cadman7777
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To me it's all about attitude. I don't care if they 20 or 55....if they have sexy,smart-ass tude....and carry themselves physically...then I'm all in.
MILFs OR younger women?
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TheEscapist
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I'm torn on this subject.
As a 19 year old man, I have had a surprisingly satisfying and diverse sex life. There is much to be enjoyed in sampling the fruits of the fairer sex and I frequently relish those opportunity, regardless of age. Having been involved with girls and women, ranging in age from 16 to 37, it has been the older women who have made the greatest impression on me. While everyone truly is different, it has been my experience that younger girls struggle with insecurities and boundaries a lot more than the older women I've been with.
That's not to say that there aren't young girls who are comfortable in their sexuality or older women who are insecure and inhibited, or that I haven't enjoyed my experiences with girls closer to my own age.
I'm going to settle on saying that each partner is unique.
As a 19 year old man, I have had a surprisingly satisfying and diverse sex life. There is much to be enjoyed in sampling the fruits of the fairer sex and I frequently relish those opportunity, regardless of age. Having been involved with girls and women, ranging in age from 16 to 37, it has been the older women who have made the greatest impression on me. While everyone truly is different, it has been my experience that younger girls struggle with insecurities and boundaries a lot more than the older women I've been with.
That's not to say that there aren't young girls who are comfortable in their sexuality or older women who are insecure and inhibited, or that I haven't enjoyed my experiences with girls closer to my own age.
I'm going to settle on saying that each partner is unique.
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whatever comes my way.
I find that with the women my eye is drawn to the shape of her ass first. If she has a nice ass I will stay and ogle longer. Next thing to check out is the front. A flat tummy helps keep me there longer. But a little pouch is ok too. Next my wandering eye goes to the breasts. If I am still here at this point I have to see the face. That can be a deal breaker. It matters not if it's a nubile young one or a MILF. Older women are jut as sexy as young ones in some cases.
I find that with the women my eye is drawn to the shape of her ass first. If she has a nice ass I will stay and ogle longer. Next thing to check out is the front. A flat tummy helps keep me there longer. But a little pouch is ok too. Next my wandering eye goes to the breasts. If I am still here at this point I have to see the face. That can be a deal breaker. It matters not if it's a nubile young one or a MILF. Older women are jut as sexy as young ones in some cases.
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Well as a MILF, I'm glad that many of you guys still like us and want us. I do love a younger guy, preferably in his 20s. Women like me enjoy your longer staying power, quick recovering ability, and your eagerness to learn what turns us on and give us pleasure. We don't want to compete with your young girlfriends or have you live with us or be taken out. Just give us what we want, great sex.
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Thats when u know they are tooo young.Age doesn't matter to me as long as we can communicate.
But when she speaks and everything sounds like it's in the form of a question...definitely too young.
"sooooo? I went to the maaaaawwl? and there was this guuuuuy?" Ugh
Not really B. I guess it was just a bad attempt at some light humor.
These days it seems even mid 20 somethings are speaking that way. I've run into them in the business place.
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theravenfox
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You are incredibly well spoken (well written?) and I find that a HUGE turn-on!
Well put.
bellinda69
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Those kinda gurls give us mid/late 20's gurls a bad rep...Not really B. I guess it was just a bad attempt at some light humor.
These days it seems even mid 20 somethings are speaking that way. I've run into them in the business place.
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Milfs.
I love fucking older women. They are so much better in bed, and so much more comfortable, and want pleasure, etc.
It's just a much better experience shagging older women. I've been going after women who are 30-35 since I was about 19. They are just fantastic.
I love fucking older women. They are so much better in bed, and so much more comfortable, and want pleasure, etc.
It's just a much better experience shagging older women. I've been going after women who are 30-35 since I was about 19. They are just fantastic.
Nah, they are the exceptions not the rule. Still damned annoying though
remember rules ARE meant to be broken
TheEscapist
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You are incredibly well spoken (well written?) and I find that a HUGE turn-on!
Thank you kindly, my dear. I take a great deal of pride in my ability to communicate effectively and in a mature manner, in writing and in spoken word. It has served me very well in the past, especially when using it build anticipation with seductive fantasies or to whisper inticements into a lover's ear... I'm very happy to hear that it is appreciated.
Unfortunately, I have to agree on the topic of young girls being somewhat lackluster when it comes to the way they speak and present themselves. This is actually one of the main reasons why most of my close friends and lovers have been considerably older than myself. I don't often relate very well with my age group. Again, there are always exceptions, for which I am extremely grateful.
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I was very pretty and had a fantastic body in my teens and twenties, but I was also shy and emotionally a mess. I felt very guilty about sex and fell in love with every guy I got intimate with. Men found this a turn-off. Gee, I wonder why?
Now I'm in my late 30s. Physically I'm not what I was, but I am much better in bed. And I am much less likely to confuse sex and love.
In my observation, most men my age and up want starry-eyed, fresh, nubile girls in their twenties. Or younger. Like Olympia Dukakis said in Moonstruck, it's because they fear death.
Now I'm in my late 30s. Physically I'm not what I was, but I am much better in bed. And I am much less likely to confuse sex and love.
In my observation, most men my age and up want starry-eyed, fresh, nubile girls in their twenties. Or younger. Like Olympia Dukakis said in Moonstruck, it's because they fear death.
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My opinion : as they are classified MILFS, that is not all encompassing, there are mature ladies who aren't mothers, but at the same time are our sexual objects of desire ! !
If I think back to high school, yes there were certain girls who would put out, some who would do "things" like oral and then there were the rest of the staying-pure-until-the-ring-on-the-finger.
Me, first exposures were to the older ladies, specifically a buddy ( or 2 or 3 ) moms.
This was at age 16 or so. They would have been at least 40 which to us 16 y/olds sounded ancient, but, their "talents" were , and still are , incredible.
The Incas used to pair up teenage boys with 35 - 45 y/old women. Good reason too.
A lady of that age can teach a young male so much. It is not all rush,rush in the back of daddy's car at midnight. It be slow and gentle, passionate yet intense, overall any older lady that takes a young lover, be that young lover male OR female, she is helping pass down expertise in what make's a lady tick.
None of this rip the clothes off, jam cock in cunt and bang away until he shoots. Which usually left the high school princess unfulfilled. How many high school girls know/knew what an orgasm felt/feels like ??. Not many i think.
Older ladies, the sexy ladies that know their way around their tits, how to work their pussies, their clits and in some cases deep in their ass, know what to do and quite bluntly are VERY willing teachers if the right young thing ( male or female remember ) comes along and is willing to be an avid learner.
To the ladies that taught me the ways of the world, thank you, and... my wife thanks them too ! !
If I think back to high school, yes there were certain girls who would put out, some who would do "things" like oral and then there were the rest of the staying-pure-until-the-ring-on-the-finger.
Me, first exposures were to the older ladies, specifically a buddy ( or 2 or 3 ) moms.
This was at age 16 or so. They would have been at least 40 which to us 16 y/olds sounded ancient, but, their "talents" were , and still are , incredible.
The Incas used to pair up teenage boys with 35 - 45 y/old women. Good reason too.
A lady of that age can teach a young male so much. It is not all rush,rush in the back of daddy's car at midnight. It be slow and gentle, passionate yet intense, overall any older lady that takes a young lover, be that young lover male OR female, she is helping pass down expertise in what make's a lady tick.
None of this rip the clothes off, jam cock in cunt and bang away until he shoots. Which usually left the high school princess unfulfilled. How many high school girls know/knew what an orgasm felt/feels like ??. Not many i think.
Older ladies, the sexy ladies that know their way around their tits, how to work their pussies, their clits and in some cases deep in their ass, know what to do and quite bluntly are VERY willing teachers if the right young thing ( male or female remember ) comes along and is willing to be an avid learner.
To the ladies that taught me the ways of the world, thank you, and... my wife thanks them too ! !
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older for sure I hope ...and not too bothered about how they look...might give me a chance lol
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I go for the MILF's. Ladies in their sexual prime. That can't be beat.
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Speaking as a twenty-something man, I find good qualities in both types of women. I'm more likely to date a woman (close to) my own age, but as for pure fantasy value? More and more, I'm drawn to the older women.
I think a huge part of it is me indulging my submissive side. It tends to come out more with older women, and I have a yearning hope that the age difference will lead her to want to take charge. The stereotypical cougar fantasy I suppose. Now in practice, of course, I understand that a dominant is a dominant, and a submissive is a submissive. Some people switch. Age doesn't really change any of that. But reality is not always perception. We fool ourselves.
I think a huge part of it is me indulging my submissive side. It tends to come out more with older women, and I have a yearning hope that the age difference will lead her to want to take charge. The stereotypical cougar fantasy I suppose. Now in practice, of course, I understand that a dominant is a dominant, and a submissive is a submissive. Some people switch. Age doesn't really change any of that. But reality is not always perception. We fool ourselves.
