Older guys with older guys

Same as most of you, since my late 30's I've had this thing about much older men, as I'm now in my 50's may fantasies stay in the older, but closer in age now. Perfect thing would be to find another who has as much to lose, but also needs that experimentation that can be trusted. I think older gents are less likely to get weird on you, and are more into slowing it down, and having a long fun time.

There are a lot of us older guys out here hoping for a safe, semi-regular FWB. Myself, I am 63. A total bottom. Very oral. Love to swallow! Can be anal receptive for the right guys. VERY tiny dicklette that seldom gets hard. Married and very discrete. SW FL.
 
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Same as most of you, since my late 30's I've had this thing about much older men, as I'm now in my 50's may fantasies stay in the older, but closer in age now. Perfect thing would be to find another who has as much to lose, but also needs that experimentation that can be trusted. I think older gents are less likely to get weird on you, and are more into slowing it down, and having a long fun time.

Pretty sure a lot of us older guys feel the same way.
 
Indeed. However how many have at least a vague indication of their location posted?

I noticed a lot of that and guys want to try find someone, how does any one know where thy are even located! I seen a couple, location, "USA"!! about as vague as can be, or they have some other stupid thing in it and not their location! I cant edit mine but I put it in my signature
 
Almost all of my male-on-male encounters have been with older men, going back to my first in my late teens. Now, in my early 40s, I still prefer older men!
 
I agree i'm still looking in North Central Texas. All I want is a FWB, very hard to find especially in a small town.
 
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I agree i'm still looking in North Central Texas. All I want is a FWB, very hard to find especially in a small town.

Can't change profilr location.....suffice to say that I have now relocated and here in the UK it is even harder to find a fwb......quite literally lol
 
I imagine it can be hard in a small place where almost everyone knows each other.
 
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Older guy here 60 5-6 130 married for close to 30 years. Wife knows I like men and indulges my m2m fun but does not join.

Many interests and plenty of bad habits.
 
I've always leaned toward age-appropriate relationships. Was divorced at 40, and went out with a 29yo lady; I felt like a babysitter. Not that she wasn't grown up, just that there was so much cultural difference. Now that I'm pushing 60, age appropriate feels like a wider scale, but it's still my preference. I'm convinced that some things can only be learned with age. Those are the things that feel most important. Even when talking about casual sex, considerate people are the best. Mature men, in my experience, seem to be less self-centered. When you both concentrate on the other's pleasure, it usually works out great for both, or all three, or 4, or 9. Wait,,,, that's another thread
 
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I've always leaned toward age-appropriate relationships. Was divorced at 40, and went out with a 29yo lady; I felt like a babysitter. Not that she wasn't grown up, just that there was so much cultural difference. Now that I'm pushing 60, age appropriate feels like a wider scale, but it's still my preference. I'm convinced that some things can only be learned with age. Those are the things that feel most important. Even when talking about casual sex, considerate people are the best. Mature men, in my experience, seem to be less self-centered. When you both concentrate on the other's pleasure, it usually works out great.

I certainly agree....age does have some benefits!
 
When I was younger, I tended to gravitate towards men my own age or older, as I enjoyed the almost mentoring aspect with them. As I have gotten older, I can't say that I have focused on younger guys, but more guys my own age. I'd be open to a younger guy, but like my attraction also to women, I have always enjoyed someone as or more experienced than myself.

I know everyone has their own buttons that get them going, for now, that's just mine.
 
I enjoy my age and older, it seems all the young guys are the biggest game players and BSers who claim to be serious but cant carry a conversation and are gone after a few message exchanges. Most all I ever had was in 50s up. I had one who is in mid 90s too, he could not get hard but loved to kiss and cuddle and loved his bunns fucked and bred well!
 
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