'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[bitslinger]

Actually, she does all of this and it drives me crazy. I have begged her to push on inside of me and she refuses. She thinks it is nasty.
It is kind of crazy because she is a sexual dynamo. This is her only no go, giving or receiving.

Personally, I think being massaged through the 'taint feels better than from inside. Enjoy what you have .

 

[Erosfan]

Personally, I think being massaged through the 'taint feels better than from inside. Enjoy what you have .

Oh, I do enjoy what I have. She makes me feel incredible when she does her magic on me.

 

[Sexplorer40]

My experience has been different. I've tried to milk myself through penetration with fingers and a variety of toys. I even let someone else try to milk me, with no results. I've read that you know when you feel your prostate, but there was nothing obvious to me. However, if I massage myself just behind my balls (externally), the pleasure builds without touching my penis until I get to the point where my cum dribbles out just like in a milking video, and I don't orgasm. People's bodies have all kinds of quirks; perhaps my prostate is located closer to the surface than most men? Thoughts?

 

[bitslinger]

My experience has been different. I've tried to milk myself through penetration with fingers and a variety of toys. I even let someone else try to milk me, with no results. I've read that you know when you feel your prostate, but there was nothing obvious to me. However, if I massage myself just behind my balls (externally), the pleasure builds without touching my penis until I get to the point where my cum dribbles out just like in a milking video, and I don't orgasm. People's bodies have all kinds of quirks; perhaps my prostate is located closer to the surface than most men? Thoughts?

I've been doing this for a very long time. When I first learned about this, my wife would massage my 'taint and it felt amazing. Everyone on the Usenet was saying how earth shattering it is to get right up inside and massage the gland directly, so I bought a prostate massager. That felt okay, but didn't match the stories of Nirvana. After reading about various kinds of prostate massgers and techniques, I bought another massager and tried to focus on the techniques I'd read about. That didn't really do anything for me either.

Then, I had my first physical exam where my doc checked my prostate. I could tell when he felt it, which didn't seem very far in. The "problem", I decided, was that each toy is a fixed length and the bulbous part is at a fixed angle - neither of which seemed to match my anatomy. So, I got a thin, $10 hard-shell plastic vibe and tried different angles and depths, paying attention to where I thought I could feel it. After sliding it in and out, I was able to figure out what felt good.

From there I discovered two things; First, I have to be pretty horny and turned on for it to actually feel good, otherwise it's kind of meh. After doing some reading, I learned that the prostate fills with fluid and becomes sensitive during sexual arousal. Unfortunately, I also learned that if I press too firmly and too soon, my prostate will empty out it's thin and milky fluid and nothing else is going to happen. I worked out how to gently stroke my prostate without immediately draining it and things started feeling better - but still not orgasmic.

Undeterred, I kept trying and finally discovered that if I gently stroked the gland with the dildo for long enough, I could eventually milk out the much thicker, pearly liquid gold that I now know is from the seminal vesicles - not from the prostate. It is a unique feeling that's not quite orgasmic, which feels great but is kind of elusive. It doesn't happen every time and I have to be very turned on and Jonesing, which takes a while. And, if I get greedy and press too firmly or too fast I press the much thinner fluid out of the prostate, which is game over.

So, it's a lot of work to get it just right but I can occasionally milk myself. I use a combination of porn and stroking my cock to keep myself really turned on and both glands producing. I'd say it works about 1/4 of the time or less, and frankly it's a lot of work to reach around to keep massaging the glands by myself. I made a little jig that makes it much easier to work the dildo without having to reach at quite such a bad angle. Still, the times when I am able to milk myself and get a good flow of the thicker stream of pearls going is extremely hot and I've come to love how frustrated and desperate it leaves me to cum.

Then I discovered "erotic electro stimulation", and turned that old and useless prostate massager into a prostate electrode using some copper tape. That worked pretty good, so I made an electrode that I can feel pressing directly against my prostate. It won't milk me, but it feels amazing when the current is flowing through my prostate. I still check out porn to keep myself as worked up as I can, and will have a very intense orgasm most of the time - unless I'm trying to edge and keep myself from cumming.

So, yeah I think anatomy has something to do with it. I'm not saying the guys in the prostate massager boards are lying. I'm sure the toys hit exactly the right spot on some guys, or maybe they're just hornier than I am. Still, I think there may be some embellishing and wishful thinking going on.

Prostate milking videos are few and far between in the amateur porn world. Most of the times it a blowjob with a finger up the ass, which I'm sure feels great but isn't quite what I'm looking for. Recently, I've found some videos from a couple that are very hot. But, she really seems to have to mash his prostate to milk him. That doesn't seem like such a great idea, but I have to say watching that string of pearls flow makes me envious .

That's my experience anyway.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

What equipment do you use for the electro stimulation?

 

[bitslinger]

What equipment do you use for the electro stimulation?

All of my gear is home made. For power I use the 'midstim' DIY design from smartstim dot com and the stereo files from their downloads. I have played around with a few different electrodes. I enjoy silver solder but will probably splurge and buy something made for play in the future.

 

[eroticspank]

Actually, she does all of this and it drives me crazy. I have begged her to push on inside of me and she refuses. She thinks it is nasty.
It is kind of crazy because she is a sexual dynamo. This is her only no go, giving or receiving.

I hope it works out for you but at the same time I understand. I had a gf years ago that wanted me to fuck her anally. At that time, I found any kind of anal play very dirty and revolting. It was my limitation, not hers. I would let her play with my ass but for some reason I could not do anything to hers. It was just too "dirty" for me.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Milking can be an amazing experience for many guys. It is hard to believe that stuff comes out of your dick with a steady flow vs the usual orgasm.

I think some women like the feeling of power in giving their man or a man they know a milking experience. It can come with an orgasm as I mentioned before or just a really good internal feeling.

ES

 

[Wonderer67]

It’s happened to me one time and one time only. First time my wife pegged me I was in missionary. I felt this feeling, like having to pee, and all of this fluid came out and spilled all over my stomach. I didn’t know what it was but assumed it was cum. I guess it was prostatic fluid.

My wife has pegged me probably 50 times since then and it’s never happened again. I try to make it right and get all horny beforehand. I’ve also tried to do it with a prostate massager or dildo. My wife has tried massaging my prostate too but no luck.

I can sort of get it to happen if I masturbate and get on edge while taking it anally and the anal stimulation can put me over the edge, but that is more like a ruined orgasm. I’d love to be able to get milked.

 

[eroticspank]

I actually agree with this above and I am aware of and have been introduced to tantra techniques.

But this thread is more about milking a man's cock if I read the original post correctly. Milking a man's cock is a bit misleading because if you read the story link in the original post and know much about cock milking it is really about milking the prostate vs the cock. If done correctly, the man really has no control, the fluid will come out in a steady flow from his dick. Sometimes this involves and orgasm for the man, but sometimes it does not.

The skill and technique involved is in finding the prostate and massaging it or milking it correctly. In my case it would be a woman doing it to me. The major turn on for me is the fact she can "milk" my cock or prostate without my permission. (If am tied up for example.) If she wants me to have an orgasm during it, up to her. I am at her mercy.

ES

A bump to this thread!

My discussion above can also apply to strapon play. Sometimes when you see a strapon video with a hands-free orgasm, you don't hear the guy moan or cry out like when he is having a full-blown ejaculation. I think it is because the strapon stimulated his prostate causing him to be milked. If stimulated correctly and long enough, the guy erupts squirting out prostate fluid and semen. You feel yourself rise to a peak and then your body tenses up and you squirt. It is not a whole-body orgasm just located in your crotch do you feel sensations. It feels good but can be frustrating compared to a full orgasm.


ES

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Milking can be an amazing experience for many guys. It is hard to believe that stuff comes out of your dick with a steady flow vs the usual orgasm.

I think some women like the feeling of power in giving their man or a man they know a milking experience. It can come with an orgasm as I mentioned before or just a really good internal feeling.

ES

Well stated

 

[eroticspank]

Well stated

Thank you! Please share your experiences on this subject, I would love to read.

ES

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Milking can be an amazing experience for many guys. It is hard to believe that stuff comes out of your dick with a steady flow vs the usual orgasm.

I think some women like the feeling of power in giving their man or a man they know a milking experience. It can come with an orgasm as I mentioned before or just a really good internal feeling.

ES

Well put, ES

 

[ChasBozwell30]

I know i'll never forget my experiences of this. Life changing, really. Made me completely rethink my body and how it could react, how much pleasure it was capable of. The sheer luscious shaking draining power of it.... (i miss it!)

 

[eroticspank]

I know i'll never forget my experiences of this. Life changing, really. Made me completely rethink my body and how it could react, how much pleasure it was capable of. The sheer luscious shaking draining power of it.... (i miss it!)

Well said! I am curious to hear from more women that have done this and what they enjoy about it.

ES

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thank you! Please share your experiences on this subject, I would love to read.

ES

Milking should not be seen as an activity to be engaged in with a certain time frame, in my opinion.

Half the enjoyment, from my perspective, comes from the torment involved in prolonging the session, so that you can coax the desire to "push through the discomfort" mindset. Just going full blast (pun intended) without any kind of pause in between is an exercise in eventual frustration and an early end to playtime.

Just my two cents

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Milking should not be seen as an activity to be engaged in with a certain time frame, in my opinion.

Half the enjoyment, from my perspective, comes from the torment involved in prolonging the session, so that you can coax the desire to "push through the discomfort" mindset. Just going full blast (pun intended) without any kind of pause in between is an exercise in eventual frustration and an early end to playtime.

Just my two cents

I agree, i've no idea how long it can be sustained for, but the anticipation and pleasure i felt was only the tip of the iceberg i'm sure. Plus the psychological element, needing a release you can't control, while also being taunted, teased, pushed... Aches just to think about it!

 

[eroticspank]

Milking should not be seen as an activity to be engaged in with a certain time frame, in my opinion.

Half the enjoyment, from my perspective, comes from the torment involved in prolonging the session, so that you can coax the desire to "push through the discomfort" mindset. Just going full blast (pun intended) without any kind of pause in between is an exercise in eventual frustration and an early end to playtime.

Just my two cents

I like your 2 cents and perspective. Thank you. Since we are not talking about any specific act, my thoughts are it is more like a long extended foreplay session that has an effect on the mind as well as the body. This can result in deeper sub space!

ES

 

[ktownwriter]

For what its worth... do everything you can to experience this. Your prostate is the same as her g spot. If not Her fingers. Then a vibe. Electro stim is very good too. We only get one life. And this sensation shouldn't be missed. Free advice. Worth what you paid. Lol. Good luck.

 

[LongDraw]

I'd say one of two possibilities to get a "slow cum" from the guy.

1. Being longer than average, after I cum, more cum can remain inside the tube to be coaxed out over time.

or

2. They've got the drips, in which case they need to go see the Dr.

 

[eroticspank]

We've tried it a couple of times. Didn't get as dramatic a result as we'd hoped, but maybe we just need to do it longer. The sensations were very enjoyable, so I'm game. Will mention it to Mistress.

I think everyone's idea of milking is different. In my opinion, milking is like spanking. It depends on who is giving the milking or spanking as to whether it is pleasurable or not.

Milking can involve leaking cum out of the dick with no orgasm or ejaculation for the man. It can result in an orgasm that is a dud or low-grade orgasm or it can result in a mind-blowing orgasm. It is all up to the person giving the milking.

ES