Minx The Sphinx's Boudoir

[your_vice]

As for me?......sorry but hoping you get shot and writing it on a public forum that is meant to be fun and light hearted and no stress....and you getting all over attached and pushing to hard is OVER DRAMATIC.

With the greatest respect, I would imagine that serving in hostile combat zones, suffering serious injury and then hearing your brother has been seriously injured might alter your opinion of what is over dramatic.

Soldiers on active duty face the possibility of grave injury and violent death every day. It's inevitable that they will become desensitised to language and dark humour that you might find disturbing. It's how they cope with the harsher realities of their chosen career. I didn't read TSB as suicidal, merely frustrated. He can't sort things out with Fae while she's awol. He can't help his brother and he's in a situation where he spends more time sat on his ass than he's used to, feeling less like a knight in shining armor.

He may have been insensitive to Fae and monique but sheeh, give the guy a break. This is an adult forum and so things are going to be said at times that fail to qualify as light hearted.

Also, I do think that wading into what remains an issue between TSB, Fae and monique with as much bias as you have is unhelpful. They're big and bad enough to sort things out on their own.

 

[your_vice]

I wish your brother well, my daughters god father who is so very dear to me has just be diagnosed with cancer AGAIN so we are all on tender hooks waiting to find out what they can do this time to save him, as he is not only one of a kind and actually one of your marines well an ex marine. He has a 5 year old son and a wife....so its all very emotional here right now as we just hope with all our hearts something can be done......but all we can do is wait.

See, we all have our own shit to deal with. I really hope he pulls through. I'm not going to list my woes though, you guys have trumped me by far.

I think it's a good thing that TSB feels able to talk about his life here. I think we would all be the poorer if he kept all that stuff close to his chest and did nothing but flirt superficially. I'm proud to feel that I know him a little.

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

With the greatest respect, I would imagine that serving in hostile combat zones, suffering serious injury and then hearing your brother has been seriously injured might alter your opinion of what is over dramatic.

Soldiers on active duty face the possibility of grave injury and violent death every day. It's inevitable that they will become desensitised to language and dark humour that you might find disturbing. It's how they cope with the harsher realities of their chosen career. I didn't read TSB as suicidal, merely frustrated. He can't sort things out with Fae while she's awol. He can't help his brother and he's in a situation where he spends more time sat on his ass than he's used to, feeling less like a knight in shining armor.

He may have been insensitive to Fae and monique but sheeh, give the guy a break. This is an adult forum and so things are going to be said at times that fail to qualify as light hearted.

Also, I do think that wading into what remains an issue between TSB, Fae and monique with as much bias as you have is unhelpful. They're big and bad enough to sort things out on their own.

with the greatest respect you do not even know the whole situation so you can not say I have acted with bias or not. TSB and myself had discussed this at length on more then one occasion and as he said he sees me as his sister a voice of concern and reason. I am also friends with Fae and Minx and have discussed it with them as well. So I have a well rounded view of what is going on and what the issues are.

I am not fighting for them or for him, I am on neither side but I am someone who has seen both and spoken to both so what I say does come with knowledge and understanding of the people involved. Actually trying to help ALL of the past it.

As for him being in combat and facing hardship stress and death, I do understand and have acknowledged that BUT as i said to him he is not the only one who comes here to ESCAPE so as an ADULT has to realize that what he says and does will affect others and may not be understood the way he intends as we are not all marines or in combat.

And I was not just referring to his wanting to be shot as over dramatic he has being in an over dramatized state for a few days, and posting similar things in and out of character. As you say most likely due to his RL circumstances. BUT that does not mean everything will be over looked and ignored, He has been warned more then once about his actions toward minx and fae and yet was stubborn to continue...and can be quoted on saying he chooses to be stubborn about it basically come what may.

As I said you have not seen all the conversations so perhaps do not know what has been said. So yes sorry despite the respect in which you said it your post offends me a little. And perhaps your own advice should be taken as TSB does not need you to defend him either certainly not against me.

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

See, we all have our own shit to deal with. I really hope he pulls through. I'm not going to list my woes though, you guys have trumped me by far.

I think it's a good thing that TSB feels able to talk about his life here. I think we would all be the poorer if he kept all that stuff close to his chest and did nothing but flirt superficially. I'm proud to feel that I know him a little.

EXACTLY everyone has there own woes and comes here to escape as well as make FRIENDS the place does not always need to face DRAMA and if you read back over the last couple of days there has been alot of tention in the air.

I also by no means have told him not to share his Real life ....I would not do that to anyone. I am saying perhaps his timing of posting it...say rather then pming me or you and saying I need to talk might not have been wise, given all that has gone on.

As I said sisterly, advice from someone who has been listening to both sides for a few days.

 

[monique_minx]

A message from the phone of minx:

STOP! I've had enough. The slate is hereby wiped clean and the issues are forgotten, any that remain are to be taken up with me personally and dealt with as i see fit. I don't want anymore drama in my place of peace. I appreciate everyones concerns, really i do and the well wishing is wonderful but mistress and i will sort it between ourselves. My mistress has her own problems that others will remain unaware of unless she wants to tell anyone. I'm tired of this and my mistress is not worried about our relationship so the dust is free to settle. Blade has been warned about backing up a bit and told why. That is all that needs to be said about it.
Everyone in here is a friend of sorts to me and i hate pathetic drama with my friends. My word is absolutely final on this.

 

[your_vice]

As I said you have not seen all the conversations so perhaps do not know what has been said. So yes sorry despite the respect in which you said it your post offends me a little. And perhaps your own advice should be taken as TSB does not need you to defend him either certainly not against me.

Well that's good to know.

I have read over this thread and it's not my intention to take sides either but I can't help playing devil's advocate when TSB is online and chatting whereas Fae and monique are elsewhere. I understand you want to give advice but it means TSB is put back on the defensive when the victims of his previous insensitivity or whatever aren't even on the thread. I was just trying to be a friendly face, not to exonerate him for an argument I wasn't present for.

 

[your_vice]

A message from the phone of minx:

STOP! I've had enough. The slate is hereby wiped clean and the issues are forgotten, any that remain are to be taken up with me personally and dealt with as i see fit. I don't want anymore drama in my place of peace. I appreciate everyones concerns, really i do and the well wishing is wonderful but mistress and i will sort it between ourselves. My mistress has her own problems that others will remain unaware of unless she wants to tell anyone. I'm tired of this and my mistress is not worried about our relationship so the dust is free to settle. Blade has been warned about backing up a bit and told why. That is all that needs to be said about it.
Everyone in here is a friend of sorts to me and i hate pathetic drama with my friends. My word is absolutely final on this.

Well said.

applauds enthusiastically

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

I am releaved to hear the slate is clean and more then willing to stop discussion. I am also sorry if my replies of concern and advice over ALL, if it has inflamed anything.

As a quote from one of my favourite movies says "AS YOU WISH"

 

[FaeBites]

Because I'm fucking masochistic and can't help but be drawn back despite my best intentions. I would like to address a few points.

1. TSB. You go on about me ignoring you, and not acknowledging you in posts. It was one post, when I thought you had already left. AS you do leave without warning a lot. Pulling emotional blackmail and putting 'hurt you' in quotations in PMs doesn't help. Stop apologising if you don't understand what you're apologising for. It makes the point void.

2. Vice. As much as I appreciated your initial sympathies, it became evident that you were taking sides in something that you have no idea of the full story. And while I'm sure TSB appreciates your championing of him, I do not appreciate being referred to in the way you are. Bud out, please.

3. Rayne. I don't know what I did to deserve your loyalty. But thankyou, I'll try my hardest to be worthy of it.

4. Bs. I love you as a friend, but my life is my own to reveal to those I chose.

5. Moni... we'll talk tomorrow. I'm sorry about your phone.

Thankyou, and goodnight.

EDIT:: okay now the wipe slate thingy can happen. My bad.

 

[TheScarletBlade]

Wow....its fucking sad that I have the power to cause trouble just by me existing....Thats just me I guess. I guess I am like Gandalf, a stormcrow, I just cause shit where ever I go...I mean its sad that two people I consider friends who have never had any problem before are suddenly getting defensive about each other over ME, of all fucking people.

I guess there is a reason why everytime I come back to lit,I always end up leaving again....I just fuck shit up

 

[monique_minx]

SLATE CLEAN!

Like i said take it up with me in pms from now on.
~ As you wish mistress and thank you.
Vice - appreciate it
Rayne - thank you for your defense of me but i prefer to deal with it myself. It stops smaller issues from blowing up.
Blade - I've told you what you need to do to fix it from here but it is up to you as to whether or not you listen.

SLATE CLEAN!

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

3. Rayne. I don't know what I did to deserve your loyalty. But thankyou, I'll try my hardest to be worthy of it.

I sat observed and discused so it was not something I just spouted for the sake of it.

I am loyal to all friends, So just keep being a friend and you will have my loyalty. Minx, Fae, Blade and Bsquad have all made me welcome and have been friendly towards me so of course that is what I hope to return to you ALL.

As I said just being a voice of reason more then anything. Was not so much on a side either as being able to see both and did hope to try and stop things escalating the way they did. BUT hopefully it can just be cleared away and the slate wiped as Minx said and we can move forward hopefully with greater understanding ALL the way around and treat it as a learning curve.

And just go back to the way we all enjoyed the place in the begining that made us stop by and post in the first place.

I'd say group hug but I dont want to be WWF smacked down.

 

[FaeBites]

Sorry pet. My temper got away with me.
I'm just here to catch up on roleplays then I'll be gone as promised for a while.

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

Sorry pet. My temper got away with me.
I'm just here to catch up on roleplays then I'll be gone as promised for a while.

< tries to hold her by the wings > nooo dont leave me ...FAE BITES ( said like STELLA)

Okay I am over it hehehehe, but I will miss any of you if you disapear on me.

 

[your_vice]

2. Vice. As much as I appreciated your initial sympathies, it became evident that you were taking sides in something that you have no idea of the full story. And while I'm sure TSB appreciates your championing of him, I do not appreciate being referred to in the way you are. Bud out, please.

Gladly. I mainly posted as I did because it seemed to me that TSB was being ganged up upon and whether or not it was justifiable, it's something I dislike.

I am loyal to all friends, So just keep being a friend and you will have my loyalty. Minx, Fae, Blade and Bsquad have all made me welcome and have been friendly towards me so of course that is what I hope to return to you ALL.

I'd say group hug but I dont want to be WWF smacked down.

Eloquent omission. In time you'll hopefully see I'm basically a good person. Meantime, I'll leave you to your clique.

 

[monique_minx]

I understand mistress...my brain is wracked with pain over this. Goodnight mistress
I shall hover for a while longer, shifting in and out as i do usually
But i hope this is the last of the drama for this room...my brain might explode next time lol!
Make your peace everyone, I'll be on in the morning - properly. On my phone is a lot slower and more difficult!

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

Eloquent omission. In time you'll hopefully see I'm basically a good person. Meantime, I'll leave you to your clique.

It was not an omission or a dig at you, so dont go drama queen now. I have not really spoken to you other then HELLO before tonight, so I am sorry I did not feel the need to list you. There was no clique involved.

But I will add your attitude towards me as it seems AINT HELPIN me to include you in the list of Boudoir friends...if you check the list on the door there are a heap of names I left off...simply because I dont know them either.

Sorry minx but like you and Fae I dont just sit back and take shit either, I may be the quite one in the room most times but that does not mean I will be slammed needlessly because someone decided to get there back up.

.

 

[marauder13]

Wanders is, looking for any signs of life within.

Hello? Anyone about?

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

Hello Marauder <waves from her usual spot on a chair with a book and pen >

 

[marauder13]

G'Day Rayne. How are you right now? Feeling ok?

I look around for a chair to drop into while having a late night chat.

If I may be so bold as to ask... which state are you in?

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

I'm fine just catching up on the Fanged Seduction thread Fae, minx and bsquad started...its very intoxicating. <smiles at him and puts down her book> I am from NSW about 5 or 6 hours from you.

 

[monique_minx]

I refuse to get involved Rayne, not my fight and i was serious about my brain exploding...i have a killer headache! I just ask that if you and vice won't just call this a draw then take it to a more private arena please. I want peace in my boudoir again. I know dramas are bound to crop up with so many people going in and out of here but i ask that everyone be adult about it and sort it calmly. You'll notice i have never yet sworn at anyone in here, that means i am not angry at anyone in here. It is not enough to piss me off but if you hear me say fuck you to anyone; you better duck and cover. I generally exert a lot of calm and logic, it takes an awful lot to push me over the edge. I press this point for good reason now so everyone is forewarned about exactly what signs to look for when i'm angry. Blade annoyed me to a certain extent but didn't anger me.
Anyways, i'm off to panadol and sleepy land, i hope there's soft pillows there!
Goodnight xx

 

[monique_minx]

I give up...my phone is a pain in the ass!
Hello marauder
My headache is growing legs, power of panadeine forte...wonderful drug store my father is hiding!
*Grumbles something about telstra under my breath*

 

[marauder13]

I'm fine just catching up on the Fanged Seduction thread Fae, minx and bsquad started...its very intoxicating. <smiles at him and puts down her book> I am from NSW about 5 or 6 hours from you.

OK... I from there originally, Sydney to be precise, but I escaped from there a long time ago.

I have been trying to push my way through a scene that just refuses to play fair. If it keeps holding out, I'll just have to take out my frustrations on Moni's character in the thread we're writing together. Says me with a cheesy grin.

 

[Rayne_Clowd]

I refuse to get involved Rayne, not my fight and i was serious about my brain exploding...i have a killer headache! I just ask that if you and vice won't just call this a draw then take it to a more private arena please. I want peace in my boudoir again. I know dramas are bound to crop up with so many people going in and out of here but i ask that everyone be adult about it and sort it calmly. You'll notice i have never yet sworn at anyone in here, that means i am not angry at anyone in here. It is not enough to piss me off but if you hear me say fuck you to anyone; you better duck and cover. I generally exert a lot of calm and logic, it takes an awful lot to push me over the edge. I press this point for good reason now so everyone is forewarned about exactly what signs to look for when i'm angry. Blade annoyed me to a certain extent but didn't anger me.
Anyways, i'm off to panadol and sleepy land, i hope there's soft pillows there!
Goodnight xx

I hope you sleep well and that the panadole kicks in, I just had a nice peppermint tea.

You can be assured I have no intention of saying more then I have to Vice at this point. I was simply setting the record straight. And if I was truly angry or upset over something...like you others would know it without doubt. I certainly would not be stopping to greet people unphased into the room.

I also would not ask for anyone to back me up as like you said everyone is adult, I also dont need it. And as you said not your disagreement to handle. I am also calm and rational and as you see have not sworn at anyone.

If vice has more to say to me she can PM me but I don't see the issues she figured I was being a nasty and I wasnt end of story.

I have even moved onto reading and talking to M who just came in.