cookiecat
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Maybe my heart is just broken and I need to let that happen.. no matter what this is not her fault.. it is my failure as a dom.
I hate failure
I didn't mean safety in terms of bdsm. I meant feeling secure in life in general.
I was going off your comment that she said this marriage was for insurance. I made a leap that meant something different than bdsm.
I won't leap again, since it's your story to tell or process or whatever.
Since you threw this out in a public forum - I'm going to say it takes two people in a relationship to make something succeed or fail. 100% cannot be all on you.