Men who don't swallow

[nadinisys]

What good is an unfinished blowjob?

I have a great desire to get used to this taste, but alas, someone else's sperm is very different from mine, which I am used to

 

[nadinisys]

First time I swallowed it.

And what are your feelings? What did it taste like?

 

[drobert44]

And what are your feelings? What did it taste like?

Loved it! Thick, musky

 

[easyoff]

Depends on what they eat.

 

[nadinisys]

Loved it! Thick, musky

Did his taste differ much from yours?

 

[drobert44]

Did his taste differ much from yours?

Nope.

 

[eroticbum]

I imagine I might swallow if I get the chance to suck a cock.
My wife swallowed a couple of my loads, she then would let me cum in her mouth but my load would run out her mouth and down my shaft, I thought that looked great. Now she blows me for a while and then ends it with jerking me while sucking on my nipple.
I would love to kiss her after I cum in her mouth - but she says that's gay

 

[easyoff]

I imagine I might swallow if I get the chance to suck a cock.
My wife swallowed a couple of my loads, she then would let me cum in her mouth but my load would run out her mouth and down my shaft, I thought that looked great. Now she blows me for a while and then ends it with jerking me while sucking on my nipple.
I would love to kiss her after I cum in her mouth - but she says that's gay

It's only gay if you enjoy it...oh wait, nevermind

 

[nadinisys]

I think that after tasting your sperm, you will later want to try someone else's.

 

[easyoff]

I think that after tasting your sperm, you will later want to try someone else's.

I tasted someone elses before I did mine

 

[eroticbum]

I think that after tasting your sperm, you will later want to try someone else's.

Tried tasting my own on my own, just can't.
Many folks here gave me advice on how to overcum my dislike for self help. Still can't
Hope a minor cum kiss will solve my issue one day

Or a nice cut 6incher

 

[Greytruck]

Got to get all that out in the open before you meet..

 

[nadinisys]

Tried tasting my own on my own, just can't.
Many folks here gave me advice on how to overcum my dislike for self help. Still can't
Hope a minor cum kiss will solve my issue one day

Or a nice cut 6incher

Does your sperm smell strongly?

 

[eroticbum]

Does your sperm smell strongly?

Yeah it's smells - total turn off for me

 

[nadinisys]

Yeah it's smells - total turn off for me

What would you compare the smell of semen to?

 

[nadinisys]

Yeah it's smells - total turn off for me

Photos of girls I know helped me with this. I imagined myself in their place, and it helped me swallow

 

[P0peye]

My favorite sexual activity is
performing deep throat and being vigorously throat fucked. I love the erotic sensation of having a thick cock being forced all the way down my throat over and over again culminating in having him ejaculate deep inside me making swallowing unnecessary. I can feel his cock pulsating inside the walls of my throat as I'm being inseminated.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I will usually swallow, especially if the guy I'm with wants me to-however, there will be times when I ask him to cum ON me, as I like the feeling of hot cum being shot on me. I've never taken a facial, but certainly would be willing.

 

[LookN2Talk]

I prefer to swallow, but if I'm with a partner who wants to give me a facial, I'm good with that too (and I can still wipe his cum with a finger and stick it in my mouth!)

My ex-wife gave great head. She always swallowed, until late in our marriage she began to kiss me and pass me a mouthful of my own cum. I loved it!

Now THAT is an Amazing Wife!

If you choose to suck you're free to exercise the choice to swallow or otherwise. It's not an obligation.

Is that a problem?

Depends on if you leave the person wanting. Nothing worse than a super tease who doesn't complete what they started. Swallowing is definitely not the end all to end all, I like what many have described here as alternatives. My wife figured this out way back when. If she she didn't swallow, she'd do that incredible visual of sucking and letting it run out all over her hands, lips, down her chin, neck, and so forth (depending on her position), or she'd hold and kiss.

Prior to her I know any time a girl started with oral and didn't finish in some manner, it was very frustrating as many have stated here. It is not necessarily about the swallowing but more about not following through. Besides as I mentioned, you do not need to swallow to complete the orgasm and it is one heck of a beautiful visual to boot. I agree with several posts here about how effective it is to SEE the orgasm at times.

True; in my experience I've probably only encountered one or two who preferred not to. Choice.

Men are more likely to because they're sucking because they really want to, unlike some women who feel it's expected or an obligation.

No personal experience to compare men to women on this but what you said makes a whole lot of sense that men would be more into it, otherwise why do it. As for girls, I used to ask them why they did it, for most it was as you claimed, something they thought they should do. My wife and a few others did it because they enjoy it and enjoy what it does to us guys. Did this group finish, ALWAYS, in some for or fashion.

Well, I've had blowjobs from quite a few men and all but one swallowed. On the other hand, the only woman I've ever had blowjobs from (quite a few) is my wife and she's never swallowed.

It is not the reason my wife does bjs and she will swallow, it is not the main thing she does, she likes to do cum play with variety. She flat out will tell a guy, if you are not willing to eat it, then why should I. Too that end she is either going to kiss you with it, feed it to you, have you lick it off of her, or take it direct, she's even gone as far as coating a dildo with it for guys to suck off (definitely not my favorite thing but sometimes you've gotta go with the flow).

I agree that for women, they generally suck cock because they feel an obligation to, while men suck cock because they want to, (unless they're cucked), and they are expecting and wanting to receive a mouthful of cum, which they happily swallow.

It does seem to be the real world stats.

Is swallowing really that important?

It is not always but it is very nice with a mouth that knows how to do it well. As I posted above, there are many options to this that are as hot and satisfying. It is incredible to watch your lady sucking and jerking you off, with her mouth over your penis and/or hovering over as you begin to erupt. Amazing visual without a doubt. She doesn't have to swallow at all but seeing her eyes as it all happens as the cum goes everywhere but often in and out of her open mouth first. Wow!

I imagine I might swallow if I get the chance to suck a cock.
My wife swallowed a couple of my loads, she then would let me cum in her mouth but my load would run out her mouth and down my shaft, I thought that looked great. Now she blows me for a while and then ends it with jerking me while sucking on my nipple.
I would love to kiss her after I cum in her mouth - but she says that's gay

I agree that letting it run out is Hot Hot Hot to see.

As for kissing with cum - those are the hottest kisses EVER! I had no idea until I met my wife. None of the other girls every kissed much after a bj. Hen peck kisses for the most part. I never thought to ask why, now I am very curious.

My wife practically attacked me orally, I came, she swallowed, we kissed. She had cum still in her mouth. It was the first time I knew I had cum in my mouth/tasted it. We had only recently met. I was blown away by her boldness. No way it was gay. Hottest kiss EVER!!! At the end of the weekend she did it a 2nd time and with more cum. I was shocked with how much she gave me. I didn't know how to react or what to do except kiss harder. Yes I wound up swallowing a lot of it. No biggy I thought. Yeah, it turned her on so much she was taking off her panties and straddling me to slip and slide. First time I felt her on me like that. It was hotter than hot.

Your wife is missing out. Somehow figure out a way to change her perception. Had my wife not, I'd never experienced to this day, the most fascinating kisses of all time. My wife still gets so hot she will do practically anything and that is how we get our horizons broadened.

It's only gay if you enjoy it...oh wait, nevermind

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I think that after tasting your sperm, you will later want to try someone else's.

Hasn't happened yet. No desire for a guy. But I get the couples who are unable to fix things looking for an answer.

I tasted someone elses before I did mine

I see post of that more often than not, interesting. It seems to be easier for many.

Tried tasting my own on my own, just can't.
Many folks here gave me advice on how to overcum my dislike for self help. Still can't
Hope a minor cum kiss will solve my issue one day

Or a nice cut 6incher

I did post one sentence above that it does seem to be easier for many guys to get it from another guy. I do not get why (another person - guy?). That is a very big lead going to another person to be want to try to do it. Your wife will assuredly take that as gay. It seem as though the two of you might have a decent relationship??? Can you not work through this as a fantasy or RP? The cum kissing, tasting, or what not?

Earlier I posted, "It was the first time I knew I had cum in my mouth/tasted it." Apparently I have eaten cum filled pussies but didn't know it, and Yes it was not mine. I was at a college class reunion overhearing a bunch of guys talking about past sexual conquests and one of the girls I'd been seeing was having sex with several of them at the same time. They all quickly figured out several had cum in her right before others were with her. We all did oral with her first as she was always all about oral. Then she'd ride you till you could barely walk. Yeah she was a nympho, we discovered. My wife had walked over noticing I was silent and tuned in to something. Once she sorted it, her face lit up, "Oh My Gosh isn't that ...., didn't you ..... with her all the time? Oh My Gosh, all of you guys??? And you never knew???" My wife said there were probably many more like this, she had been. Not that they were cheating, few people ever said, "We're exclusive."

So have you never eaten your wife out after orgasming in her? My wife is riding my face as soon as her own orgasms recede and she is able to handle the touching, I get cum filled her not matter.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Is swallowing really that important?

Not absolutely, but, seeing/knowing that your cocksucker wants to swallow what you're pumping out, really heightens the eroticism of the experience. To me it's very primal. It's more usual than not, that animals (humans) intend to swallow things that they put in their mouths - as long as it tastes good.

I think that after tasting your sperm, you will later want to try someone else's.

ABSOLUTELY !!!

 

[nadinisys]

Not absolutely, but, seeing/knowing that your cocksucker wants to swallow what you're pumping out, really heightens the eroticism of the experience. To me it's very primal. It's more usual than not, that animals (humans) intend to swallow things that they put in their mouths - as long as it tastes good.

ABSOLUTELY !!!

Is swallowing sperm a sign of submission? Whose side are you on?

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Is swallowing sperm a sign of submission? Whose side are you on?

I'm on my own side. I don't consider it a sign of submission - I used "wants" in my statement that you quoted. I feel that it's mutual. I want a cocksucker to swallow, and hopefully, she/he wants to swallow.

 

[nadinisys]

I'm on my own side. I don't consider it a sign of submission - I used "wants" in my statement that you quoted. I feel that it's mutual. I want a cocksucker to swallow, and hopefully, she/he wants to swallow.

I think swallowing the sperm of a man who is excited by this process is a pleasure. It's even more erotic to swallow from someone who doesn't like sperm.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

To me, someone who swallows, but doesn't like, sperm, is doing so because 1): "they feel obligated", 2) "they want to please their partner", or 3) "feel that they're being dominated and forced to".

If they do it for 2, that's erotic. Not so for 1 or 3. Regardless, I'm OK with anything but 3.

 

[nadinisys]

To me, someone who swallows, but doesn't like, sperm, is doing so because 1): "they feel obligated", 2) "they want to please their partner", or 3) "feel that they're being dominated and forced to".

If they do it for 2, that's erotic. Not so for 1 or 3. Regardless, I'm OK with anything but 3.

I love the taste of cum. And when someone else's sperm turns out to be inside me, it's very erotic for me.