My BF likes to be too aggressive...

[ToPleaseHim]

There's some stuff I can't really talk about on here but those videos he has can run my life so my only option is for a clean break up without any anger or anything

Please reach out to a domestic violence organization near you. They will have resources and they will help. Abuse only escalates and this is already significant.

 

[anniebaby10]

I don't know who else to turn to because I'm 18 and none of my friends are mature enough to talk about this without making it into a joke.
Basically I started dating this guy with a little bit older about 4 months ago and lately every time we are together He is very rough, I don't mean something that's fine, he's like really bruising me and sometimes I have to tell him that I can't keep going because my parents will kill me they see anything on my body

You gotta leave and NOW!!!

 

[DDC11B]

I understand that me leaving is the best option but nobody's undressing the situation of him having videos or pictures of me

From what I understand, if you contact the authorities, they can assist you with how to proceed in reference to your videos or pictures.

 

[ConsiderateBeast]

Priorities. An abusive lover could kill you but slutty pics on the Internet will only ever be embarrassing at worst.

 

[Mikey1414]

I don't know who else to turn to because I'm 18 and none of my friends are mature enough to talk about this without making it into a joke.
Basically I started dating this guy with a little bit older about 4 months ago and lately every time we are together He is very rough, I don't mean something that's fine, he's like really bruising me and sometimes I have to tell him that I can't keep going because my parents will kill me they see anything on my body

I agree - if you are being physically being hurt by him (bruising) & he doesn't respect you - change when you've raised this ask yourself if you would accept this from a friend ? In a relatinship there should be respect of feelings both ways - you are young & you don't deserve to be treated like this - if he continues someone else will step in if they see bruises on you but I would like you to not get hurt beyond what you have already unfortunately experienced - if somebody really liked you they would not treat you like this - you know if I ever hurt somebody physically I would be gutted - I mean that & in my case it would be an accident - if a girl wanted me to be rough with her she would have to guide me to what she wanted & even then there are boundries I will not cross - for example - strangulation or nexk constraint so I have red flags there - I hope this has helped - even if in a small way - thank you for sharing - never just accept these things

 

[TheGraveMistress]

I don't know who else to turn to because I'm 18 and none of my friends are mature enough to talk about this without making it into a joke.
Basically I started dating this guy with a little bit older about 4 months ago and lately every time we are together He is very rough, I don't mean something that's fine, he's like really bruising me and sometimes I have to tell him that I can't keep going because my parents will kill me they see anything on my body

No that's not right. You must tell him immediately to stop. He needs to respect your boundaries. Please advocate for yourself? You can do it. Call out to that inner goddess for strength,