New Geeky Women Appreciation Thread.

[Justfantasies]

Very much real, and an absolute delight to me. Being married, and a good deal older than her I have to keep things largely under wraps.

What is the age difference? Is the crush reciprocated? Tell me about her

 

[PMarky2]

What is the age difference? Is the crush reciprocated? Tell me about her

She is young enough to be my daughter, not that I notice the gap all that often because she serious and often seems about 10 years older than she is.

The crush probably is not reciprocated in kind, but takes a different form. She introduces me to her more intellectually inclined friends, lets her guard down around me, inside jokes, and sly glances between us. We have very similar outlooks when it comes to politics, religion, children, so I think there is something there, but I am not sure what it is. Mutual friends/acquaintences say that we tend gravitate towards one another in a crowd.

The crush is average height, slim, acne scarred, decidedly petite with wonderful blue eyes, and abundant light brown hair. She has a very conservative dress sense, to the point where I have learnt the erotic potential of the occasion glimpse of collar bone.

She first got my attention when I was having dinner with her parents, and I made a remark about Churchill's game plan for the end of WW2. That got her interest, and she pulled my theory apart. Since then, she had had my respect intellectually, and we have had many a discuss that has gotten quite intense. From some of her mannerisms I suspect she may be neurodivergent, which does not bother me at all.

 

[Justfantasies]

Be careful! We sound like very similar people. I had a crush of this kind (although the age difference was small and we actually dated) when I was in my early 20s. She was the same physical type. I'm 75 now. She's married to someone else -- she has been for 40 years. And my pai has only just started to go away.

 

[PMarky2]

Be careful! We sound like very similar people. I had a crush of this kind (although the age difference was small and we actually dated) when I was in my early 20s. She was the same physical type. I'm 75 now. She's married to someone else -- she has been for 40 years. And my pai has only just started to go away.

The 'special sauce' in my situation is that she reminds me somewhat of my first love - certain mannerism, the way she dresses, etc., but she is decidedly more absorbing intellectually, and there is no way I confuse the two. I don't bother hiding from her emotionally or intellectually because it is so easy to communicate, and she is not judgmental. The real hassle is that instead of the usual 'I want to go to bed with her,' the attraction is the far more dangerous 'I want to have a family with this woman.' The age difference, even of there is nothing else promoting being sensible, tells me that us getting together is certainly a ten-thousand-to-one shot even if there were no other commitments. I get torn between wanting her for myself should the way ever become clear, and hoping that she marries someone she adores, adores her, and I think is a fine chap who treats her right.

Weirdly, I am attracted to her sister too who is outdoorsy, practical, and easy to get along with. If I want to be around someone who is enjoyable but not too demanding, she is good company. I don't crush on her, but in the highly unlikely event that she came on to me, I would find her difficult to resist. She is taller than her sister and is as robust as the other is petite being very much her mother's child. To my embarrassment, I do tend to notice that she has a perfect pair of little titties which have an habit of get themselves noticed when I am trying to concentrate on something else. It is a much easier situation to deal with than my crush on Crush because it is the conventional response of a not-yet-dead-male to an attractive and agreeable young woman.

 

[Justfantasies]

The 'special sauce' in my situation is that she reminds me somewhat of my first love - certain mannerism, the way she dresses, etc., but she is decidedly more absorbing intellectually, and there is no way I confuse the two. I don't bother hiding from her emotionally or intellectually because it is so easy to communicate, and she is not judgmental. The real hassle is that instead of the usual 'I want to go to bed with her,' the attraction is the far more dangerous 'I want to have a family with this woman.' The age difference, even of there is nothing else promoting being sensible, tells me that us getting together is certainly a ten-thousand-to-one shot even if there were no other commitments. I get torn between wanting her for myself should the way ever become clear, and hoping that she marries someone she adores, adores her, and I think is a fine chap who treats her right.

Weirdly, I am attracted to her sister too who is outdoorsy, practical, and easy to get along with. If I want to be around someone who is enjoyable but not too demanding, she is good company. I don't crush in her, but in the highly unlikely event that she came on to me, I would find her difficult to resist. She is taller than her sister and is as robust as the other is petite being very much her mother's child. To my embarrassment, I do tend to notice that she has a perfect pair of little titties which have an habit of get themselves noticed when I am trying to concentrate on something else. It is a much easier situation to deal with than my crush on Crush because it is the conventional response of a not-yet-dead-male to an attractive and agreeable young woman.

Is this young woman -- the petite one -- your student? Tell me more about her physically. How does she dress?

 

[PMarky2]

No, she is not my student. We ran into one another at church about six years ago. I spotted her the first time she walked in. Straight-backed, long hair braided, slim-faced, sort of Scandinavian looking, she was dressed in a pleated skirt and pullover, three-quarter length black coat, eyes front. She also has a fondness for below the knee, short sleeved dresses with high necklines. A bit Mennonite looking, but her range of colors is far wider - she has a red and green plaid ones of which she seems particularly fond. There was something even then that said she was somehow different. The initial impression did not go away.

For a while she was the quiet enigmatic one, a bit too young to be noticed as a woman, a bit too much of a presence to be ignored, and she basically has no small talk. Then about six months later we had the WW2 conversation, and she acquired an intellectual stature in my eyes. The crush started worming its way in mainly because other folks were a bit dismissive of her, so I started talking to her, and I discovered we had interests and hobbies in common, and have sympathetic personalities.

The uncomfortable breakthrough was one time when I dropped in at a local museum where she had a part time job, and she took a break and acted as tour guide. She was in her usual work uniform of jeans, blouse and pullover, and as we were chatting I began to think how wonderful it would be to raise a family with this wonderful, imaginative, intelligent young woman. At that point my goose was cooked!

 

[Justfantasies]

No, she is not my student. We ran into one another at church about six years ago. I spotted her the first time she walked in. Straight-backed, long hair braided, slim-faced, sort of Scandinavian looking, she was dressed in a pleated skirt and pullover, three-quarter length black coat, eyes front. She also has a fondness for below the knee, short sleeved dresses with high necklines. A bit Mennonite looking, but her range of colors is far wider - she has a red and green plaid ones of which she seems particularly fond. There was something even then that said she was somehow different. The initial impression did not go away.

For a while she was the quiet enigmatic one, a bit too young to be noticed as a woman, a bit too much of a presence to be ignored, and she basically has no small talk. Then about six months later we had the WW2 conversation, and she acquired an intellectual stature in my eyes. The crush started worming its way in mainly because other folks were a bit dismissive of her, so I started talking to her, and I discovered we had interests and hobbies in common, and have sympathetic personalities.

The uncomfortable breakthrough was one time when I dropped in at a local museum where she had a part time job, and she took a break and acted as tour guide. She was in her usual work uniform of jeans, blouse and pullover, and as we were chatting I began to think how wonderful it would be to raise a family with this wonderful, imaginative, intelligent young woman. At that point my goose was cooked!

Do you think she is a virgin?

 

[PMarky2]

Do you think she is a virgin?

Given her principles and her mother I would say yes. Not something I like to think about thanks to a previous bad experience.

 

[Justfantasies]

Most girls like sex. Perhaps she is not as delicate as you think.

 

[PMarky2]

I have found that looking delicate is no bar to a healthy sexual appetite. My first love was that way. Our relationship started off very circumspectly, but once she realized I was not going to 'hit and run,' she gradually loosened up, and it was quite clear from the noises she made that she enjoyed sexual contact, and was having regular orgasms. It was a pity that our one attempt to go all the way was a disaster. Lack of knowledge, her being small and nervous, and me not being short changed in that department all contributed. We had hit a rough patch before that and got back on an even keel, but that was the last straw and she ended the relationship shortly afterwards.

I have often suspected my crush has a healthy interest, but, like my first love, is not mindless about it and needs the right person, the right atmosphere, and the right level of commitment. She dates from time-to-time, but so far it has never gone beyond a few casual dates. She has as good as told me that boy-men her own age don't really hold her attention.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have found that looking delicate is no bar to a healthy appetite. My first love was that way. Our relationship started off very circumspectly, but she gradually loosened up, and it was quite clear from the noises she made that she enjoyed sex. It was a pity that our one attempt to go all the way was a disaster. Lack of knowledge, her being small and nervous, and me not being short changed in that department all contributed.

I have often suspected my crush has a healthy interest, but, like my first love, is not mindless about it and needs the right person, the right atmosphere, and the right level of commitment. She dates from time-to-time, but so far it has never gone beyond a few casual dates. She has as good as told me that boy-men her own age don't really hold her attention.

This is all so familiar. My first real love went a long way with me, but not all the way with me. She wanted a more experienced man, which she eventually found -- I expect a lot more than one, actually. I never did have an affair with her, even though we are still in touch after half a century. Obsessions can be unkind

 

[PMarky2]

The two geeky girls in my life - my first love, and my Crush - are the only women I have met that got my thinking about having kids rather than merely having sex. In the case of my first love it was somewhat half-hearted, but it was there. If we had stayed together it would have happened. On the other hand, a lot of the attraction with Crush is that I think she would be a wonderful and creative mother - nutty as a fruitcake, but wonderful and creative!

 

[Justfantasies]

Often it is a mistake to think of these girls as cute ad inexperienced. Sometimes they are, sometimes they have actually experimented a great deal