My first bi experience

hey...

How does one actually have a first bi encounter, safely? Best online way?

the ONLY way to have an ABSOLUTELY SAFE 'first time experience' is to have it virtual, either in your mind or online. No safe word, no germs or viruses...
Of course ya aint got much in the way of fun either.
 
My first time - thanks to Literotica!

My first bisexual experience is 100% because of this website. My beautiful wife and I both love erotic stories and so we often perused this site alone and together. One day We came upon a story that involved two couples and all the parties playing with everyone one. Both her and I were turned on more than we had been in quite some time and began to discuss the story. She has identified as a bisexual woman for as long as I have known her; me - closest I ever came to anything involving man on man was a porno movie of a couple getting a massage from a male masseuse that ended in happy endings for all involved (still one of my favorite videos of all time). Anyways, as we explored the story and each other, my wife bought a strapon and we experimented with it all.. one night as She told me how much she enjoyed watching me suck her cock, I suggested we find another couple. In my head, I was still coming to grips with my new desires and a couple helped ease me in to my bisexual curiosity.

So we posted a personal here on literotica, looking for another couple to chat with. After many single men offered their services, we received a note from another couple with a very similar story. She - very bi; he - exploring it for the first time. So for a month or two we chatted on line. Sending sexy pictures and playing role playing games. We would video chat, watching each other fuck. Directing the other couple on what we wanted to see. Seeing him suck on her cock while my wife sucked on mine... or taking all of my wife’s strapon while he did the same with his wife, his hard cock hanging there in all it’s glory on the computer screen.

As luck would have it, a business trip brought us together and after a dinner and a few drinks, we got a hotel room. Everyone was pretty shy at first, but the ladies both eventually took the lead and started to make out with each other, sexily stripping the other bare. He and I rubbing are cocks through our pants nervous as to what to do next... well the ladies come over and his wife (beautiful red head with freckles and gorgeous soft tits) drops down in front of me unzipping my pants and letting my hard cock hit her lips, while my wife (tall, slender, with curly brown hair and perky firm tits) did the same to the other guy. Neither of us guys had ever seen our wives with another man, but as the ladies sucked our cocks and took Off our pants we only got harder. After getting us naked, the ladies decided they wanted more of each other, leaving us two guys rock hard, watching as they 69’d.

At that moment, I got the guts to lean over and grab his cock. Pulsing, my hand slid up his shaft, to his huge mushroom head. With precum dripping out of his cock, I slowly stroked it, feeling another man’s pulsing cock in my hand for the first time. My wife breaks away from her sweet embrace to watch me slowly drop to my knees and take him into my mouth. Both the girls gasped as I pleasured him, taking him all the way into my throat and cupping his balls while I tickled his taint with my thumb. His wife came over and kissed him passionately when he came hard but much quicker than I expected. His wife then told him it was his turn and that the two girls would show him how it’s done until he recovered. The two ladies were like dogs unleashed as they fought over my cock, obviously turned on by what they had seen, until he got between the two of them and my wife guided his mouth over my hard cock. The girls took turns helping but he quickly learned what I enjoyed and sucked me like he had been sucking cock his whole life. I laid down to give his wife a seat on my face while he and my wife brought me to climax. She and I came at the same time as my wife helped lick my cum on his chin and he smiled, rock hard again.

We never had sex or broke out the strapons, but that’s a night I don’t think any of us will ever forget.
 
My first bisexual experience is 100% because of this website. My beautiful wife and I both love erotic stories and so we often perused this site alone and together. One day We came upon a story that involved two couples and all the parties playing with everyone one. Both her and I were turned on more than we had been in quite some time and began to discuss the story. She has identified as a bisexual woman for as long as I have known her; me - closest I ever came to anything involving man on man was a porno movie of a couple getting a massage from a male masseuse that ended in happy endings for all involved (still one of my favorite videos of all time). Anyways, as we explored the story and each other, my wife bought a strapon and we experimented with it all.. one night as She told me how much she enjoyed watching me suck her cock, I suggested we find another couple. In my head, I was still coming to grips with my new desires and a couple helped ease me in to my bisexual curiosity.

So we posted a personal here on literotica, looking for another couple to chat with. After many single men offered their services, we received a note from another couple with a very similar story. She - very bi; he - exploring it for the first time. So for a month or two we chatted on line. Sending sexy pictures and playing role playing games. We would video chat, watching each other fuck. Directing the other couple on what we wanted to see. Seeing him suck on her cock while my wife sucked on mine... or taking all of my wife’s strapon while he did the same with his wife, his hard cock hanging there in all it’s glory on the computer screen.

As luck would have it, a business trip brought us together and after a dinner and a few drinks, we got a hotel room. Everyone was pretty shy at first, but the ladies both eventually took the lead and started to make out with each other, sexily stripping the other bare. He and I rubbing are cocks through our pants nervous as to what to do next... well the ladies come over and his wife (beautiful red head with freckles and gorgeous soft tits) drops down in front of me unzipping my pants and letting my hard cock hit her lips, while my wife (tall, slender, with curly brown hair and perky firm tits) did the same to the other guy. Neither of us guys had ever seen our wives with another man, but as the ladies sucked our cocks and took Off our pants we only got harder. After getting us naked, the ladies decided they wanted more of each other, leaving us two guys rock hard, watching as they 69’d.

At that moment, I got the guts to lean over and grab his cock. Pulsing, my hand slid up his shaft, to his huge mushroom head. With precum dripping out of his cock, I slowly stroked it, feeling another man’s pulsing cock in my hand for the first time. My wife breaks away from her sweet embrace to watch me slowly drop to my knees and take him into my mouth. Both the girls gasped as I pleasured him, taking him all the way into my throat and cupping his balls while I tickled his taint with my thumb. His wife came over and kissed him passionately when he came hard but much quicker than I expected. His wife then told him it was his turn and that the two girls would show him how it’s done until he recovered. The two ladies were like dogs unleashed as they fought over my cock, obviously turned on by what they had seen, until he got between the two of them and my wife guided his mouth over my hard cock. The girls took turns helping but he quickly learned what I enjoyed and sucked me like he had been sucking cock his whole life. I laid down to give his wife a seat on my face while he and my wife brought me to climax. She and I came at the same time as my wife helped lick my cum on his chin and he smiled, rock hard again.

We never had sex or broke out the strapons, but that’s a night I don’t think any of us will ever forget.

Very hot!!!
 
Like others, my first time would have been as a teen experimenting with a friend over porn magazines. Solo masturbation turned into mutual masturbation which eventually turned into swapping blowjobs. The first time we ever did oral, he did me.

Later, I felt sort of obligated to return the favor. He never requested it, but I wanted to give it a try and really liked it. A lot.

I can still remember him getting panicked when he got close to an orgasm. He warned me it was about to happen and I just kept going. Why do it at all if you're not going to swallow, too?

Later that summer, he invited a friend to join us and I got to suck both of them. It was a very good (and formulating) summer!
 
My first bisexual experience is 100% because of this website. My beautiful wife and I both love erotic stories and so we often perused this site alone and together. One day We came upon a story that involved two couples and all the parties playing with everyone one. Both her and I were turned on more than we had been in quite some time and began to discuss the story. She has identified as a bisexual woman for as long as I have known her; me - closest I ever came to anything involving man on man was a porno movie of a couple getting a massage from a male masseuse that ended in happy endings for all involved (still one of my favorite videos of all time). Anyways, as we explored the story and each other, my wife bought a strapon and we experimented with it all.. one night as She told me how much she enjoyed watching me suck her cock, I suggested we find another couple. In my head, I was still coming to grips with my new desires and a couple helped ease me in to my bisexual curiosity.

So we posted a personal here on literotica, looking for another couple to chat with. After many single men offered their services, we received a note from another couple with a very similar story. She - very bi; he - exploring it for the first time. So for a month or two we chatted on line. Sending sexy pictures and playing role playing games. We would video chat, watching each other fuck. Directing the other couple on what we wanted to see. Seeing him suck on her cock while my wife sucked on mine... or taking all of my wife’s strapon while he did the same with his wife, his hard cock hanging there in all it’s glory on the computer screen.

As luck would have it, a business trip brought us together and after a dinner and a few drinks, we got a hotel room. Everyone was pretty shy at first, but the ladies both eventually took the lead and started to make out with each other, sexily stripping the other bare. He and I rubbing are cocks through our pants nervous as to what to do next... well the ladies come over and his wife (beautiful red head with freckles and gorgeous soft tits) drops down in front of me unzipping my pants and letting my hard cock hit her lips, while my wife (tall, slender, with curly brown hair and perky firm tits) did the same to the other guy. Neither of us guys had ever seen our wives with another man, but as the ladies sucked our cocks and took Off our pants we only got harder. After getting us naked, the ladies decided they wanted more of each other, leaving us two guys rock hard, watching as they 69’d.

At that moment, I got the guts to lean over and grab his cock. Pulsing, my hand slid up his shaft, to his huge mushroom head. With precum dripping out of his cock, I slowly stroked it, feeling another man’s pulsing cock in my hand for the first time. My wife breaks away from her sweet embrace to watch me slowly drop to my knees and take him into my mouth. Both the girls gasped as I pleasured him, taking him all the way into my throat and cupping his balls while I tickled his taint with my thumb. His wife came over and kissed him passionately when he came hard but much quicker than I expected. His wife then told him it was his turn and that the two girls would show him how it’s done until he recovered. The two ladies were like dogs unleashed as they fought over my cock, obviously turned on by what they had seen, until he got between the two of them and my wife guided his mouth over my hard cock. The girls took turns helping but he quickly learned what I enjoyed and sucked me like he had been sucking cock his whole life. I laid down to give his wife a seat on my face while he and my wife brought me to climax. She and I came at the same time as my wife helped lick my cum on his chin and he smiled, rock hard again.

We never had sex or broke out the strapons, but that’s a night I don’t think any of us will ever forget.

Very erotic, thanks for sharing!
 
"Bisexual", "breeding", and "sexual expression" are all different things. They do not require being separated. They are already separate and unique. A man wanting to have a sexual experience with another man is much different than a man who wants to have a romantic, intimate and loving relationship with a man. Gay men want the latter. Most men who just want to experience sucking a cock want no parts of that.

Labels aren't passe. Gay still means gay and straight still means straight. But the term "bisexual"gets used to define too many different things. The term bisexual is often used as an easy and convenient shorthand (of a kind) to define a sexual experience with someone of the same sex. But it really is more than that. A person who is truly bisexual is open to more than just a sexual experience with someone of either sex. They want (or are open to) an intimate and loving relationship with either sex, that includes kissing, cuddling, romance and a joined lifestyle. I doubt most men who say they are "curious about sucking cock" want any of those things. They aren't bisexual. They just find something arousing about the idea of sucking a cock.

To put it another way, a man isn't gay simply because he likes to suck cock. (As if that is the only defining characteristic of a gay man.) It's far more than that. He is gay because he wants to love a man and be loved by a man. Who ever says they are curiosus about that? No one.
I refer to myself as bicurious. It's like this. I have for years enjoyed wrapping my first around another man's cock and perhaps his fist mine. I have dreamed of sucking another man's cock, but have never yet found the bravado to do so - to completion anyway. If I find the right cock that will change, and I will be fully bi! Until then...
 
My first bi

My first bi happened when I was 22.
Was always straight, didn’t even thing of guys so what happened just flowed.
Had an argument with my then girlfriend. Left the house angry. Drove to a
Bar I liked close to a college. Sat at the bar having a beer.
Guy walks in, sits next to me. He’s got a sketch book. Art student I figured.
I was looking and he flipped his pages. Told him drawing were good.
That started the conversation. I told him why I was there, he said yeah I recently broke up with my lover. Hummm I thought.. but didn’t think past it.
So bar is closing.. we walk outside together. He’s going to walk home.
I offer him a ride.he says sure. Get to his apartment and he says come on up.
As we are walking up the steps he says are you bi? I answer yes.
At the time I wasn’t really sure what bi meant.. but I say yeah I am
We go up, he gets us a drink and pulls out a joint.
We smoke the joint and then he leans over and kisses me.
Felt funny, he had a beard but I kissed him back. As we kissed our hands went to each other cocks. He stood after breaking the kiss and led me to the bedroom
We both silently undressed and got into bed. He sucked me first and I came in his mouth. I then returned the favor.. all firsts for me. We had oral two more times.
He wanted me to stay but I said I have to go. I left and as he kissed me goodbye
He gave me his phone number. On the way home I threw it away.
I went home very confused about myself..
Next day I made up with my girlfriend and didn’t visit the man man thing again till I was in my 30’s..
 
My first bi happened when I was 22.
Was always straight, didn’t even thing of guys so what happened just flowed.
Had an argument with my then girlfriend. Left the house angry. Drove to a
Bar I liked close to a college. Sat at the bar having a beer.
Guy walks in, sits next to me. He’s got a sketch book. Art student I figured.
I was looking and he flipped his pages. Told him drawing were good.
That started the conversation. I told him why I was there, he said yeah I recently broke up with my lover. Hummm I thought.. but didn’t think past it.
So bar is closing.. we walk outside together. He’s going to walk home.
I offer him a ride.he says sure. Get to his apartment and he says come on up.
As we are walking up the steps he says are you bi? I answer yes.
At the time I wasn’t really sure what bi meant.. but I say yeah I am
We go up, he gets us a drink and pulls out a joint.
We smoke the joint and then he leans over and kisses me.
Felt funny, he had a beard but I kissed him back. As we kissed our hands went to each other cocks. He stood after breaking the kiss and led me to the bedroom
We both silently undressed and got into bed. He sucked me first and I came in his mouth. I then returned the favor.. all firsts for me. We had oral two more times.
He wanted me to stay but I said I have to go. I left and as he kissed me goodbye
He gave me his phone number. On the way home I threw it away.
I went home very confused about myself..
Next day I made up with my girlfriend and didn’t visit the man man thing again till I was in my 30’s..

Yummy story. Thanks for sharing.
 
My first bisexual experience is 100% because of this website. My beautiful wife and I both love erotic stories and so we often perused this site alone and together. One day We came upon a story that involved two couples and all the parties playing with everyone one. Both her and I were turned on more than we had been in quite some time and began to discuss the story. She has identified as a bisexual woman for as long as I have known her; me - closest I ever came to anything involving man on man was a porno movie of a couple getting a massage from a male masseuse that ended in happy endings for all involved (still one of my favorite videos of all time). Anyways, as we explored the story and each other, my wife bought a strapon and we experimented with it all.. one night as She told me how much she enjoyed watching me suck her cock, I suggested we find another couple. In my head, I was still coming to grips with my new desires and a couple helped ease me in to my bisexual curiosity.

So we posted a personal here on literotica, looking for another couple to chat with. After many single men offered their services, we received a note from another couple with a very similar story. She - very bi; he - exploring it for the first time. So for a month or two we chatted on line. Sending sexy pictures and playing role playing games. We would video chat, watching each other fuck. Directing the other couple on what we wanted to see. Seeing him suck on her cock while my wife sucked on mine... or taking all of my wife’s strapon while he did the same with his wife, his hard cock hanging there in all it’s glory on the computer screen.

As luck would have it, a business trip brought us together and after a dinner and a few drinks, we got a hotel room. Everyone was pretty shy at first, but the ladies both eventually took the lead and started to make out with each other, sexily stripping the other bare. He and I rubbing are cocks through our pants nervous as to what to do next... well the ladies come over and his wife (beautiful red head with freckles and gorgeous soft tits) drops down in front of me unzipping my pants and letting my hard cock hit her lips, while my wife (tall, slender, with curly brown hair and perky firm tits) did the same to the other guy. Neither of us guys had ever seen our wives with another man, but as the ladies sucked our cocks and took Off our pants we only got harder. After getting us naked, the ladies decided they wanted more of each other, leaving us two guys rock hard, watching as they 69’d.

At that moment, I got the guts to lean over and grab his cock. Pulsing, my hand slid up his shaft, to his huge mushroom head. With precum dripping out of his cock, I slowly stroked it, feeling another man’s pulsing cock in my hand for the first time. My wife breaks away from her sweet embrace to watch me slowly drop to my knees and take him into my mouth. Both the girls gasped as I pleasured him, taking him all the way into my throat and cupping his balls while I tickled his taint with my thumb. His wife came over and kissed him passionately when he came hard but much quicker than I expected. His wife then told him it was his turn and that the two girls would show him how it’s done until he recovered. The two ladies were like dogs unleashed as they fought over my cock, obviously turned on by what they had seen, until he got between the two of them and my wife guided his mouth over my hard cock. The girls took turns helping but he quickly learned what I enjoyed and sucked me like he had been sucking cock his whole life. I laid down to give his wife a seat on my face while he and my wife brought me to climax. She and I came at the same time as my wife helped lick my cum on his chin and he smiled, rock hard again.

We never had sex or broke out the strapons, but that’s a night I don’t think any of us will ever forget.

What an amazing story. Thank you for sharing it with us. Definitely a bucket list favorite for many of us.
 
That's a fascinating question, and I'm too new to man sex to give you a definitive answer. But I found that bathhouses are an easy option.

Yes, it took a lot of courage that first time to get naked and walk into the unknown, but my fears were unfounded. And by the time I left, I had experienced sex with three men (three separate encounters, not all at once).

The big concern with bathhouses is supposed to be STDs, but I've yet to understand how getting picked up in a bar offers any more protection that hooking up in a bathhouse.

Unfortunately, you won't find a bathhouse in every town. But if you happen to live in or visit a big city, just open up your browser and look for a listing. And be sure to practice safe sex.

I absolutely LOVE bathhouses. I used to travel alot all over the US and any time I could find one, I would visit it. Amazing experiences. YES this would be a perfect place to have your first experience if you can find one.
 
I absolutely LOVE bathhouses. I used to travel alot all over the US and any time I could find one, I would visit it. Amazing experiences. YES this would be a perfect place to have your first experience if you can find one.

Totally agree with you. I have only visited one ( about 8-10 times) and found it to be a very relaxed venue with no pressure whatsoever. Besides I found it very exciting to be naked or near naked in that sexually charged atmosphere.
 
My first time

I was married and travelling out of town alone, thought about sucking cock for years but could never get over the fear of getting found out. This time I couldn’t stop the need to taste cock. A week before I got to the city I was visiting I placed a ad on CL. Got a few reply’s but one caught my eye and we started exchanging emails. I told him the hotel I was at and was so nervous when the day came I almost backed out, he was outside on the street I went down and said to him follow me and walked back into the hotel elevator with him right behind me. My heart was pounding so hard by the time we got to my room but there was no turning back. Once in the room we stripped and got into a 69. His cock was small compared to my nice thick 7” uncut but I had no problem deep throating him and making him cum.i knew as soon as I swallowed his load I was hooked on sucking cock. That was years ago and I’m still at it even more now that I’m single.
 
Great Thread

What my footer doesn't say is that I fooled around with a couple friends when young but no guys since. I always wished I could have had a little more fun than what I experienced.

I have really enjoyed chatting with guys and even occasional phone and cam for the last 20 years or so. Now, I think I am ready for a real time jerk bud - I do need a host - and not into the car or park meet thing. Ideally, a single or older first timer like myself. however, I am not interested in oral or anal. My fantasy is to find a compatible guy - stop by his place after getting to know our shared desires - kick back, share our favorite porn, strip and stroke. Touching and lending a hand would be irresistible - so very open to that. just nothing too hardcore. Panty wearers most welcome. ;)

I think I'd prefer guys with average to slimmer builds. Would love it if he had larger or very sensitive nips that liked attention - love great nips on anyone.
 
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I have been sucked off by men on a few occasions. My first time was the best. It was about 15 years ago. I was in an adult store that had private booths for viewing xxx videos. I was watching and stroking, and there was a glory hole from the adjoining booth. A young man entered that booth and I could see him watching me. After a short while, he whispered that he wants to suck my dick. Back then I had never been sucked by a guy before, and though I was a little curious, I was reluctant. But I was excited over being watched while I stroked my hard cock. He kept asking to suck me. I finally told him that we could go into a larger booth together and watch each other stroke. There was a large booth with a full sized sofa.

I zipped up, then left the booth I was in and walked over to and entered the large booth. He followed me a few seconds later and locked the door. I unzipped, pulled out my cock, sat on the sofa and began stroking again. He did the same. He was watching me intently and he kept moving his face closer and closer to my cock. I resisted at first. Yet I was extremely turned on and super horny and excited about what it would feel like to be sucked off by this young, nice looking guy. Pretty soon, I could no longer resist and I let him put his mouth on my hard, throbbing cock. He sucked me in deep right away and it felt so wonderful. His head bobbed up and down and his tongue swirled across the sensitive underside of my dick. He kept this up for a while and I was very close to cumming, so he slowed the pace a little. Then he started licking my balls and that felt better than I would have ever imagined! He was so good at it, applying just the right amount of pressure and ran his tongue across every part of my ball sack. It made my cock throb and pre-cum started dripping out. He quickly sucked my pre-cum into his mouth. He alternated between sucking my cock and licking my balls for several minutes while I was very much of the verge of shooting a huge load of cum. When he sensed that I couldn't hold off any longer, he sucked me in deep again and began making steady, long strokes with his lips around my dick, up and down. I started cumming hard and he kept his sucking motion going while I shot powerful jets of warm, sweet cum into him mouth, which he hungrily swallowed down. He kept sucking until the throbbing of my cock subsided. Like I said, it was by far the best blowjob I had ever experienced.

I have been sucked by men a few times since then, but it has never been as good as that first time.
 
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