Thank you ...
I first discovered Literotica three years ago (Unfortunately I can't remember my password so I had to make a new ID) , and I found nothing but compassion, friendly advice, and support in these forums. I was grateful for all of it, but not ready to take it all...
Three years ago, I was just beginning to understand what I needed sexually, but far from ready to ask for it. I sought advice here, and it was given freely and generously.
But I'm painfully shy... so it took a while. Fast forward three years, and my DH and I are at last entering into a mutually rewarding D/s relationship. I owe a lot of this to the Lit forums, so thank you... I feel I am finally complete - a whole woman, beginning to blossom.
Thank you to all of you for your warm and open spirits.
I remain,
Always His
I first discovered Literotica three years ago (Unfortunately I can't remember my password so I had to make a new ID) , and I found nothing but compassion, friendly advice, and support in these forums. I was grateful for all of it, but not ready to take it all...
Three years ago, I was just beginning to understand what I needed sexually, but far from ready to ask for it. I sought advice here, and it was given freely and generously.
But I'm painfully shy... so it took a while. Fast forward three years, and my DH and I are at last entering into a mutually rewarding D/s relationship. I owe a lot of this to the Lit forums, so thank you... I feel I am finally complete - a whole woman, beginning to blossom.
Thank you to all of you for your warm and open spirits.
I remain,
Always His
Having been with the same person for twenty years (12 years married), several kids, 10 years of university, various jobs, I just feel like I am at a point in my life of I want to focus on myself again. Do things that make me happy, discover parts of me that I've put aside or never knew about. My interest in BDSM has always been apart of me, and I explored it in my early 20's with a different partner, but never again. And never with my husband. I thought it was something I could just put away, I focused on the kids and all the distractions they come with. But now, I feel so so strongly that it is something I need to express and have as a part of my life, I can't stop thinking about it. My partner is not interested in it at all, and makes me feel like a terrible person for my desires. He tells me he would not have chosen me for a wife or a mother to his kids, if he had known this about me. I have only expressed a small portion of my interests to him, I'm sure he would be horrified to know what I really like