxury of choice but it brings even more chaff. You still have to whittle out weirdos, time-wasters and so on. Be patient and try not to jump into a meeting without establishing some expectations with the guy up front.
 
To have the best chance of a longer term thing with one or two guys, my experience is that DL is the best. Maybe the best of a bad bunch, mind you. Silverdaddies is also worth a go - someone else on here mentioned it, too. I've had a profile on there for a while and it seems to be a good way to interact with local mature gents (if that's what you're after).

A lot of it may be location-dependent. I'm in a very big urban/sub-urban area so may have the luxury of choice but it brings even more chaff. You still have to whittle out weirdos, time-wasters and so on. Be patient and try not to jump into a meeting without establishing some expectations with the guy up front.
I appreciate your input and suggestions. If I were to meet someone from there and suck him off hmmmmm I'll be sure to let you know and give you credit where credit is due 😜

Local mature gents may be the proper demographics tbh. Married, discreet men or dads who aren't getting any or enough from their wives who just need to unload a nice mouthful of warm, gooey cum is probably the idea guy hmmm m 😜
 
I appreciate your input and suggestions. If I were to meet someone from there and suck him off hmmmmm I'll be sure to let you know and give you credit where credit is due 😜

Local mature gents may be the proper demographics tbh. Married, discreet men or dads who aren't getting any or enough from their wives who just need to unload a nice mouthful of warm, gooey cum is probably the idea guy hmmm m 😜
DL insists on giving a phone number to activate account so I refuse to join. SD is ok. Not much luck there though.
 
DL insists on giving a phone number to activate account so I refuse to join. SD is ok. Not much luck there though.
and that would be a problem, I don’t think my wife would appreciate me getting calls from guys needing their cocks sucked, as much as I would like that. 😁
 
DL insists on giving a phone number to activate account so I refuse to join.
It's a case of "how bad do you want it." Burner phones are so cheap that you could get one, use it one time to establish the DL account, then throw it out if you just couldn't stand to make further use of it. As follows:
that would be a problem, I don’t think my wife would appreciate me getting calls from guys needing their cocks sucked
This is a whole 'nother matter. It's a couple of different ones, in fact. One of them is, hiding your calls from your wife, the other is, giving a number out for cruisers to call.

There are cheap options so that your own phone, the one your partner knows about, isn't getting pinged, and there's also the possibility of simply not giving anyone a phone number for you, and sticking to online channels.

It's not like DL is going to give it out. That would be entirely between you and the guys you contact/contact you on DL.

But if the issue is you don't want DL having your regular number at all, regardless of whether cruisers get it from them or get it from you or don't get it at all, literally $30 could overcome this.

I'd link you to a google search of "cheap prepaid cellphones" but it would look like a spam link and you're grownup enough to manage to do it on your own.

How bad do you want it?
 
Would love to have one of you looking for a married man and you find me. Take me back to your house and show me all the things I dream about. For a few days. And then we become a regular thing and the rest of the world never knows.
 
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