not fetish clothing but a masters demand

[Netzach]

What JM said, which is what I always find myself saying in these situations - do you really not know what you'd like? If you'd like something, make it happen. Our votes aren't really important here - if you have a fetish for purple panties, for God's sake, put her in purple panties and she'll be thinking of you.

 

[rida]

I have a question for all of you Domly types:

Do you really think that a sub needs to be wearing something to be thinking of you?

I don't know, perhaps it is just be, but, it does not matter whether I'm ordered to wear panties or a chain or anything. My D never really goes far from my mind.

To me, I'd love if my D(s) would give me some trivial order such as "wear purple panties" to borrow from Netzach's example, because it will make me feel as if he has me on his mind.

So to me, it would be something that I'd be more than happy to comply with, as to be given a little token of their Dominance over me would actually feel nice.

 

[Netzach]

I have a question for all of you Domly types:

Do you really think that a sub needs to be wearing something to be thinking of you?

I don't know, perhaps it is just be, but, it does not matter whether I'm ordered to wear panties or a chain or anything. My D never really goes far from my mind.

To me, I'd love if my D(s) would give me some trivial order such as "wear purple panties" to borrow from Netzach's example, because it will make me feel as if he has me on his mind.

So to me, it would be something that I'd be more than happy to comply with, as to be given a little token of their Dominance over me would actually feel nice.

Absolutely not. It's always really delightful when I mention something like "I love thigh highs" and M happens to have them on the next day under his pants though. It's one of those fun things that reminds me there's more to life than being sick and working, lol.

 

[Recidiva]

To a certain extent this question reminds me of when someone's cooking and the recipe says "salt to taste" and then they ask "How much salt is to my taste?"

What is to YOUR taste? What turns you on, gets you where you want to go? I have no idea if "rutabaga" is the answer to that. But if rutabagas are your thing, work it in.

Just don't Dom by the numbers and adopt other people's traditions that mean nothing to you. Build something that has meaning to you both and be clear on your symbols and intention.

If you're clear it has some meaning to you personally...then personalize it.

What do you want?

 

[ultramarineblue]

I agree with those that are saying that you need to figure out what you want instead of asking others to tell you what to do. Aren't you supposed to be the PYL?

For me though, it's one thing for a PYL to tell me to wear something some of the time. Anything more feels like the PYL is trying too hard to be the PYL. I can either choose to submit or not. I don't need to be reminded and I will not be made to.

 

[~Haze~]

I have a question for all of you Domly types:

Do you really think that a sub needs to be wearing something to be thinking of you?

I don't know, perhaps it is just be, but, it does not matter whether I'm ordered to wear panties or a chain or anything. My D never really goes far from my mind.

To me, I'd love if my D(s) would give me some trivial order such as "wear purple panties" to borrow from Netzach's example, because it will make me feel as if he has me on his mind.

So to me, it would be something that I'd be more than happy to comply with, as to be given a little token of their Dominance over me would actually feel nice.

To each their own.

Personally, I've never been a big fan of things like this. By "things like this" I mean doing things because [they] can but otherwise have no purpose (which is what the OP sounds like [to me]). Regardless of the relationship and whatever labels/titles you slap on yourselves.

If it means something to me or means something to her, that's a different story and it's not only something I don't mind, it's something I (we) actually enjoy.

It's not uncommon to spend a few minutes together to select the next day's outfit and to outline the next day's wardrobe. Personally, I tend to notice the the little details (thanks to the hopeless romantic in me) and benefit from knowing every little detail. From her skirt to her shirt to bra and panties to jewelry to specific shoes to how she will wear her hair. I particularly enjoy this if we're going to see each other right after work.

This is something that, over the course of the day, helps me feel closer to a woman. It helps put a more intimate perspective on our time apart and adds to the anticipation of our eventual time together.

I've also done this when someone I care about is away/out of town/LDR/or I haven't seen her in a while. It's just something that draws me... draws us closer together.

I don't really consider it a "domly" thing to do as much as a romantic or intimate thing to do.

As an everyday 'task', the fun/eroticism/intimacy is going to wear off quickly and it will be regarded as tedious. You can call me old fashioned but I don't like being associated/regarded as the source of frustration, especially for mundane, tedious, empty gestured tasks.

 

[OLDERNWISER]

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[MasterPhoenix]

Clit piercing

No one at work has to know, and it will always be there.

 

[Etoile]

B

Clit piercing

No one at work has to know, and it will always be there.

I thought about piercings too, but that might be more than they're looking for right now.