svengali_decL
His Serene Boldness
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Mine was in reverse. Ok girls (only two befoe 20, then one every 5 years or so. never had the confidence to go after anything above a 5, to put it bluntly, not tangibly seeking- did not have the confidence I was good enough. Late 40s I just gave up trying; spoke to and entertained everyone, some of the moms played ball, a little or a lot. Some were genuinely bored, others had freedom to play.
While it sounds insincere I know, I had not been targeting 'types' at all. I found that a lot did not care for my reasons as long as I was discrete and clean. Of course getting a city-job and in high rises, mixing with a variety
of people, expanded contacts and subsequently my confidence improved.
Getting picked up by a buxom lass in an SLK didnt harm my under the table rep with others. But I didnt kiss n tell...
