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I have a serious, non-snarky question for those more knowledgeable than me on the difference between guys who consider themselves femboys rather guys who consider themselves transexuals but haven't taken meds or had surgery. Is it just about how one self-identifies?
 
LillyLightfoot said:
I have a serious, non-snarky question for those more knowledgeable than me on the difference between guys who consider themselves femboys rather guys who consider themselves transexuals but haven't taken meds or had surgery. Is it just about how one self-identifies?
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Even before my girlfriend had breast surgery, she considered herself a transgender woman. A lot of people might have said she was a femboy because she had no breasts but she herself never described herself that way.

I think people use whatever term they feel comfortable with to describe themselves.
 
Escierto said:
Even before my girlfriend had breast surgery, she considered herself a transgender woman. A lot of people might have said she was a femboy because she had no breasts but she herself never described herself that way.

I think people use whatever term they feel comfortable with to describe themselves.
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Yeah I agree. Its really just vibes at the end of the day.
 
Escierto said:
How would you describe yourself?
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In the past I was very much "Im female, Ive always been female even though I was raised a boy" but it got exhausting and these days Ive made peace with my past. I dont miss it, but it is what it is, you know?


But if were gonna be label-y here, im a straight-ish trans woman. I live full time female, its not a fetish thing for me.
 
Sol41 said:
I live full time female, it's not a fetish thing for me.
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Yeah, I wonder if people perceive anyone wearing female clothing as just another cross dresser. Of course, it's very strange to me that clothing should assume this significance but then I have absolutely zero interest in clothing anyway.
 
Sol41 said:
In the past I was very much "Im female, Ive always been female even though I was raised a boy" but it got exhausting and these days Ive made peace with my past. I dont miss it, but it is what it is, you know?
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Is that how you felt though? That you were always a girl regardless of how other people treated you?

I think the thing that made my girlfriend unique was the fact that everyone around her treated her as a girl simply because she insisted that is what she was. I wonder how often that even happens?
 
Escierto said:
Is that how you felt though? That you were always a girl regardless of how other people treated you?

I think the thing that made my girlfriend unique was the fact that everyone around her treated her as a girl simply because she insisted that is what she was. I wonder how often that even happens?
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Best thing anyone can understand about society is we cant control how others perceive us. If someone sees me as a crossdresser, thats fine. Its nothing I can change and I dont sweat shit I have no control over.

Ultimately I realized, for me, it doesnt matter how I felt growing up. I love who I am now, and thats all that should really matter imo.

In the states? Not too often Id wager. Youve said many times the Philippines are more culturally chill with that.
No, in the states its one hoop to jump through after endless others. :(
 
Sol41 said:
Best thing anyone can understand about society is we cant control how others perceive us. If someone sees me as a crossdresser, thats fine. Its nothing I can change and I dont sweat shit I have no control over.
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Good attitude to have. I must admit that I pay no attention to others perceptions of me. I guess I have always agreed with you - don't sweat what you have no control over.
 
Sol41 said:
In the states? Not too often Id wager. Youve said many times the Philippines are more culturally chill with that.
No, in the states its one hoop to jump through after endless others. :(
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We seem to be a society that is obsessed with this fucking shit. If I go to the store and I see someone who is non-conforming in some way, why should I care? How does what they are wearing or presenting even affect me?

Fucking live and let live. They cannot manage to do that here. It is without doubt the worst failing of our society. Fucking Karens. Fucking busybodies.
 
Id really like to share mine but Im extremely weary of putting my face out there.
Dont get me wrong, a lot of you are the lovely type of ne'er-do-wells but theres also the geuinely bad ones too.
 
Some people have all the luck, or money, for those results. And it is true, the younger you can start, the better results you'll get from the effects of hrt. I waited a bit too long...
 
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