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I guess I'm a different kind of sissy.

One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
 
midlifecrisispanties said:
One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
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Probably not, but you are who you are and that is fine
 
Well Mid..........

midlifecrisispanties said:
One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
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You are swell. Everyone is diffo; everyone has their own deal, their own kinks. U and wifey are enjoying this, and thats a hell of a lot better than a lot of marriages. Theres NO rule on how to be a sissy. I have dated about 8; they are all different, as any damned adult would expect.
 
dacoach44 said:
You are swell. Everyone is diffo; everyone has their own deal, their own kinks. U and wifey are enjoying this, and thats a hell of a lot better than a lot of marriages. Theres NO rule on how to be a sissy. I have dated about 8; they are all different, as any damned adult would expect.
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Yeah, The fact that she supports me in it is definitely a huge plus. I hear a lot of people say they have to hide who they are from their spouse. Maybe that's what bugs me. The less than adult attitude of "us" and "them."
 
midlifecrisispanties said:
One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
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You do you, Boo.
Seriously. If your way of life is working for you and your significant other, then no other person's opinion matters. When you step outside the bounds of binary gender rigity, binary sexuality rigidity, and male dominant relationship dynamics, there are almost infinite combinations of these separate factors.
On top of that, no one says you have to act, feel, or present the same way all the time.

Me? Sometimes i feel more girly; sometimes less. I'm always hairless below the neck, wear my own long hair, and sport a nice pedi...even in full manly mode.
 
blade_rocknut said:
You do you, Boo.
Seriously. If your way of life is working for you and your significant other, then no other person's opinion matters. When you step outside the bounds of binary gender rigity, binary sexuality rigidity, and male dominant relationship dynamics, there are almost infinite combinations of these separate factors.
On top of that, no one says you have to act, feel, or present the same way all the time.

Me? Sometimes i feel more girly; sometimes less. I'm always hairless below the neck, wear my own long hair, and sport a nice pedi...even in full manly mode.
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Interesting. I kind of figured that there was no set rule on all of it. I'll admit, though, that sometimes I wish that I had the figure for the petticoats and evening gowns. I'm too "Man shaped." :) But, Mistress has said that for Christmas, I may be getting a nice Geisha kimono. I can see that being a "half way point. " And, like you said, as long as it works for us.

And what seems to work for us is me being "the boy who is dressed and treated like a girl."

Thanks fo your comments. :rose:
 
I think it would be a huge turn on to be with a girlie boy for the night.
 
Well Mid....

midlifecrisispanties said:
Since I don't have the small frame to fit into a frilly dress or an evening gown, Mistress has proposed a compromise. What do you think? She says I mght get something like this for Christmas, what do you think?
Chinese Men's Silk Satin Embroider Kimono Robe Gown Dragon (Blue, XXXL)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IWNUN5E/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Ok20DbJ5S8AG9
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Thats a nice silk boy; it would feel good on your skin. Poly, lace, satin...its all good. I also have a hard time buying lingerie that fits . I cant wait to sleep with my gay cock in my new nightie; he has seen in and wants to fuck me in it!

https://i.imgur.com/YUo0zEq.jpg
 
midlifecrisispanties said:
One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
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You're spot on! Fetishism, lifestyle choices, sexual orientations, whatever you want to call the choices we make, the things that give us pleasure and joy, labels are meaningless. The value I see is for people who feel isolated, who feel like they are the only ones who feel these desires, that they find a flag, a term that helps them communicate their desires or find others who accept them. In the age of the Internet, "interest groups" can assemble from around the world, give individuals support with issues their desires create, or the isolation if they don't have someone in their life to accept them. Everyone wants to be accepted.

Of course, there is a dark side to this. There are people who perform immoral, illegal, and reprehensible acts, finding pleasure in them. They find others on the Internet who like the same things and give them the feeling that what they are doing is okay. It's the same dynamic and a sad consequence of ability to enjoy free communication on the Internet.

But put that aside. Sissy or not, whatever label you choose is yours to define and enjoy.
 
SweetAnnie40 said:
You're spot on! Fetishism, lifestyle choices, sexual orientations, whatever you want to call the choices we make, the things that give us pleasure and joy, labels are meaningless. The value I see is for people who feel isolated, who feel like they are the only ones who feel these desires, that they find a flag, a term that helps them communicate their desires or find others who accept them. In the age of the Internet, "interest groups" can assemble from around the world, give individuals support with issues their desires create, or the isolation if they don't have someone in their life to accept them. Everyone wants to be accepted.

Of course, there is a dark side to this. There are people who perform immoral, illegal, and reprehensible acts, finding pleasure in them. They find others on the Internet who like the same things and give them the feeling that what they are doing is okay. It's the same dynamic and a sad consequence of ability to enjoy free communication on the Internet.

But put that aside. Sissy or not, whatever label you choose is yours to define and enjoy.
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Thank you. Yes, there is a dark side. The normalisation af pedophila being a prime example. I allow for a lot up to and including minor S and M. Pedophiles always have and always will make me stabby.

But you make a point about acceptance and labels. But man, there sure are a lot of people with an acceptance obsession, who demand all or nothing acceptance of their choices and chosen titles.

And, yes, like political "us and them"-ism, I need to learn to just ignore it and go with my conscience.
 
midlifecrisispanties said:
One of the things I see a lot of, not so much here, but in other forums is a harsh attitude toward people who are new to one of the lifestyle choices.

A repeated theme in these harsh statements is always "You aren't a real ______, because you don't ________ like I do." And I wonder if what each of us chooses to do has to follow a pattern that someone else follows.

I look at the lifestyle choice I am living with my wife/Mistress, and I see that it doesn't fit the same pattern as many out there. For instance, she doesn't require me to be clean shaved, just well trimmed. She doesn't make me dress frilly in public, except under my boy clothes.

She does use the various things like panties, stockings, plugs, etc; but doesn't have me use them openly in public. She has had me wear the plug under my clothes. She uses the cage only as punishment rather than a 24/7 thing. She prefers to keep me ribbon bound and in panties.

She prefers to have me "present as male" to the public, while being totally girly underneath. She likes the painted toenails, telling me what to wear to work, etc. I'm definitely a beta and a submissive, but I do not have the figure or appearance for petticoats and dresses. So, are all sissies equal?
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Normally if you are a sissy it is because of the way you feel and not because of someone else. The lifestyle is different which means you are different. So why worry so much about others and what they say or think about you.
Do not settle on a label just be yourself.
A lot of folks are in the "Me" world and think it is all for them and their way, be different, be bold and for good sake be yourself.
It really about how you feel inside and not about others, as log as you and She agree on it and like it that's all that matters.
This has been a sissy point of view..
 
SissySalina said:
Normally if you are a sissy it is because of the way you feel and not because of someone else. The lifestyle is different which means you are different. So why worry so much about others and what they say or think about you.
Do not settle on a label just be yourself.
A lot of folks are in the "Me" world and think it is all for them and their way, be different, be bold and for good sake be yourself.
It really about how you feel inside and not about others, as log as you and She agree on it and like it that's all that matters.
This has been a sissy point of view..
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Thaks. That helps.
 
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Ok... So, my phone is not letting me do photo links in any form. Anyone know how to fix this?
 
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