knkycpl4u2
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whoops forgot to repost your qoute see the above response and i'll do better next time
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whoops forgot to repost your qoute see the above response and i'll do better next time
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ou will find being dom or sub is very addictive
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i must admit for not wanting to try this ever in my life. I am cetainly liking all these ideas that keep coming to me and they get my mind racing with new and better thoughts too. I may be addicted and not even know it yet.
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I agree with other posters that you have to know him, and well. What might humiliate one person would do nothing for another.
In what does he invest his pride? His body, a manly image, his job, a team? Find a way to get him to compromise one of those things nearest to him, in small ways at first.
If it's his body, make him change at the gym (and shower) with your slutty marker insults scrawled over him. His manly image? Have him make regular purchases of frilly women's underwear, noting to the clerk that it is for him, and carry a copy of Cosmo with him constantly. His job? Well, you may want to think about it before fucking with his job, but you can send him to the men's room to masturbate with a pacifier in his mouth a few times, and send you pics. A team? Dress him in his beloved team colors, you don the rival team uniform and fuck his ass while he sings the opposing fight song – enthusiastically, damnit – and begs you to make him your team's bitch.
In what does he invest his pride? His body, a manly image, his job, a team? Find a way to get him to compromise one of those things nearest to him, in small ways at first.
If it's his body, make him change at the gym (and shower) with your slutty marker insults scrawled over him. His manly image? Have him make regular purchases of frilly women's underwear, noting to the clerk that it is for him, and carry a copy of Cosmo with him constantly. His job? Well, you may want to think about it before fucking with his job, but you can send him to the men's room to masturbate with a pacifier in his mouth a few times, and send you pics. A team? Dress him in his beloved team colors, you don the rival team uniform and fuck his ass while he sings the opposing fight song – enthusiastically, damnit – and begs you to make him your team's bitch.
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I like the way that's phrased.
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Ok I promised an update so here it goes. Dinner didnt happen last night so nothing to say there.
However I did take him plugged to the mall today and the folks at Old Navy watched him go buy a nice pink outfit to wear for me. I also had him go to the dressing room and try it on for me and then he had to come out and model it inside the store. Many people were looking and staring at him it was glorious.
So when we were riding home from the mall just 10 minutes ago.... I was challenged with the question. Is that all you got??? I replied to him that he better not get greedy or he may pay for it.
So that being said I need many more devious ideas than the above to show him who is now in charge. PM or respond here Thanks again for the replies!!
However I did take him plugged to the mall today and the folks at Old Navy watched him go buy a nice pink outfit to wear for me. I also had him go to the dressing room and try it on for me and then he had to come out and model it inside the store. Many people were looking and staring at him it was glorious.
So when we were riding home from the mall just 10 minutes ago.... I was challenged with the question. Is that all you got??? I replied to him that he better not get greedy or he may pay for it.
So that being said I need many more devious ideas than the above to show him who is now in charge. PM or respond here Thanks again for the replies!!
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Sounds like he may be wanting you to set up a meet with another man and have him perform on him. He may just be too shy to tell you he wants to try it. That is a fantasy of mine and I have heard from other women that many men are like me in that they are curious about bisexual activities and just afraid to admit it.
Along those lines I think he wants to be ass fucked by another man....he already takes the strap on...so it's a logical progression. He probably does want to suck a cock as well with you directing each and every moment, lick and tongue flick that he makes to it...
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So how do you suggest I go about this next level. I was challenged today so I think this may be the next step or do you think its too much too soon? I really didn't appreciate him mocking my first attempt at his humiliation therefore this may be a suitable punishment per se...
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Hey, that's pretty hot.
Well, it could be. If there were enough intense rival hatred involved.
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Oh hell no. Not okay at all. I'd get a serious whipping if I said something like that! He needs to pay for that comment!
So how do you suggest I go about this next level. I was challenged today so I think this may be the next step or do you think its too much too soon? I really didn't appreciate him mocking my first attempt at his humiliation therefore this may be a suitable punishment per se...
Do you think he really wants pain and punishment...not just humiliation? By mocking your first attempt it seems like he might really want you to step up the domination....I'd be investing in some restraints, flogger, riding crops, balld gag, nipple clamps, etc.
You wear out his ass so bad that the lace on those new panties scratch his ass all day under his business suit....and he will think twice about popping off at the mouth to you....
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Do you think he really wants pain and punishment...not just humiliation? By mocking your first attempt it seems like he might really want you to step up the domination....I'd be investing in some restraints, flogger, riding crops, balld gag, nipple clamps, etc.
You wear out his ass so bad that the lace on those new panties scratch his ass all day under his business suit....and he will think twice about popping off at the mouth to you....
I totally agree with you he is testing my patience therefore I will be testing his limits. Last night I placed a hood over his head and shoved a dildo in his mouth and forced him to suck it. I then put him in front of the window naked and facing the street I made him stand arms legs out in an X and whipped him a good many times with a leather paddle that says "Bitch" on it. A few cars drove by and I think a few people got to see him like that. He doesnt know where he was since the hood was covering his eyes.
I then took him into the kitchen placed him lying down on the table and then took out a black cock dildo and put it in his ass and then started pumping it inflating inside his ass till he started to whimper
I then took the cock he was sucking out of his mouth and starting slapping him in the face and mouth with it. After his face was good and sore I then took off my panties which i had worn all day to shop in and shoved them in his mouth. I then turned the kitchen light on and spun him around to face the street on his back ass first cock inserted towards the window with my panties in his mouth. I went to the other room and left him there in that position for about 20 minutes I'd say no telling how many cars drove by without his knowledge during that time.
Lastly I got out a few candles and dripped hot was on his chest and nipples and a few drips on his cock which made his squirm quite nicely
.To end the evening I got out my digital camera and took a bunch of pictures showing him in that postion and facing the open window with the light on and gave a few more pumps to the cock in his ass. Took my riding crop (great idea) btw and spanked his wax coated nipples till he was begging me to stop.
Before I let him up from his ordeal I chose to email his phone 3 or 4 pictures I took and stated in the message.....
This is only the beginning....be sure you want this and don't test me again is that Clear!!
I havent received a response back yet and he has his phone at work with him but might not have checked his email yet today.
Yes I am ready for the next level of ideas for him he is proving to be more defiant than I had anticipated. Pity I will have to try harder to humiliate him in the future. PM your suggestions or reply to this thread and thanks again for the help.
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Well thanks to your advice and reading a few stories on here I am beginning to uncerstand his needs better and at the same time realizing I may enjoy the power exchange he has unknowingly provided me.
Sounds like you are getting the hang of it. If you are still looking for ideas you can always make him jerk off on to his food before eating it. Another idea is to save his cum and us it on your dildo that you make him suck so that it is getting him ready for a real one. Have fun.
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Ewww...I don't think I would go for jerking off onto his food so much. It just sounds nasty! But also it lets him have an orgasm far too often. I do like the idea of using it on a dildo, but with dinner? Not my cup of tea. Perhaps the OP will disagree though.
I still like the thought of a chastity cage, that might just by the misandrist in me coming out though. (Yes, she's in there! She just doesn't come out very often.)
Just an idea. The thought of a cage is a good one I have to say. Constant reminder of who is incontrol would be of some good for him. I have looked at them and the look like they could be fun.
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I will look into the cage or chastity device further as denying him orgasm is on my list of things to try if pressed beyond the last adventure.
I have just received an email response back from hubby...
He said I love the pics...did you send them to your mother as well.
How would you all take this? Does he actually want my mother to see him like this? Or is he just pushing back at me asking for further humiliation to a whole nother level... I was quite taken aback by his reply and I am wondering what it really means. I dont think my mother would want to see him like that at all. I thought it was pretty rude to include her into his reply dont you?! Thoughts please.
I think that goes back to not forcing your activities on to others that may not be as understanding.
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So then you would concur that this is a serious act of defiance once again by him then correct. What is the appropriate response to this behavior.
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My gut feeling is that he doesn't deserve anything you're giving him. That's not just being bratty, that's being a bitch. You are already KINDLY giving him what he wants, and he is sassing back and being a bitch. I'd say he doesn't get anything else until he apologizes PROPERLY and SINCERELY and if he doesn't like it, he can fuck off.
Sorry, but I would NOT take my buttons being pushed twice in a row like that. Perhaps a dominant person here would have another view, but that's mine.
Do you have a sex shop anywhere near you? I'd also slap a chastity device on him NOW. He doesn't get to touch his dick unless you say so. Make sure it LOCKS.
Sorry, but I would NOT take my buttons being pushed twice in a row like that. Perhaps a dominant person here would have another view, but that's mine.
Do you have a sex shop anywhere near you? I'd also slap a chastity device on him NOW. He doesn't get to touch his dick unless you say so. Make sure it LOCKS.
So then you would concur that this is a serious act of defiance once again by him then correct. What is the appropriate response to this behavior.
Maybe the best thing to to is to ignore it and wait until he gets home and have him do something that you need done and and that will be fun only for you. I wouldn't even do anything sexual this time.
