My husband won’t fuck me. Will you?

I’m desperate for a man who will appreciate my body.

I once dated a woman who's husband wouldn't fuck her (except on her birthday). She surrendered herself completely when making love she so appreciated it. And the days after her birthday, even more so. Lucky is the one who who fills the empty place in your bed.
 
I am in an opposite relationship. First, have you simply asked why he will not touch you? Not verbally communicating has been the biggest downfall in our marriage. If I had asked her outright why she was always making excuses for not having sex and asked “what is wrong with me?”, I might have gotten the answer that sex was too painful to bear, instead of obsessing to myself for nearly 15 years about “what must be wrong with me?” Once that was found out whe took measures to feel better or get around the problem with some other forms of sensuality. And if you believe that, I have a bridge I would like to sell you. NO! She was not interested hormone therapy. She was not interested in looking for natural ways to try to improve things. She still would not touch me in any sexual way. The onset of dementia has not helped at all, and now I am to the place where I actually cringe when she touches or hugs me. Good luck, but really try to talk. Express your feelings. Each of us owns our own feelings. When expressed as a feeling, the other person cannot really downgrade you or get mad at you, nor you them. The way you feel? YOu won it!
 
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