Nicknames

Netzach said:
Can you be old to the lifestyle and still not dig slut bitch or whore?

I never viewed these as compliments and they weren't especially accurate anyhow as to feel more stupid than hot. I'm a lot of things - when I was bottoming I may have been a pet, I may have been a horny little cocksucker, but I wasn't really "a slut."
On a personal note, I completely agree with your remark. Would refer folks to another current thread.

Netzach said:
FWIW, when I'm being either sweet or patrionizing, I do use "kitten" with people. The less it fits, the better.
You are indeed a :devil: woman after my own :heart: . ;)
 
neonflux said:
On a personal note, I completely agree with your remark. Would refer folks to another current thread.

You are indeed a :devil: woman after my own :heart: . ;)

Heh, thanks.

I do love verbal, though, I have to say. While I have conceptual problems being called a slut, this is not a democracy and I have far less flattering pet names for some of my favorite friends.
 
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Tuomas said:
Maybe something more simple would be to use her middle name?

Oh, yes, I didn't even think about this one. I go by a shortened form of my first name, and Master sometimes calls me by the full version (which no one else does!). Sometimes he'll tack "slave" onto the front of it, too. I'd feel silly going by my middle name, but I have to admit, using my first name in its longer version--especially coupled with slave--is super hot.
 
i am called "pet" and i LOVE it. i have also been called "slut" and "whore" but not in the same context. Usually "pet" is used when W/we aren't involved in the sexual aspect of things. "Slut" and "whore" are saved for those hot a steamy moments. Anyway, i would love to hear what you choose and whether or not she likes it.
 
bashfull said:
Forgot another "pet" name...

Wench.
Now that I would enjoy being called at the right moment ;) Could call a woman lover that, also. :cathappy:
 
neonflux said:
Howdy! ;)

BTW, judging by such a greeting, am not sure that your handle fits, LOL :kiss:


Why not? Can't I be a self-deprecating, whimsical, shy 400 lb. dwarf? ;)
 
bashfull said:
Why not? Can't I be a self-deprecating, whimsical, shy 400 lb. dwarf? ;)
reads. eyes widen. spits out wine. bwaaahahahahaha! :kiss:
 
neonflux said:
reads. eyes widen. spits out wine. bwaaahahahahaha! :kiss:

so, you're a spitter huh? And I forgot to make that a self-depracating, whimsical, shy ALPHA 400 lb. dwarf. <weg>
 
I've been called 'little one' and 'baby girl' - usually preceded with 'My', as in My little one, or My baby girl. I like 'kitten' and 'pet'. I've been called 'red' for my hair, but not in a D/s relationship. I've never gone in for the degrading names like slut, whore, bitch, etc. Call me any of those and the mood disintegrates pretty quickly for me. Humiliation isn't my thing. Whatever you decide, though, should be something personal for the two of you. What has the most meaning for you and for her?
 
May I humbly suggest you ask her what name she would have preferred to her given name. I personally do not like mine (my parents iconic 70's choice ages me somewhat!!) and would love to be able to choose a name. The thought of a private, completely unrelated name would really have an impact if used out of the blue. Just don't choose a name she wants for your children if you have not already got your full quota/plan on having any
BTW I love LordHawk's suggestion of a name with meaning there are thousands of sites out in web-land with names/meanings eg: sarah = princess apparently.
 
I'd personally go for

something like FiFi or Missy.. you know cliche cat names.. but that's just me :)
 
...further to my previous post, you can always randomly generate a name here ... OK lame I know... :eek: sorry I will wander to the corner of the thread and stay there till you let me leave...
 
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