Oral

[chris9]

One of the reasons I've liked oral is that it is a vanilla way to push a girl's limits. A lot of girls just simply don't do oral... in a way,getting them to go against their usual for you is a push on their limits.

Why does it feel better to you when the girl sucks compared to using her hand(s)? Is it only the 'making vanilla girls do something they might not have thought of doind'? Or is it some feeling to it, either physically or psychologically?
I'd really like to hear your answers. And I would still like to hear from other gents about their likings.

 

[Aeroil]

That helps me understand what was meant a little better.

I hope I wasn't giving the impression that I'm sticking my dick in every open mouth. I don't lay a finger on a girl I'm not dating, period. And by "dating" I mean for more than just a few weeks. (with one exception, which I'm not proud of, it was a lapse in judgement)

*yawns at Jase's overcompensating defenciveness*

 

[chris9]

And now, back on topic: As a Domme - I like to give oral from time to time because well ... I like it. I like knowing that they can't help their reactions, knowing that all I have to do is apply a little pressure with my teeth and they can't do anything to stop me from doing whatever I want to do. I have been known to tie a boy up and then blow him simply because he told me that he doesn't get much out of recieving oral and I was determined to prove him wrong (I did, for the record )

When we first started experimenting, before deciding to try something more control-wise, I did usually feel quite powerful giving oral. His pleasure was more or less at my command, I could make him stay on the edge. And it was somehow more powerful than doing a hand-job. This kind of power, his moans and such, did turn me on, now I do think about it. Maybe I'll have to experiment a bit more in that direction some time.
Anyway, the same act feels different since I'm more submissive. It's still fun to have him wait, but very different, more about his pleasure than my power. Don't know, hard to describe.
I'm glad that you and Netzach gave your opinions on giving oral as a domme. Interesting aspects of the same topic.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Sexually I am very self-centered and selfish. Oral servitude is my preferred mode of sexual expression because I like my partner to be completely concentrated on and absorbed in giving me pleasure. It gives me a warm, benificent, expansive and relaxed feeling of all being right with the world and everything in its proper place.

Ever since I became a sexually aware being I have been struggling with society's attempts to indoctrinate me with the mores of sexual equality, tit for tat and quid pro quo orgasms. "You do me. I'll do you". When I slip into the warm bath of oral servitude, I leave all that behind and feel like I return to my true nature. Somewhere between an infant being lovingly fondled by mother and the King of the Universe.

When combined with an overall relationship of power imbalance, well, it's just ducky.

 

[jasonlf]

Why does it feel better to you when the girl sucks compared to using her hand(s)? Is it only the 'making vanilla girls do something they might not have thought of doind'? Or is it some feeling to it, either physically or psychologically?
I'd really like to hear your answers. And I would still like to hear from other gents about their likings.

Totally a psychological thing. I mean, it FEELS great, but just seeing the girl, below you (i.e. I'm looking down at her), doing her damndest to get you off, it's great.

As far as hands vs. no hands? Well, if a girl can take it all, I'd rather it be all in the mouth, if not, then whatever... it's all good, hah.