New Love of Cum?

So I’ve probably gone through a journey with ‘cum’
When I was first active I guess I was ‘scared’ of it. Mainly as I knew it was the total source of unwanted pregnancy. So the idea of it anywhere near me scared the hell out of me.
When I finally got into a much more stable relationships and the trust was there I loved oral to completion and would swallow - it seemed like that was a big thing .
Only when I had sex without condoms did I really learn to live the feeling and intimacy of allowing a man to orgasm inside, and now to the extent it’s one of my big ‘kinks’.
I’ve never liked facials - I feel they are a misogynistic power thing and I don’t need to support that, most men have totally understood and respected that. But recently, although my husband finishing inside me is my main thing I’ve enjoyed letting him cum on my boobs, something he’s really started to request.
I suspect your journey is the most common one female's take. Your description of "first active" was such deja vu of my first real GF that it actually made me flinch.

Like you, I get no thrill from facials (to me, they're not misogynistic, they're boring), but I share your husband's enthusiasm for finishing on a woman's breasts!
 
So I’ve probably gone through a journey with ‘cum’
When I was first active I guess I was ‘scared’ of it. Mainly as I knew it was the total source of unwanted pregnancy. So the idea of it anywhere near me scared the hell out of me.
When I finally got into a much more stable relationships and the trust was there I loved oral to completion and would swallow - it seemed like that was a big thing .
Only when I had sex without condoms did I really learn to live the feeling and intimacy of allowing a man to orgasm inside, and now to the extent it’s one of my big ‘kinks’.
I’ve never liked facials - I feel they are a misogynistic power thing and I don’t need to support that, most men have totally understood and respected that. But recently, although my husband finishing inside me is my main thing I’ve enjoyed letting him cum on my boobs, something he’s really started to request.
Thanks for chiming in and your perspective! I love to hear women's thoughts on the subject directly. I've always been fascinated with what a young woman feels about their initial cum experience and how it shapes their journey with it. I had a girlfriend who never experienced it until me (the wife as well..but that's another topic..) and my guidance with her on oral and cum definitely gave her positive view of it. She was later quite the oral queen..
 
just the opposite for me.. my wife at the beginning very much into facials, swallowing and just cum anywhere.
Now 40 years of marriage later my semen must be caustic like battery acid.
Because I get that ewwww after I ejaculate and she hurries to wash it off…
Fact. My wife did the same thing. I asked WTF. And she told me I wanted you to like me!! Well hell. What about now?
 
just the opposite for me.. my wife at the beginning very much into facials, swallowing and just cum anywhere.
Now 40 years of marriage later my semen must be caustic like battery acid.
Because I get that ewwww after I ejaculate and she hurries to wash it off…

Fact. My wife did the same thing. I asked WTF. And she told me I wanted you to like me!! Well hell. What about now?
Dudes, I hear this from so many guys as well as read it here all over. My wife says she hears the same and reads it where she ventures. A top complaint without a doubt, they begin with wham bam what an amazing bammer and then...

My wife also pointed out, we guys start out all studly, hunkish, date charmings, and then...

We finally got it back to where we were plus improvements but only after many bumps. Keep working at it, there has to be something that will snap them out of their funk if they honestly give a hoot about the marriage. FYI - I made certain I was the guy she married in the first place as well.

Kissing gets better each time, keep moving forward, even if it's without them for a stage or two. Cum play is fun no matter especially if you include them even if mentally. Gotta do what you've gotta do but let them know you love and appreciate them for their contributions. It had my wife curious enough to begin conversations. Dialogue is an amazing thing.
 
FOR MANY YEARS i LOVED BEING ABLE TO CUM HEAVILY. i THOUGHT ABOUT TASTING IT, OR USING MY TO HAND MAKE MY CUM RUN DOWN MY SHAFT AND ONTO MY BALLS. I LIKED GIRLS AND JACKING OFF A LOT,

BUT ONCE MY ORGASM ROARED FROM MY COCK IT WAS LIKE SOMEBODY TURNED OFF THAT TEPTATION AND I NEVER TRIED IT. I'M A MWM WIITH GROWN KIDS now 55 YEARS OLD AND WAS DETERMINED TO DO IT. IT WAS ON MY MIND ALL THE TIME AND I JUST HAD TO DO IT. i MILKED MY SPERM INTO A SHOT GLASS. I DIPPED MY TONGUE INTO THE WARM CREAMY SEMEN. I PUT SOME ON MY LIPS AND TASTED MORE OF IT.

THEN I DRANK THE REST OF MY CUM FROM THE SHOT GLASS. I HAD BEEN WATCHING GAY BLOW JOB VIDEO'S FOR A LONG TIME SO I FELT PROUD I HAD TAKEN ANOTHER STEP THA LED ME TO MY KNEES GIVING MEN BLOW JOBS, I LOVE THE TASTE AND TEXTURE OF SEMEN

SO MUCH SO THAT I WISHED I COULD HAVE BEEN SUCKING COCKS MY WHOLE LIFE.
 
I had been determined to eat my cum for years but I had that infamous "mental block" and never could. The eroticism of the act captivated me. I had a personal cocksucker years ago and had been receiving blowjobs from guys in ABS video booths ever since. They all seemed to be so excited by the act and so "hungry" to swallow my cum. I wanted to try sucking cock myself, but was afraid of disease, so I never went through with it.

I have been a habitual masturbator all my life and have tasted my precum for a long time. I just love the taste. My attitude about cum changed a few years ago. I did the shot glass of cum, followed by a shot of bourbon, and gradually got used to it. Then I began to crave it. Although I was still afraid to "catch something" from another guy, I began to swallow my cum regularly.

Unfortunately, I developed prostate cancer a couple of years ago and following treatment, my cum volume declined significantly until it's almost nothing. Sometimes, it's even less than my precum, so I waited too long to begin enjoying the "fruits" of my own masturbatory labor.

Get over that "mental block" and "just do it". You won't regret it.
 
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My wife started sucking my dick more and swallowing my cum but I know she’s thinking of another guy she wants to do it to .
I know she’s practicing.
She’s not hiding her thoughts from me.
Just be grateful.
Enjoy the way she sucks your cock.
Even if she is using it as a rehearsal for someone else's cock.
 
I had been determined to eat my cum for years but I had that infamous "mental block" and never could. The eroticism of the act captivated me. I had a personal cocksucker years ago and had been receiving blowjobs from guys in ABS video booths ever since. They all seemed to be so excited by the act and so "hungry" to swallow my cum. I wanted to try sucking cock myself, but was afraid of disease, so I never went through with it.

I have been a habitual masturbator all my life and have tasted my precum for a long time. I just love the taste. My attitude about cum changed a few years ago. I did the shot glass of cum, followed by a shot of bourbon, and gradually got used to it. Then I began to crave it. Although I was still afraid to "catch something" from another guy, I began to swallow my cum regularly.

Unfortunately, I developed prostate cancer a couple of years ago and following treatment, my cum volume declined significantly until it's almost nothing. Sometimes, it's even less than my precum, so I waited to long to begin enjoying the "fruits" of my own masturbatory labor.

Get over that "mental block" and "just do it". You won't regret it.
I never had a 'mental block', either about swallowing my own, or swallowing my friend's cum. To swallow just seemed to be the most natural thing in the world...
 
My wife started sucking my dick more and swallowing my cum but I know she’s thinking of another guy she wants to do it to .
I know she’s practicing.
She’s not hiding her thoughts from me.
Interesting . You should thank him .
 
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