You should definitely make a point of going. It's been awhile since I have gone.I've never been to a bathhouse but I would love to go one day and this was very helpful for me...so thank you...
Men’s Bath House Club Experience?
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interesting I read an article about Monkeypox; said it has been almost completely eradicated, largely because of the gay population taking it seriously and “nipping it in the bud.” Not to say I woudn’t take precautions for other issues….
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I've been to several. Quality and cleanliness varies. Take shower shoes
If it's literally a "first time" gay thing, you might be a bit overwhelmed. But, breathe and chill. You can hadle it.
Remember, you are in charge of what your body does and what is allowed to happen to it. Set your boundaries.
There is usually public play and private play in small rooms...depends on the place. If there is a hot tub, don't cum in the water!
Most clubs say condoms are required. Some actually enforce the rule. Most don't.
If you go, try lasting as long as you can before you cum so you get your money's worth and really enjoy as many guys as possible (which is why I'd go). It's common for first timers to cum quickly, then flee the scene. Most won't judge...we've been there.
It's okay to just suck cocks for a while, and not have yours played with. It's also okay to let many guys play with your cock, and stop before you cum, "I'm not ready to cum yet. I want to play around for a while." You'll hear that yourself while trying to earnestly get someone off. Relax. Enjoy the less frantic nature of a club.
As far as public sex goes, in general, bath houses and sex clubs are less urgent and more relaxed. People aren't trying to "get off" quickly like they do in bookstores or public settings.
It's all a journey. Every guy in the place had their "first" at some point, so unbuckle and get in there!
Couldn’t have put it better myself, I’ve found a few that are clean, great quality, established and looked after. Attendance can vary depending on days and times, two infrequent are usually busy and one I got to is less so but gets a lot of mature daddy types who like to spend time there even when they’ve cum. The main thing is no means no and enjoy yourself, everyone’s nervous their first time but a lot of guys will have had the same experience and be cool about it. The ones I go to don’t strictly enforce the condom rule but they do give you condoms and lube on entry and there’s more if needed, usually poppers knocking around too. I also go to their theme days like tgirl, chubs n chasers, no towel etc
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I was the guy on the left when a new comer came to the sauna. He liked the welcome.
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me to. a little ass licking is also good.
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Any recommendations for the south of the UK? I'm curious about this...
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There's one in Grand Rapids. Been several times. Never been disappointed. Lots going on.
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Wonder the same
Grand Rapids? Where at?
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There’s a website that you can put in your area and they’ll let you know of all the cruising areas, gyms, theatres etc nearby. They also list saunas with descriptions of the facilities.
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What's the obstacle? Someone keeping tabs on your location or restricting your free time?
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Videos you say
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My wife is going to be out of town this weekend. I’m considering going to the only bath house in town. It’s been a few years since I’ve been there, but I really need the release.
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Hope you have a good time!
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Do it! Do it and let us know how it went.
There’s a club in DC called ‘the crew club’. I used to hit it after work in the 90s. Unfortunately I was scared/shy, and wouldn’t hand out very long. I’d love to go back though, just get naked and see what happens. They had a sex sling/swing down in the labyrinth downstairs. I’d love to climb into it and get used. I’m more experienced now, I just don’t have the freedom (whistful gaze)…..
Do it!
Have fun
Let us know
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Sign me up!!!
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Do you remember the website, it sounds like this could be fun, but I doubt there’s many near me
Cruisingforsex has a lot of info
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squirt dot org is a good place to start.
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Cruisingforsex.com used to be a resource for that. Are there any others?
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Yeah, I found that one. All of the reviews for anything in a reasonable drive are either “stay the hell away” or 10 years old
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