Natural, trimmed or shaved?

usually I keep myself trimmed and only completely shaved for special occasions - it's just too much work to shave all the time. but since hubby is gone I decided to let it grow out naturally and see what happens. it is definitely a different feeling and the sensations I get when I play with a full bush almost make it feel like a different person. I can't remember the last time I had so much hair down there!!

well this weekend I decided to go ahead and shave it all off again. the razor felt amazing as it glided across me and once again exposed my bare tender flesh. it was hard to wait until I was done before I started playing, but once I was done I played for an hour.

it was fun to grow it out for a change, but I really do prefer to be shaved or at least closely trimmed!
 
My wife is trimmed and I've come to the conclusion that it is the look (and feel) I like best. But what's more interesting is how we got to that and the wonderful outcomes that have followed. We're in our mid-50's, been together for 30 years, my wife has never had sex with anyone but me, and until a year ago was fairly hairy down below, only trimming her swimsuit line when absolutely necessary. She's a conservative woman and prefers the natural look in all aspects of her appearance, though thankfully she's always shaved her legs and under arms.

I'm convinced my wife's decision to trim her pussy hair very closely has been partly behind the wonderful improvement in our sex-life over the past 2-3 years. There are other factors too, some of which I write about in a couple of my stories. In short, our previously pedestrian sex-life prompted me to seek pleasure elsewhere as I approached my 50th a few years ago. Almost all the women I played with outside my marriage were shaven and several suggested I trim my own pubic hair very closely to gain further pleasure. I simply told my wife I was fed up with so much hair down there and wanted a more tactile experience whenever we played. She was more amused than anything and thankfully accepted my reasoning. She took a while to get used to it and for us to find the right length of hair so as not to prickle her with stubble, but she now loves it.

One outcome is her pleasure in looking down at my cock as I slide in and out of her and she says I look much bigger without much hair. I've loved hearing her tell me how thick I look at the root of my cock and how she loves feeling stretched by my girth when I'm deep inside her. I'm sure this visual aspect has been a big factor in the increased pleasure she gets when we fuck. When she's at her most aroused her pussy gets quite creamy and I can tell when this occurs by how sloppy she feels inside. That in turn gets me even harder and in those situations I look down and see a 'tide-ring' of our body fluids, white and creamy, around the base of my cock. Having such little hair down there makes those things easier to see.

About a year ago my wife asked me if I thought she should trim. I said I would love it, but that I would never press her and that it was up to her to try whatever she wanted. She did it by stealth and gradually cut it shorter until she was quite closely trimmed down below. I loved it and made sure to make a big fuss of loving her pussy even more than I usually do. Then one weekend she amazed me by using Veet on herself and presenting me with a completely bald pussy. I was blown away and we spent the whole weekend fucking ourselves silly, it was like our early years of being married again.

Once the novelty had worn off and she got tired of maintaining it we settled for a trimmed look, and we're now both completely content with our respective personal grooming. She has a trimmed hairy mons and a very small growth of hair around her labia - just enough to be soft as neither of us like stubble. I love parting the short soft hair when I go down on her, and I love the way the small amount of hair frames her pussy - especially when it's open & wet. It has huge visual appeal for me, far more than when she was untrimmed and also when she was hairless. When I pull out of her after a lovely deep fuck I sit back on my heels and take in the sight of her gaping cunt, my semen dribbling out of her and the tendrils of hair around her labia all wet and laced with cum strings. That's my visual kick, similar to the one I described above for my wife. Having less hair makes for a much more appealing look.

Having a lot less hair has greatly helped us in many ways get more pleasure from sex. Her pussy is now much more exposed to my gaze and attention. She loves me studying it and describing to her in detail what she looks like down there when I'm examining her intimately. As for cunnilingus, well that's now utterly mindblowing. We've always enjoyed it but she now likes me to take ages eating her out, keeping her on the boil while we allow her arousal to build at more of a controlled rate. I've worked on my technique too and my wife's trimmed pussy means I'm much happier to spend more time eating her. When it was untrimmed I think we both got tired of brushing hair out of the way and it probably held us back in exploring our pleasure. It's now not unusual for me to happily spend 30 mins eating her until she explodes in a massive orgasm.

Something else has happened too since we started grooming ourselves. My wife now likes me to clean her up after I've unloaded in her. Furthermore, she's happy for me to be quite demonstrative about it, telling her how I'm scooping the cum out of her with my finger so that I can then lick it out. She seems to to like it when I tell her I love the taste of my own cum and she enjoys seeing and feeling me clean her after a satisfying fuck. That would all have been just too gross for her a year ago and I'm convinced that for her, less pussy hair = feeling better about herself = more relaxed about sex = happier to experiment and (literally) open herself up to new pleasures.
 
This is a multiple part question for gals and guys.

Gals - do you prefer to keep yourself natural, trimmed, or shaved completely?
Guys - do you prefer your gals natural, trimmed or shaved?
Gals - do you prefer your guys natural, trimmed or shaved?
Guys - do you prefer to keep yourself natural, trimmed or shaved?

You should also say why.

For me I prefer my gals to be slightly trimmed, not quite natural. I love that look and if she is a natural redhead I'm cumming in my pants it turns me on so much. I'm not saying I don't like the other choices because I think all women's bodies are heavenly. I just have my preference.

For me, I swing between natural and completely shaved depending on my mood. Sometimes I keep myself shaved; while I might go a couple of years without even a trim.

I prefer her shaved but a nicely trimmed landing strip above is beautiful too! I've kept myself shaved for years. Love the feel of smooth skin on skin, and it make oral such a pleasure.
 
Trimmed always, shaved occasionally, though I've been staying shaved more frequently lately.

He's trimmed.
 
Shaved is nice once in a while, it feels great but is too high maintenance. Nicely trimmed is ideal for both in my opinion. Not hidden in a forest but not totally bald either.
 
Waxing is amazing for about 2 weeks then the hairs start trying to get past the folicle opening and at least with my wife and i we get ingrown hairs in the area just above the shaft base or above the pussy. It sucks and we stopped going. We did it 3 times maybe we should have stuck it out longer maybe it would have gotten better. The pain was tolerable. If the waxer knows what they are doing they can minimize pain pretty well. Weirdly i think subconsciously i got turned on by it cuz i always had precum oozing out when i was done.

I keep myself trimmed up top and the corners where the legs connect. I keep my shaft balls chode and ass crack bald. I dont mind a bit of hair on a chick but needs to be maintained. I think the lips and crack should be bald tho. Easier for oral exploral....exploring. I guess it just depends on what you prefer and what is comfortable. If i could choose tho i would prefer bald silky smooth pussy lips for me to bury my face in.
 
I would say I fall inline with Ian. I like all the working parts nice and clean, beyond that a little hair is ok. Just no bush please.
 
I keep it shaved...started about 5 years ago and I can't stand to let it grow at all!
 
Brazilian

I think the term for bare down there is Braziian. Whatever I have been in heaven for sometime now because of the prevailing custom for women is bare , bald cleanly shaved pussy. It's almost an obsession for me. Thank you all you beautifuly bare cunt ladies. Thank you one and all.
 
A compromise

She prefers to keep hers shaved, but I (mostly) like trimmed.
But during Jan and Feb, I insist on a fully natural/hairy pussy. Don't ask my why, but on a chilly winter night, it turns me on. We compromise, 10 months her way and 2 months mine.
She likes me to manscape, so I do. Trim and tidy, and the payoff is great oral. Works for us.
 
I think the term for bare down there is Braziian. Whatever I have been in heaven for sometime now because of the prevailing custom for women is bare , bald cleanly shaved pussy. It's almost an obsession for me. Thank you all you beautifuly bare cunt ladies. Thank you one and all.

The Brazilians got it right.
 
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