Mind fuck

[Lizzie_Borden]

I believe you are quite right if it is not a fetish to you. For some D/S is a fetish and for others it is not, it is attitude and context that make something a fetish. Otherwise every time we each put on a pair of shoes we would be feeding fetish simply because some people find shoes their ultimate turn on.

Hooray, someone finally said this.

 

[Braschi]

So, what can I do to turn the conversation towards hypnosis, because I'm really interested in that, and people with actual experience instead of fantasy?

FWIW, this is all in the "define fetish" thread.

Or are we just fucking gray matter here by setting airtight definitions?

I'm afraid that fucking gray matter wouldn't be nearly as fun, though

Colloquial use is what's described in the forum sticky, so I'd say let the natives have their fetishes, and stop giving yourself an ulcer every time someone doesn't mean it in the text book way.

You're quite right. I'm having some trouble shaking off the indoctrination from the Grammar Police Academy.

 

[switchbitch]

So, what can I do to turn the conversation towards hypnosis, because I'm really interested in that, and people with actual experience instead of fantasy?

Is mind Fucking not a kind of hypnosis? When someone has the ability to (by suggestion alone) induce orgasm or arousal with a word, surely that it is a type of hypnosis or at least a conditioned response. Whether or not that response is triggered by the power of the dominant's suggestion or the submissive's need to respond, it could be considered a type of hypnosis or self induced hypnosis.
oh my God, that last paragraph sounded incredibly dry and mind Fuckary is anything but that. when it's done right it's like a combination of an electric shock screaming up your spine and diving into a pool filled with warm viscous oil.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I've recently been exposed to this sort of delight. I've always been into the cerebral aspect of eroticism, but recently met a man who could take me to what felt like another world with his words. He uncovered passionate desires in me, that I had never acknowlegded before. The key, I feel, is finding someone that probes your brain....that relates and understands, that earns enough trust to allow yourself uninhibited and unbridled pleasure.

DingDingDing! We have a winner!

I heartily endorse this comment.

Really, is there anything more rewarding?

 

[spankableBelle]

God yes!To the point where their pleasure becomes your only focus and desire.

This, yes. Completely.

 

[Braschi]

Is mind Fucking not a kind of hypnosis? When someone has the ability to (by suggestion alone) induce orgasm or arousal with a word, surely that it is a type of hypnosis or at least a conditioned response. Whether or not that response is triggered by the power of the dominant's suggestion or the submissive's need to respond, it could be considered a type of hypnosis or self induced hypnosis.

Good point; in fact, that's one of the aspects of hypnosis that I'm interested in, as in how the mind can be suggested in such a way. I've always been curious about how the mind works, to the point when I often suspect I should have studied psychology, and finding applications for that knowledge.

oh my God, that last paragraph sounded incredibly dry and mind Fuckary is anything but that. when it's done right it's like a combination of an electric shock screaming up your spine and diving into a pool filled with warm viscous oil.

I'll have what she's having.

 

[MasterandSir]

This, yes. Completely.

And pushing someone there

 

[redheadedtxn]

I love being able to flick switches in a girl's mind and have her ready to orgasm at a word.......

TMWFM has this kind of control over me, it's fucking awesome! He can give me a look, or even a slight touch and I'm ready to be tripped over the edge.

He is good at mindfucking....almost too good!

 

[spankableBelle]

And pushing someone there

It takes skill, trust, a willingness to linger over the details. The mindfuck is a connection...his mind and mine. Far different than the physical fuck... More powerful, intoxicating, with the ability to drop me to my knees without reservation.

Of course, the mindfuck combined and leading up to the physical fuck is...

 

[prettykitty101]

I thoroughly enjoy mentally Dominating.... The mental aspects of Domination get me off. I like being able to wriggle my fingers into a sub's mind and play with their desires and triggers and mmmmmm. Anyone else love mental play?

It turns me on like nothing else does.

 

[hobbit.]

Since most BDSMers are brain dead half wits, either bullies or victims, what is the point of this thread?

 

[Lancecastor]

Since most BDSMers are brain dead half wits, either bullies or victims, what is the point of this thread?

They're just fucking with your head.

 

[hobbit.]

They're just fucking with your head.

Ah. OK carry on - WAIT A MINUTE! did anyone say "Simon says carry on" ?

 

[switchbitch]

It turns me on like nothing else does.

Me too! From both directions whether I am submitting or dominating.
Mental play: when someone knows how to open that dark corner of my sexual soul take away my control and expose and titillate those nasty things that excite me when I know they shouldn't. To do the same to someone else to push those kinky little buttons see the excitement and terror, come alive in someone's face when I take control of them.

 

[reachedme]

how fine a line is it between excitment and terror, I mean weall like to be scared that is why horror movies are so popular but when you are dominating a sub what really does it for you
to excite them, terrorise them or to take them to another level above themseleves

 

[switchbitch]

how fine a line is it between excitment and terror, I mean weall like to be scared that is why horror movies are so popular but when you are dominating a sub what really does it for you
to excite them, terrorise them or to take them to another level above themseleves

For me it is easiest if we compare it to a meal excitement is the main course, terror the gravy and pushing them to another level desert.
The main course satisfies my hunger, the gravy gives it extra flavour and the desert feeds my soul.

 

[reachedme]

A meal fit for a godess
and I like a lot of gravy

 

[switchbitch]

A meal fit for a godess
and I like a lot of gravy

Oh, and I do like mine served on a platter!

 

[ndoorfin]

how much of it is preperation, just getting your sub nervous and fearful messing with their head before you teach them what is proper

 

[switchbitch]

how much of it is preperation, just getting your sub nervous and fearful messing with their head before you teach them what is proper

everyone is different there is no specific program that fits everybody. Thank God how boring it would be if BDSMwas like paint by numbers.

 

[MasterandSir]

It takes skill, trust, a willingness to linger over the details. The mindfuck is a connection...his mind and mine. Far different than the physical fuck... More powerful, intoxicating, with the ability to drop me to my knees without reservation.

Of course, the mindfuck combined and leading up to the physical fuck is...

It takes full trust and great skill.... as for details I think of them as data, you can never have too much of it and it is all important... The mindfuck melded into the physical fuck is a wonderful place though a fine art to perfect

 

[Rayven101]

It takes skill, trust, a willingness to linger over the details. The mindfuck is a connection...his mind and mine. Far different than the physical fuck... More powerful, intoxicating, with the ability to drop me to my knees without reservation.

Of course, the mindfuck combined and leading up to the physical fuck is...

Very well said..and I have to agree 100%....for me it all starts with the mind...connection is key.

 

[hobbit.]

Thank God how boring it would be if BDSMwas like paint by numbers.

it is you dumb cunt. "me Dom/me you victim. aka me sad bastard, you even weaker sadder bastard, wanna play" ?

 

[Braschi]

it is you dumb cunt. "me Dom/me you victim. aka me sad bastard, you even weaker sadder bastard, wanna play" ?

Ooo, someone wants a spanking

 

[switchbitch]

Ooo, someone wants a spanking

please don't feed the troll