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masterslave00 said:
That's rather interesting observation. My own experience is quite different:
  • been with more women who were not into giving blow job than those eager to give it
  • been with more women who refused access to her pussy than those who encouraged it
    • in particular, I have been denied access to cream pie more often than allowed
going into more detail,
  • women of my generation (I am 64) are much less into oral sex (either way)
  • younger women are more into oral sex (either way)
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Your experience is diametrically opposite mine. Nearly every woman I've been with has sucked my cock. Not all of them have made me cum that way, but most have. This counts both girlfriends and one-night stands. For example, one girlfriend sucked me off on our first date but wouldn't fuck for a few weeks.

Most women have either allowed me to cum in them or insisted upon it. With one-nighters and potentially risky sex I'll use condoms but still cum while my cock is inside.

I love giving oral to a woman, and have gotten quite a number of them off that way. Here's a short piece I wrote about making women cum: https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm
 
ArseGratiaArtis said:
Your experience is diametrically opposite mine. Nearly every woman I've been with has sucked my cock. Not all of them have made me cum that way, but most have. This counts both girlfriends and one-night stands. For example, one girlfriend sucked me off on our first date but wouldn't fuck for a few weeks.

Most women have either allowed me to cum in them or insisted upon it. With one-nighters and potentially risky sex I'll use condoms but still cum while my cock is inside.

I love giving oral to a woman, and have gotten quite a number of them off that way. Here's a short piece I wrote about making women cum: https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm
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Same. Always gotten and given oral. Every woman I've been with.
 
Great post. Was thinking about a post like this today.

For me is simple. Everyone should be willing to offer and receive oral favours.

From the recipient’s perspective, if done sincerely, it’s typically a wonderful gesture and experience. It’s convenient, spontaneous, thoughtful and an act that can ensure a couple remains very close and intimate.

From the beneficiary view, the act can be viewed as an expression of complete devotion and willingness to totally pleasure the recipient. It’s also a very convenient option to ensure your partner’s sexual needs are addressed even if the beneficiary does not intend to take further actions. The act can be completed in isolation and totally on impulse. The beneficiary also needs to be sincere and clearly demonstrate they love the act.

I honestly believe oral pleasures can help couples where one partner make no long like or prefer PIV type of sex.

Perhaps I’ve oversimplified my thoughts, but these are just what’s in my head.
 
Haida_lee said:
Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.
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It’s a cultural thing. When I was a young man back in the 80’s there were many cultural taboos about certain sexual experiences among cultures. I think general sex education in books, TV shows, and even video porn helped to change this.
 
Lamia03 said:
So far, I personally haven’t encountered a man who wouldn’t perform oral on me. But I’m attractive to older men and they are eager 🤩 to do it. And because of their enthusiasm, I return that eagerness.
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I think some younger men might be too egotistical to offer their services? Older, experienced individuals likely have realised it’s an essential part of their arsenal in satisfying the sexual pleasures of a partner.
 
Haida_lee said:
Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.
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There is nothing better than eating pussy……if I could only do one sexual act I would choose eating pussy…..I know I can orgasm while doing it and have on numerous occasions.
 
Our problem was a bit different. I wanted to eat her pussy, but she was reluctant to let me. This was decades ago before oral sex was talked about openly. Then I got a book, The Joy of Sex, that urged women to let their men do oral on them. When I did it the first time and she had the most amazing orgasm of her life, oral sex became a regular part of our sex life.
 
gtnlynn said:
Our problem was a bit different. I wanted to eat her pussy, but she was reluctant to let me. This was decades ago before oral sex was talked about openly. Then I got a book, The Joy of Sex, that urged women to let their men do oral on them. When I did it the first time and she had the most amazing orgasm of her life, oral sex became a regular part of our sex life.
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This makes me wonder what era and what region you're talking about. I came of age in the late 60s, in rural New England. Everybody was doing it. People talked about it openly— usually guy-to-guy or girl-to girl talk, but not always. Within a couple years— very early 70s— everybody was openly talking about it, even in mixed group settings.

The Joy of Sex sure was fun when it came out, though (1972), and before that, Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex (but were afraid to ask) (1969). Reading them together became a form of foreplay.

I first learned about cock rings from Everything You Always Wanted to Know, and saw my first illustrations of them in The Joy of Sex. One of those illustrations has always stuck with me: it was an Indian cock ring, from antiquity, carved out of ivory, with a cobra's head at the top that was designed to rub against the woman's clit.
 
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liqueur said:
This makes me wonder what era and what region you're talking about. I came of age in the late 60s, in rural New England. Everybody was doing it. People talked about it openly— usually guy-to-guy or girl-to girl talk, but not always. Within a couple years— very early 70s— everybody was openly talking about it, even in mixed group settings.

The Joy of Sex sure was fun when it came out, though (1972), and before that, Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex (but were afraid to ask) (1969). Reading them together became a form of foreplay.

I first learned about cock rings from Everything You Always Wanted to Know, and saw my first illustrations of them in The Joy of Sex. One of those illustrations was always stuck with me: it was an Indian cock ring, from antiquity, carved out of ivory, with a cobra's head at the top that was designed to rub against the woman's clit.
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The South in the early 70's.. Girls sucked cocks, but they didn't admit it. Men never mentioned eating a nice girl's pussy.
 
Haida_lee said:
Why are some men reluctant to perform oral sex on their partners, compared to women? Almost all women definitely want to perform oral sex on their partners.. give your opinion for discussion, friends.... this is a place to discuss sex... if you want to discuss morals, maybe this is not the place, let alone talk about morality. this is not the place.... thank you.
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I will not fuck my wife or any other of my sexual partners till I first give them an orgasm with my tongue.
 
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