Oral Servitude

[neci]

the first guy i ever dated refused to have oral sex. i was so frustrated. i seriously just wanted to give him a blowjob. i wanted to play with his cock and have him cum in my mouth. i even begged him one night to let me please try. he just flat out refused. turns out he was a complete asshole and it was probably a good thing i didn't get to put my lips around his cock. the conversation about vanilla made me think of him. i simply don't understand men who refuse blow jobs. i mean, if it's bad, and they have reason to say, um... hun... you suck - and not in the good way - that's one thing. but to not even let you try and prove yourself?!?!?! i don't get it. even if the first blow job isn't perfect, i would want to be taught how he likes it. okay. morning thoughts of blow job refusal over coffee and pancakes is ending. i hope everyone has a good day!

 

[rosco rathbone]

As much as I love oral, I've had blowjobs so bad that I just had to say "don't bother".

 

[neci]

As much as I love oral, I've had blowjobs so bad that I just had to say "don't bother".

yeah. i have had oral that bad before as well. leaves me thinking, what a waste of such a pretty mouth.

 

[rosco rathbone]

yeah. i have had oral that bad before as well. leaves me thinking, what a waste of such a pretty mouth.

Usually the phrase "are you going to cum in my mouth tonight" would leave me hot and bothered, but in this case the response was "not bloody likely".

Made her cry.

 

[SirLeo]

Teeth

Usually the phrase "are you going to cum in my mouth tonight" would leave me hot and bothered, but in this case the response was "not bloody likely".

Made her cry.

Let's not even get started about teeth!? I mean how the f*ck could anyone think that scraping teeth along the sensitive skin feels good? I guess for some guys it might, not me. And the worst of all is "yucck" followed by spitting my cum out. That happened once or twice and was the end of those relationships. What the f*ck is a gal doing giving head if she doesn't understand the intense emotional feelings.... OK change the subject, this is a total deflator. Luckily I found m 20 years ago.

Here is a pic to make everyone feel better.

 

[BadGirlsRule]

Here is a pic to make everyone feel better.

Nice pic, SirLeo. She looks completely pleased by her performance. I can relate. That's the best feeling in the world.

That confuses me. Being so totally submissive to do it exactly as he orders. Literally worshipping his Almighty Cock. He's always in Control...just as I like. But then I get this thrilling little feeling inside because I actually had the power to bring him to such a vulnerable act...cumming and being quite helpless for those few seconds it takes.

It's such a thrill to me. A quite huge shift in power in my mind...but only for a few seconds.

 

[SirLeo]

Nice pic, SirLeo. She looks completely pleased by her performance. I can relate. That's the best feeling in the world.

Ah, you sound like a fine lass. Welcome to the thread!

 

[unsettled]

I agree with her definition...my experience has been vanilla implies "not colorful." The same ol in and out , missionary style..at night in bed in the dark..rollover and go to sleep. I suppose there are those that define Vanilla differently....As Im older way back when Oral wasnt thought of as "normal" as it seems it is today. I knew many married ladies who had never experienced giving on receiving oral...I recall in Berlin in the mid 1950s...ladies were shocked when I went down...
I do ask though if you did a few things like watched some porno together where oral was the main theme and maybe dressed sexy, shaved down there...would it motivate him? I would say...talking from my own experience, at first it may make him nervous..and he might react negatively...not because he wants to but because he is very concerned he might appear perverted...Id keep at it though...I think these things are an acquired taste..

Pardon my late response, I have not been near internet access today.

No to the porn, he really does not partake of it, yes to the shaving and the sexy clothes. We have actually talked about it, he has an irrational fear of teeth (even though nothing negative has ever happened. I would expect punishment from any man if I were a bitch enough to use teeth without permission) and he says he is turned off by the taste of pussy (never tasted mine...). Even the ol' in and out is only once every three weeks maybe... no foreplay and one round. All the other times he is too tired or gets offended when I give suggestions, never met a man such a nonexistent sex drive. I asked him once if he was satiated after one orgasm and he said yes. I always feel there is so much more that could be achieved, like hours of sex and many orgasms... but maybe that is unrealistic (nope).

Me thinks his psycho mother has something to do with the inhibition. We weren't allowed to stay overnight in the same HOUSE before marriage and she gets upset when we hold hands... I love him very much, so I'll keep working on him. Thank God for my toys!

P.S. Sorry to bring down the thread with my frustrations.

 

[neci]

Usually the phrase "are you going to cum in my mouth tonight" would leave me hot and bothered, but in this case the response was "not bloody likely".

Made her cry.

poor thing. sounds like someone needed a spanking.

 

[george51]

Call me selfish, but I have never refused a blowjob. And I don't think I ever will..

 

[CutieMouse]

As much as I love oral, I've had blowjobs so bad that I just had to say "don't bother".

I dated a man for a while last fall who thought the only purpose of skullfucking was to quickly end a bad blow job.

Drove.Me.Nuts. [in the not good way]

 

[celticsunspiral]

I just got out of what started as a very vanilla relationship. He had only had missionary sex and wouldn't let me give him a blow job at all. It took me two years to add some stain to that vanilla view of sex. He thought that he would be deeming me if I sucked his cock. It took a while before he finally realized that it was something I enjoyed. Something I needed to have in a sexual relationship. There is just something about the texture of a semi hard cock, and then as it get harder and feels like steel beneath the oh so soft skin, the different shapes and tastes. And don't even get me started on the balls and how they feel beneath the tongue or held careful on your tongue.

 

[mercuryfrost]

I love one who cock worships... I do indeed love to have my cock worshiped so I am more than happy to be with someone who does it for me. I do however love to return the favour as well. I must say I have never tried a cream pie but I think I will put it on my list of things to do soon....

 

[george51]

I would do that. Returning the favour would be, at least, part of the fun.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I dated a man for a while last fall who thought the only purpose of skullfucking was to quickly end a bad blow job.

Drove.Me.Nuts. [in the not good way]

The problem is, if the blowjob was toothy and bad to begin with, then skullfucking is probably going to feel exactly like that: fucking a skull. Oorg.

I just got out of what started as a very vanilla relationship. He had only had missionary sex and wouldn't let me give him a blow job at all. It took me two years to add some stain to that vanilla view of sex. He thought that he would be deeming me if I sucked his cock. It took a while before he finally realized that it was something I enjoyed. Something I needed to have in a sexual relationship. There is just something about the texture of a semi hard cock, and then as it get harder and feels like steel beneath the oh so soft skin, the different shapes and tastes. And don't even get me started on the balls and how they feel beneath the tongue or held careful on your tongue.

He's right. It IS demeaning. That's what's so great about it.

 

[DaneCopenhagen]

the first guy i ever dated refused to have oral sex. i was so frustrated. i seriously just wanted to give him a blowjob. i wanted to play with his cock and have him cum in my mouth. i even begged him one night to let me please try. he just flat out refused. turns out he was a complete asshole and it was probably a good thing i didn't get to put my lips around his cock. the conversation about vanilla made me think of him. i simply don't understand men who refuse blow jobs. i mean, if it's bad, and they have reason to say, um... hun... you suck - and not in the good way - that's one thing. but to not even let you try and prove yourself?!?!?! i don't get it. even if the first blow job isn't perfect, i would want to be taught how he likes it. okay. morning thoughts of blow job refusal over coffee and pancakes is ending. i hope everyone has a good day!

You are absolutely right - there is nothing like a good blowjob - the feeling of the womans lips around the head of my cock and the tongue pressing below the head - uhmmm thats nice and when she goes down the shaft with her wet mouth so I feel the throat with my cockhead and licking my balls as I squeeze her tits and nipples and push her head further down on my cock - and the sweet sensation when I cum deep in her mouth and she swallows it all and licks my cockhead afterwards and lokks deep in my eyes.....WOW

 

[george51]

He's right. It IS demeaning. That's what's so great about it.

Demeaning. Now there's a good word..

 

[Dearelliot]

say what you want but there is nothing better than to have a woman milk out the last few droplets and hunggrily lick them off...

 

[Dearelliot]

sorry about the 2 Gs...should proof read I suppose

 

[rosco rathbone]

say what you want but there is nothing better than to have a woman milk out the last few droplets and hunggrily lick them off...

Love the "milking" thing..."I'm gonna get that manseed I don't care how hard you try to hold out".

 

[BabyxGirl]

say what you want but there is nothing better than to have a woman milk out the last few droplets and hunggrily lick them off...

There's nothing better than being on your knees before a man, holding his still large but softening cock in your hands, and then, as you gaze shyly into his eyes, begging him to permit you to milk the last drops of cum from his cock and lick them gently into your unworthy mouth.

Jena, Lady Claire's naughty little slut

 

[Dearelliot]

Yes a woman needs that...I like no hands allowed, I used to tell my wife to lick and nurse the head of it for a while, although it took a long time the orgasm was tremendous. ..and I like to have her show me her open mouth before swallowing...

 

[george51]

That was good, though a woman can maul me all she likes..

 

[rosco rathbone]

Yes a woman needs that...I like no hands allowed, I used to tell my wife to lick and nurse the head of it for a while, although it took a long time the orgasm was tremendous. ..and I like to have her show me her open mouth before swallowing...

Did you tell her to swirl it around like fine cognac?

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

There's a discussion of Liz Phair's Exile in Guyville over on the GB.

I saw that you mentioned Flower (Blowjob Queen), rosco. But I think it needs to be posted in this thread for posterity.