New to BDSM but, oh, so interested

[Stella_Omega]

Your right..lets not hijack this thread. Maybe all need a history lesson here in regards to understanding this subject..Maybe another thread would be in order...

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=39834856

 

[alchemyandlaughter]

To Thine own Self be True.....

it still seems I am to much in the middle of nowhere to find a Master Thank you for your help though!

I am new to this idea of "actually" offering my submission as well, and I too am in the middle of nowhere and pretty clear about the fact that my submission would have to start as a purely sexual thing, before even considering choosing it as a lifestyle.....

But, I think maybe you are selling yourself short.... look around, talk to people on this site, ask them questions, learn to recognize the voices that always make sense and offer sound advice (like the ones here on this thread), peruse posts for people who intrigue you and start a private dialogue with them, be careful where and how you post publicly, and use this time to discover how and where you fit in and to what degree. And by all means, if people PM you.... ask the questions that will get you the answers you need. Anybody worth your time (and service) will welcome your questions and take an interest in what you are looking to experience as well. And chances are, if they truly are a good Dom for you, they'll carefully nudge you along until you come to the realization yourself.... and offer it.

Rome wasn't built in a day..... And I'm certain the process is quite similar when it comes to submissives like you and me....

Good Luck in your Quest!

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I am new to this idea of "actually" offering my submission as well, and I too am in the middle of nowhere and pretty clear about the fact that my submission would have to start as a purely sexual thing, before even considering choosing it as a lifestyle.....

But, I think maybe you are selling yourself short.... look around, talk to people on this site, ask them questions, learn to recognize the voices that always make sense and offer sound advice (like the ones here on this thread), peruse posts for people who intrigue you and start a private dialogue with them, be careful where and how you post publicly, and use this time to discover how and where you fit in and to what degree. And by all means, if people PM you.... ask the questions that will get you the answers you need. Anybody worth your time (and service) will welcome your questions and take an interest in what you are looking to experience as well. And chances are, if they truly are a good Dom for you, they'll carefully nudge you along until you come to the realization yourself.... and offer it.

Rome wasn't built in a day..... And I'm certain the process is quite similar when it comes to submissives like you and me....

Good Luck in your Quest!

You might be new to the BDSM culture, and new to Lit and the BDSM Talk and Café fora, but you offer some very good advice here, and show that you are likely ready to move on to the next phase of your journey. Good luck to you, and welcome to our world!

 

[alchemyandlaughter]

I always was a good student....

You might be new to the BDSM culture, and new to Lit and the BDSM Talk and Café fora, but you offer some very good advice here, and show that you are likely ready to move on to the next phase of your journey. Good luck to you, and welcome to our world!

Well.... Thank You Very Kindly, Sir_Winston!

I'd like to hope that I haven't been living under a rock all these years....lol.... and that, everything I've learned about relationship dynamics, up to this point, has prepared and lead me here with all I've processed and assimilated intact. I would not be here if I had a low sense of self-worth and no common sense...... WOW.... That would be a Nightmare In Deed!

I am here to discover my boundaries and grow from that point on.....

Thank you for taking the time to say hello.