Natural Slave?

[graceanne]

on one hand, being estranged from my mother hurts - I want her to know the kids and vice versa.

On the other hand, with what she had pulled before, keeping the kids safe is more important than her "grandparental rights."

She has proven to us that she refuses to grow up or even learn to forgive or accept the forgiveness I have given previously. We recently found a letter she wrote years ago to me (I was 21) and the language she uses would have made just about anyone cringe. It was as if she was trying to feed me candy with one hand and beat me with the other at the same time.

Yes, I found out that she was into the scene - when her boyfriend walked into a play party I was attending. Can we say "squick"? I knew we could.

That was the end of my play party days.

Snowy Ciara's parents are into 'the scene'. Her mother figure out snowy was and gave her a heads up so they could coordinate what munches and stuff they could attend without running across eachother?

Personally I laughed and laughed, imagining her expression if her mom and dad had walked into a play party or munch she was at.

 

[Shivanhellkite]

Sorry to bug, but I'm new. What is SAMMY?

 

[graceanne]

Sorry to bug, but I'm new. What is SAMMY?

Smart Ass Masochist (or SAM), so someone who's SAMMY is a smart ass masochist.

 

[Shivanhellkite]

Thanks.

 

[graceanne]

Thanks.

No problem.

 

[marieR19]

Hmmmm.... I don't know about "natural slave" as such.... But I tend to lean toward the thought that some people are just naturally more dominate/in-control/leader-y then others, and visa-versa.

I can't really contribute anything from my childhood on my submissiveness, nor genetics... My mom is very outspoken and handles herself well and knows when/how to take control, but then again so is my dad. I was always encouraged to stand up for myself and be outgoing and stuff when I was young, but I always just felt a natural leaning towards being quiet and obedient and... well, submissive.


Heather

 

[myinnerslut]

Snowy Ciara's parents are into 'the scene'. Her mother figure out snowy was and gave her a heads up so they could coordinate what munches and stuff they could attend without running across eachother?

Personally I laughed and laughed, imagining her expression if her mom and dad had walked into a play party or munch she was at.

my parents were too, and they were not surpised at all when i decided i like this (they thought i would be more domme then sub though, go figure). my parents and i talk about this and they informed me about saftey issues. my mom and i even compared some "kinky" accessories... she has a leather corset to die for thats just a few sizes to big for me. but i digress...

to the OP, i dont think people are naturally submissive, but Sir says the same thing about my collar and my long dark brown hair, so i think its just aesthetic

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I also think that the symbolism of the collar adds to the beauty of it. I was looking at a picture I had printed of rose & I that I had blown up to be framed. I could see her collar peeking out from the sweatshirt she was wearing and it just made the picture...