Not a cougar!

[Dickstroker81]

I don't consider myself a cougar - I try to chat w/men closer to my age (44) or even a little older. The other night on another website I had TWO young men (late teens) try to "hook-up" - damnit - I have kids their age & older. If others want to be that cougar for them - that's their choice, but it's so hard to "swallow" a young man wanting an old broad.

What am I missing here?

You should be happy that you are still attractive to younger folks. Some women as well as men aren't even attractive to people their own age let alone younger folks. On the other hand, my 76 year old mama-in-law manages to drag home guys in their twenties.

 

[JudasIscariot]

I don't consider myself a cougar - I try to chat w/men closer to my age (44) or even a little older. The other night on another website I had TWO young men (late teens) try to "hook-up" - damnit - I have kids their age & older. If others want to be that cougar for them - that's their choice, but it's so hard to "swallow" a young man wanting an old broad.

What am I missing here?

This isn't attention seeking in no way is it

 

[jackstud]

Darlin such great response to your comments

 

[MrAwkward]

...it's so hard to "swallow" a young man wanting an old broad.

What am I missing here?

What's the old Henny Youngman line? Any club that will have me as a member isn't exclusive enough for me? I think it's the "consultant" syndrome: Since I think there's someone wrong with me, anyone who could have anyone and still wants me must have something wrong with him or her, too.

It's a self-defeating attitude, I believe. A self-confident attitude says, "Well, of course people of all ages are attracted to me!"

 

[nowisthetime]

I completely agree, in regards to horny all the time...I Totally disagree and it's never been proven THAT men reach a sexual peak...18-24. I'm 44 and haven't EVEN come close to reaching the summit. My cock gets harder than some 20 sump'thing might think ,and their GFs are checking this Married man OUT..I can fuck, cum and stay hard. Then get hard not soon after the softy....Without pharma.

Male Sexual peak is a Myth, brought to you by Femi'Nazis dream of emasculating young men, and Propaganda Media..
Though We are testosterone driven, AT 20-24 it's 'considered' the height of testosterone, 270-1070 ... certainly it diminishes, as we Men get older, but, extremely slow. Sexual Peak....NOPE, There just starting. In the world of mammals, it's the Mature, stronger and smarter that is the most virile.. The most fertile are young men...hence the explosion of single mothers

I know this as fact...Since prostate Cancer runs on my Dads side. I started having PSA tests at 40, and annual physicals. I asked for a Low-T (testosterone) test.. bang... my 'T'-levels, though NOT an 24 y/o were still high, as my doctor said (female) everyone is different..."if you were using Conventional wisdom (i.e. The old idea...) I should have extremely low-T....NOPE!!! I was nearly 650...with out supplements or pharma

It burns my ass, when the though of 18-24...reaching a sexual peak, Testosterone Peak, possibly. But, I just don't buy into conventional-group think of emasculating young men...

Subwhore60,

To answer your question...what your missing; young men with carnal urges. Most likely brought on by Testosterone, and being young bucks (please excuse my vulgarity) Want to run down the hill and fuck one of those Doe.... Unlike the experienced Buck, who will walk down and fuck them all !!!!

SW60, When my wife goes out with her GFs (girls night-out) shes told me...the young bucks take a great interest in her and another of her friends...both her and the Mrs have Natural curves, and not afraid to show it.. On the other hand. Since the www. I also believe, These young bucks, believe all Married woman are Stepford wives..With fat lazy husbands, that have small cocks, cum fast and leave their wives unsatisfied..."here I am, young buck, just run down the hill"

I always enjoy your posts and you make great points, Klippert! However I will have to touch on one point. That sexual peak belief was not made by feminazis, it was theorized by scientists, who happen to be mostly men. I am not a feminist, but I know it's convenient to blame them for the ills of society.

A man produces the most testosterone at 18, they have the fastest and firmest erections, but that doesn't mean he will experience the best sex of his life. Of course this doesn't speak for all men. Obviously, diet and exercise have a strong impact and I should have made that clear in my original post.

As woman become older, they become more confident in their bodies and that could explain their later sexual peaks, which happens to be in their late 20s and 30s. As the article implied, it is more psychological than physiological.

http://www.details.com/blogs/daily-details/2013/06/health-myth-do-men-really-hit-their-sexual-peak-at-18.html

Still, there are some mature men under the age of 25, but they are few and far between. Most of them do not know what they are looking for in life and have not fully matured. Many folks hit on the opposite sex because they are wanting to get laid, it's not always about 'being hot' or 'cute'. If sex is what some folks are looking for with these guys, then that's cool. But something more serious? Nah. I prefer to date a man closer to my own age or older, but not much older. I have nothing in common with someone who is under 25.

 

[MaryannM]

You're right about that.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I look forward to being a cougar and I'm definitely gonna fuck some young boys brains out, lol, but not the cocky young type that goes looking for cougars, the shy type who will never forget me

This where Lit needs a "like" button

I agree...I like Funnbrandy's post too !

 

[iowabish4]

I agree...I like Funnbrandy's post too !

finally found a lady who likes my shy type. Yay!

 

[TheLM]

I always enjoy your posts and you make great points, Klippert! However I will have to touch on one point. That sexual peak belief was not made by feminazis, it was theorized by scientists, who happen to be mostly men. I am not a feminist, but I know it's convenient to blame them for the ills of society.

A man produces the most testosterone at 18, they have the fastest and firmest erections, but that doesn't mean he will experience the best sex of his life. Of course this doesn't speak for all men. Obviously, diet and exercise have a strong impact and I should have made that clear in my original post.

As woman become older, they become more confident in their bodies and that could explain their later sexual peaks, which happens to be in their late 20s and 30s. As the article implied, it is more psychological than physiological.

http://www.details.com/blogs/daily-details/2013/06/health-myth-do-men-really-hit-their-sexual-peak-at-18.html

Still, there are some mature men under the age of 25, but they are few and far between. Most of them do not know what they are looking for in life and have not fully matured. Many folks hit on the opposite sex because they are wanting to get laid, it's not always about 'being hot' or 'cute'. If sex is what some folks are looking for with these guys, then that's cool. But something more serious? Nah. I prefer to date a man closer to my own age or older, but not much older. I have nothing in common with someone who is under 25.

What's your point? Most women NEVER learn what they want out of life!

I'm seriously sick of disparaging posts made against younger men. It is disgusting.

 

[Steve5511]

When I was in my 20's, i was with 2 women who were 15-20 years older than me. OMG! They were amazing in bed! Plus there was none of that whole "relationship" thing to worry about. They, as well as I , were in it to have a good time. I knew I wasn't going to "go out" with either of them and I also knew that either was interested in "seeing" a 20 something year old kid. But to this day, many moons later, I can still think back to those times and smile.

 

[followmenow6969]

I don't consider myself a cougar - I try to chat w/men closer to my age (44) or even a little older. The other night on another website I had TWO young men (late teens) try to "hook-up" - damnit - I have kids their age & older. If others want to be that cougar for them - that's their choice, but it's so hard to "swallow" a young man wanting an old broad.

What am I missing here?

I am an older male

 

[Hard_Rom]

In my twenties I would not find a girl looking at me in a bar. But over 40! Maybe I dress better? Used to be a bone rack. Got old and fat ballooned up to 155 lbs. Bit a meat on the bones maybe. Daddy complex?

Mommy complex?

22 years old times two equals 44.

 

[policywank]

no honestly it didn't turn me on to think they wanted me....10 years younger is one thing .... 15 to 20 years if not more - no can't do. Plus, I may be able to teach them something, but they really don't know how to treat me

Most young people (men and women) don't yet know what they want out of life. That isn't meant to be disparaging. We all need time to grow up.

However, when it comes to romantic or sexual relations there is a unique imbalance between genders. Men are taught they have to do all the wooing while women are taught they should wait for prince charming......making them a princess by implication. Many of the more attractive girls think they can just sit back and be as selfish as they want and whenever they decide to finally share their virtue all they have to do is show up and expect to have their world rocked.

Most of us grow out of these silly simplistic notions (at least I hope so). However, before that happens it's not hard to imagine young men simply wanting to be with a woman who is forthright and not drowning in daddy induced narcissism. That requires a woman with a bit more maturity.

 

[subwhore60]

sorry i didn't mean any offense - I see it works for some, just not me....

 

[RickTango]

sorry i didn't mean any offense - I see it works for some, just not me....

Hey and all us males aren't , hmmm what's a make version off a cougar called? Dirty old me? Lol

 

[rider81]

When I was in my 20's, i was with 2 women who were 15-20 years older than me. OMG! They were amazing in bed! Plus there was none of that whole "relationship" thing to worry about. They, as well as I , were in it to have a good time. I knew I wasn't going to "go out" with either of them and I also knew that either was interested in "seeing" a 20 something year old kid. But to this day, many moons later, I can still think back to those times and smile.

Same experience here, and same result. Fun times.

 

[MaryannM]

You're generally right about all that. > Maryann

 

[wrant]

You're generally right about all that. > Maryann

Best cougar ever!

 

[girdlelover]

Cougar

I met a lady in a bar one night, turns out we had mutual friends. One thing lead to another, and I followed her to her house. We both had a great night, and left it there. I did see her on other occasions, we were friendly, but that was all.

 

[SandraMustard]

What do you call the woman if the age difference is 40 years? Cou-grand?

 

[brothertime]

What do you call the woman if the age difference is 40 years? Cou-grand?

My Ex
"Someone who can teach me more, then get me to do it again".

 

[policywank]

sorry i didn't mean any offense - I see it works for some, just not me....

you didn't say anything offensive

 

[sata85]

I just envy older women is all. The experience, the confidence, the poise, usually free of the self-esteem problems and hang-ups of "girls".

 

[followmenow6969]

Hey sexy