Moving during sex

I'm a real mover too ... Grinding, squirming, going wild.

The only problem is that my lover can lose his grip (mouthhold?) on me.

I don't like being stopped from moving either, so my lover has learnt to wrap his arms around me and get a good grip and just go with me.

Face sitting works well for us, and he loves it when I just go crazy and fuck his face:D

When we are fucking and I start going wild, shaking and grinding he either goes slowly or pushes in deeply and stops (which usually sends me over) and just enjoys it as I go for it - until I need him to grab my hips and fuck me strongly.
 
I would love it if my wife moved whilst we make love - even when she has her orgasm I've seen more movement in a stone!
 
Moving during sex...

Yes! Grinding, hip-swiveling, deeply penetrating, lots of action. Makes it all so much better!
 
I prefer she moves and lets me know she's enjoying what we're doing. Its all part of the fun isn't it? Very disconcerting if someone just lies there waiting for you to get it over with...:)
 
I'm a mover, that's for sure! I like feeling both men and women move on me too.. That being said, if the people you have been swinging with are more into domination and control, that might make more sense as to why they are trying to hold you still. It might also be out of some "respect " for the partners too... They might not want you to look like you are having more fun than usual or more than their partner is having due to potential jealousy issues. Not making excuses for them, but there might be some of that going on too.

I have jumped I to some situations with a little too much élan and my partner got really gun why and we both had a miserable time.. Hurt feelings are no fun for anyone. Maybe try mentioning to your swing that when it's good, you move around, and that they should be encouraged (and maybe your partner likes to see you writhe too). A little forewarning can go a long way! :)
 
Movement is bliss!!!

I love, love, love it when a woman moves while I'm having sex with her - oral, vaginal, anal, especially when she is uninhibited while doing it. After all, it's only fair. If I move, why shouldn't she? Why shouldn't she be free to express her passion openly and freely? Besides, that way I know she's into it and into me.

So, as far as I'm concerned, she can grind, squirm, shudder, shake, quiver, ride, bounce, circle, squeeze, rub, pump, jump, bump, hump, wiggle, twitch and switch positions. Did I miss any? :) And, did I say I love it when a women moves while having sex? ;) I just hold on tight and synchronize my movements with hers, or pause periodically and let her express herself. But, I hope she won't mind if I get really vocal (moan, groan and shout) and whisper nasty things in her ear.

I believe we should both be able to let go and express ourselves without the usual "civilized" restraints that limit us in other everyday life situations. Sex should be a means of achieving a state of rapture and liberation. The Tibetan tantric sex practices were/are intended to help practitioners achieve enlightenment and an ultimate state of bliss and freedom, or non-dual awareness and oneness with all. I don't want to get preachy here. So, I'll stop :D
 
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Most women move after sex with me. At the very least to a new address. Sometimes to an entirely different town. And they never leave a forwarding address!
 
I'm more so bothered if m wife doesn't move! Even if it's to get off the wet spot
 
I wiggle, squirm and jiggle about a lot during sex but the same goes with self pleasure.
I want to feel everything I want the guy to know his with a responsive woman..
Not a plank with a hole in it..

I was once with a plank she was so unresponsive I kept asking is this OK?how about this? What about this?
Killed my sex drive not knowing if she was always like that or was it just me... found out off a previous gf of hers that it was just her way
 
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I'm not sure this fits in this forum, but it's not a how to, and the general board has too much crap, so here goes.

Do guys not like it when women move around a lot?

I tend to move my hips a lot when I am being fingered, eaten, and fucked. Mostly moving up and down, kind of grinding into a palm, mouth, or cock. To me, I do it because it feels good and is natural. It’s not something I try to do, but is almost an involuntary response for me. My husband is fine with it, but he has had years of experience with me. Most guys I have been with since we have been swinging tend to grab my hips to keep them still when they are eating me, or seem kind of out of rhythm when we are fucking.

Am I the only woman who moves her hips and squirms, and if not, do guys act the same way when you move? Guys does it really throw you off that much when we move?

My wife is adamant about not moving, speaking or making a sound when we are having sex.
It can be difficult to be enthusiastic about having sex when you aren't getting any feedback-, whether good or bad.
Its been a long time since I had a pussy getting ground into my face, sure do miss it.
 
Moving

A girl who moves and reacts and twists and pushes back and more --- all turn me on a lot

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I'm not sure this fits in this forum, but it's not a how to, and the general board has too much crap, so here goes.

Do guys not like it when women move around a lot?

I tend to move my hips a lot when I am being fingered, eaten, and fucked. Mostly moving up and down, kind of grinding into a palm, mouth, or cock. To me, I do it because it feels good and is natural. It’s not something I try to do, but is almost an involuntary response for me. My husband is fine with it, but he has had years of experience with me. Most guys I have been with since we have been swinging tend to grab my hips to keep them still when they are eating me, or seem kind of out of rhythm when we are fucking.

Am I the only woman who moves her hips and squirms, and if not, do guys act the same way when you move? Guys does it really throw you off that much when we move?

I love it.... it shows me she's enjoying herself.
 
I'm a real mover too ... Grinding, squirming, going wild.

The only problem is that my lover can lose his grip (mouthhold?) on me.

I don't like being stopped from moving either, so my lover has learnt to wrap his arms around me and get a good grip and just go with me.

Face sitting works well for us, and he loves it when I just go crazy and fuck his face:D

When we are fucking and I start going wild, shaking and grinding he either goes slowly or pushes in deeply and stops (which usually sends me over) and just enjoys it as I go for it - until I need him to grab my hips and fuck me strongly.

Oh my! That is so fucking sexy!
 
I often wriggle a lot, boyfriend doesn't mind. The only thing he has said is that the faster he goes the harder it is for us to maintain a rhythm together, which is when he holds me still or forces my rhythm to his. I don't mind this, I just feel it is a natural consequence of going above a certain speed. And tbh if he goes quick enough it completely wipes me out and all I can do is hold still and take it.

But yeah moving is cool! That's fun and you're certainly not alone. Just thought I'd interject a scenario in which we feel we can work better if he holds me still or forces me to move with him.

:D
 
It seems that the women who grind are really enjoying themselves, which also turns me on even more... so yeah, grind away!!
 
moving while fucking

i like to grind my pussy against the guy,make sure he is deep in me
 
Reminds me of the old joke:

What's the difference between Jello and a Jewish Princess?

The Jello moves when you eat it.
 
There has always been a considerable size difference between us. :D

Me because I am 6 foot 3 and she is only 4 foot 11. She says sex with me is like a

Great Dane mounting a little Daschund, there just isn't much wiggle room. :D
 
All I have to say is you gotta move woman! That is the best kind of sex, when you are both squirming, sliding, pounding!
If there is no motion... That's just plain sad!
 
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