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A girlfriend, years ago, asked me to take off my clothes and masturbate for her. It was during a very heavy makeout session that she asked. I agreed to if she would get naked with me for motivation. She did and it was a huge turn on! It turned into a mutual masturbation session. She came so hard, she squirted and I came all over her tits!
 
I've asked my Husband to do it, I quite enjoy it. It's no different than a guy asking to watch a woman to get herself off. Plus let's face it, no lady can do it as well with their hand as what a guy can. He just knows what feels good, kind of like how we know our bodies.

This is SOOO not true. I've had many awesome handjobs from talented ladies that were much better than anything I could do to myself. It's like trying to tickle yourself: the sensation just isn't as intense as when someone else does it.
 
Years ago I remember going into the bathroom just after my wife and I had moved in together. I was going to have a shower and she followed me in, I was thinking she wanted some shower fun but instead, she asked me to lay down in the tub and jerk off for her.

I was taken aback at the time because it was not really like her to ask for something like this. But I complied and laid down and she proceeded to help me get to full attention. I went to town and was soon shooting a huge load all over my stomach. She came over, gave me a kiss, and promptly left the bathroom.

It has never been repeated.
 
My first sexual experiences were in college with a girl who loved to get me off in ways that were a little embarrassing. In the first month, she said she was uncomfortable taking our clothes off but would help me out with my problem by getting me off in my pants by dryhumping, handjob through pants or me humping against her thigh. After that month, she said she was comfortable taking our clothes off (me completely and her just leaving her panties on) but not touching me. She would instruct me very energetically (fuck you fist, beat meat, hump your hand, etc.) and compliment me on how good I was at jerking off and that I must have had a lot of practice, etc. She preferred that I was either lying on a bed next to her with a big pillow under my bum (let's see how far you can shoot it) or kneeling between her legs as she sat on the edge of the bed. She gave me a small pillow for my knees.

I learned later that, like her mother, she was unable to have orgasms. Her mother had told her that men needed to cum and the best way to keep them was to get them off at least once and preferably twice a day. Over time, we did start to have more normal sex but about 50% of the time, she would have me jerk off or cum in other ways that were a little embarrassing.

A few years after college, she went to a clinic where she said, she learned how to have orgasms.
 
Haven't been outright asked, but it would be exciting if I were. Wife and I have engaged in mutual masturbation and I enjoyed it alot, but her asking me to, ya, there would be a different feel to that for sure.
 
I have put on a show for my husband while he stroked. I have only seen him cum a couple of times. Usually I would want him to do something else at the end. One of my favorite things was for us both to get ourselves near orgasm and then have him enter me just as he was ready to cum. One thrust all the way home and let it go. It did not always work but very hot when it did.
I have a feeling you would find
I have put on a show for my husband while he stroked. I have only seen him cum a couple of times. Usually I would want him to do something else at the end. One of my favorite things was for us both to get ourselves near orgasm and then have him enter me just as he was ready to cum. One thrust all the way home and let it go. It did not always work but very hot when it did.
I have a feeling you would find this ... disappointing, but here it is:

My wife would frequently ask me to perform, usually with her whispering some VERY hot things in my ear as she watched, but one time as I got close, she moved down to where she would usually be when she was doing the handjob (beside me, at my thighs). I figured she wanted to take over, so I stopped, but she took my hand and put it back on my cock. (Message received.) My next conclusion was that she wanted to see the fireworks from closer up, so I kept going with enthusiasm.

By and by (ALWAYS wanted to use that expression nonironically--"W!"), she asked if I was going to come (which invariably prompted me to!) and to my shock, at the very last second, she climbed on top of my groin, pushed my hand away and took just the tip in between her (very wet) pussy lips. I finished "inside" her by the barest (no pun intended) stretch of the word.

Amazing.

I asked her where she got THAT idea from or how long she had been harboring it. Turns out on our honeymoon I had asked if I could pull out and finish on her pussy while she held it open. (Since I was only going to give it a few tugs, I never considered this "masturbating" for her [interesting philosophical question, I suppose].)

Neither of us found this as exciting or satisfying as I had hoped (entirely my idea), so into the attic the practice went.

Turns out, she DID kinda feel sexy/naughty when I splashed onto a part of her body she had spent a good part of her life keeping as far away from cum as possible, and certainly not allowing any near it when "there was nothing in it for me."

Maybe the new bride was mentally burying the taboo about nonmarital impregnation. (We began the honeymoon playtime by saying to each other, from this point on, whatever happens, happens--it wouldn't happen for a few years [long story, one that I do not care to rerun in my mind].) But obviously, it stuck with her, because this was years later, after she had gotten brave enough to ask me to "do it yourself" from start to finish while she watched.

Anyway, I55: Precisely the opposite for us. The shallowest possible penetration that still left her husband's cum inside her (for a very few minutes--I swear most came out almost as fast as it went in--which was probably less fun for her than I thought/hoped at the time: she was one of those girls for whom languorous leakage was its own turn-on).
 
I have a feeling you would find

I have a feeling you would find this ... disappointing, but here it is:

My wife would frequently ask me to perform, usually with her whispering some VERY hot things in my ear as she watched, but one time as I got close, she moved down to where she would usually be when she was doing the handjob (beside me, at my thighs). I figured she wanted to take over, so I stopped, but she took my hand and put it back on my cock. (Message received.) My next conclusion was that she wanted to see the fireworks from closer up, so I kept going with enthusiasm.

By and by (ALWAYS wanted to use that expression nonironically--"W!"), she asked if I was going to come (which invariably prompted me to!) and to my shock, at the very last second, she climbed on top of my groin, pushed my hand away and took just the tip in between her (very wet) pussy lips. I finished "inside" her by the barest (no pun intended) stretch of the word.

Amazing.

I asked her where she got THAT idea from or how long she had been harboring it. Turns out on our honeymoon I had asked if I could pull out and finish on her pussy while she held it open. (Since I was only going to give it a few tugs, I never considered this "masturbating" for her [interesting philosophical question, I suppose].)

Neither of us found this as exciting or satisfying as I had hoped (entirely my idea), so into the attic the practice went.

Turns out, she DID kinda feel sexy/naughty when I splashed onto a part of her body she had spent a good part of her life keeping as far away from cum as possible, and certainly not allowing any near it when "there was nothing in it for me."

Maybe the new bride was mentally burying the taboo about nonmarital impregnation. (We began the honeymoon playtime by saying to each other, from this point on, whatever happens, happens--it wouldn't happen for a few years [long story, one that I do not care to rerun in my mind].) But obviously, it stuck with her, because this was years later, after she had gotten brave enough to ask me to "do it yourself" from start to finish while she watched.

Anyway, I55: Precisely the opposite for us. The shallowest possible penetration that still left her husband's cum inside her (for a very few minutes--I swear most came out almost as fast as it went in--which was probably less fun for her than I thought/hoped at the time: she was one of those girls for whom languorous leakage was its own turn-on).
I like that. Each person is different and each needs to find what pleases or excites them. It is good when a couple can reach this stage of intimacy and be willing to try some things. In our case it was not something planned in advance. I was sitting on the couch, legs spread and putting on the show. He was on a chair opposite and stroking for me to watch. I knew I was about to cum and decided I wanted him to put it in. I was pretty open and wet so he knelt in front of me and put it in. I think he started cumming just as he got the head in and just continued pushing into me as he was cumming. At this point I was also cumming so neither of us was totally aware of reality.
 
Having sex in a tent, specially in a organized camp site with others is hard. We usually masturbate together or for each other instead of rocking the fabric with feet or backs.
She know she just needs to ask and I’ll wiggle out of sleeping bag and long-johns and start stroking in the light from a flashlight . 🥰
 
Here's something i was asked to do by a girl. i posted this on another thread “sexiest thing anyone ever said to you“. but thought i’d post it here too, as it is equally applicable!

An exGF took off her panties in the restroom of a restaurant we were in and handed them to me under the table. She knew i had a very difficult week at work. She said “go put these on while i pay the check.” i was shocked, but did as i was told. When i came out of the restroom she grabbed my hand, and in baby-talk, with a little pouty face, said “How’s my baby boy feewling now... do you fewl all better.”

We walked to the parking lot, and i didn’t know what to think. The silk panties rubbed against me and i felt extremely excited. She took the keys and said “I’ll drive sweetie. You rest and let me take care of you,”

We got in the house, and she directed me to take off my pants. “Show me your pretty panties baby boy” i stripped as fast as i could, standing in front of her with nothing but her black silk lace panties and a throbbing erection.

She pushed me back onto the couch and crawled between my legs, gently pulling the panties down over my cock, but leaving them on. She took me into her mouth and gave me the most incredible blow job.

My head was swimming. Great BJ, but the fact i was wearing her panties was intoxicating. i mumbled something... how good it was, or don’t stop. Just then she pushed the panties to the side and slid a finger into my ass. i gasped...it was incredible, and the first time she’d ever done that. “Feel good my sweet boy?” She asked, as she continued to suck. i was in heaven!

Just then she stopped, lifted her head, and looked me straight in the eyes. In the sweetest, sexiest voice she said “ cum for Mommy...” she immediately swallowed my cock, pushed her finger deeper into my ass, and i exploded with the most shattering orgasm i’ve ever had in my life. WOW, just thinking of it gets me rock hard!
 
Has any men been right out and asked to do it, jack off, for their lady friends or wives?
Yes, several. Most after watching try their hand at it.

Women are fascinated with male masturbation. I also think they learn each guy’s approach so they can assist.
 
Has any men been right out and asked to do it, jack off, for their lady friends or wives?
Back in the day, a co-worker and I were the only two people in that, and she asked if she could see me masturbate in front of her. For some reason, I agreed, and we both stripped off and closed the office. I enjoyed the experience, and we didn't get much done that Friday afternoon. She had lovely full breasts and gave me a titty fuck as well. Those were the days when I could cum more than once, and didn't take long to recover.
 
Yes. Several times. At some point, I wrote a little memoir about the first few times when I refused and how I eventually came around and realized how foolish I had been. Should you be asked, just go ahead and give her a nice show. You will both enjoy it.
 
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