Performing Cunnilingus: Dominant or submissive

[DeepGreenEyes]

ROFLMAO at DeepGreenEyes....

But really...you should have your cock in Neci's mouth...she is REALLY craving it....

Thanks for the tip. So to speak.

 

[NomadLady]

Thanks for the tip. So to speak.

So....get off the computer and "please Neci".....

 

[Stella_Omega]

you're obviously more of a sadist than i originally gave you credit for. that, or you're genuinely ticked off/offended and just going off.

btw...you could not make me do anything...not being my Owner, a regular user, or even in my general vicinity. if i were to be unfortunate to come across someone with your intentions, i would make every attempt to run away, or if that failed, simply cause myself severe physical injury, before anything you so graphically described could occur. but if it does anything for you, i'd much sooner eat barf than pussy. for me they would be basically one and the same, just with the barf you are mercifully skipping the human interaction part.

Oh my god I would never be able to live with myself if I put you into a situation that triggered your gynophobia so badly that you had to hurt yourself.

Let's just say I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole and leave it at that.

And maybe you don't need to parade your pussy-hatred in threads about cunnilingus.

Sound like a plan?

 

[Netzach]

I would feel exactly the same about this (making someone get licked who hates it) as I would about making boys suck cock who absolutely detest every single second but are doing it because I want to.

Just fantastic.

Honestly, I find going down on other women to be varying levels of interesting to interminably boring. It's not my favorite thing on earth, I'm much more interested in shoving my fingers in them, I feel much more connected, and it's more my thing. I'm receptive on this one and selfish.

 

[BiBunny]

I would feel exactly the same about this (making someone get licked who hates it) as I would about making boys suck cock who absolutely detest every single second but are doing it because I want to.

Just fantastic.

Honestly, I find going down on other women to be varying levels of interesting to interminably boring. It's not my favorite thing on earth, I'm much more interested in shoving my fingers in them, I feel much more connected, and it's more my thing. I'm receptive on this one and selfish.

LOL, you and I would get along perfectly.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Oh my god I would never be able to live with myself if I put you into a situation that triggered your gynophobia so badly that you had to hurt yourself.

Let's just say I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole and leave it at that.

And maybe you don't need to parade your pussy-hatred in threads about cunnilingus.

Sound like a plan?

no way. if i didn't pipe up in these threads, it would be nothing but people going on and on about how much they freakin' love it. a different perspective needs to be heard/read.

 

[Marquis]

I dont like the stickiness in my mouth.

 

[Netzach]

LOL, you and I would get along perfectly.

But I like attention down there. Fortunately I have people for that.

 

[Netzach]

no way. if i didn't pipe up in these threads, it would be nothing but people going on and on about how much they freakin' love it. a different perspective needs to be heard/read.

Yeah, um, try that on the cock threads and see how it feels to choke on a bucket of shuthefuckupifyoudon'tLOVEit.

 

[Marquis]

Honestly, I find going down on other women to be varying levels of interesting to interminably boring.

I can't lie, going down on my submissive is pretty boring.

She tends to power down quickly when any attention is turned towards her pleasure, probably a result of her extensive adolescent molestations. I know she's hoping I'll push through, but with 0 feedback the ADD kicks in quick.

 

[Netzach]

I can't lie, going down on my submissive is pretty boring.

She tends to power down quickly when any attention is turned towards her pleasure, probably a result of her extensive adolescent molestations. I know she's hoping I'll push through, but with 0 feedback the ADD kicks in quick.

You know, the only experience as a giver I've had has been with switch girls, girls who are really into it and completely unconcerned with "oh no I must not make it about me" and even then it's quite a bit of work, but without the payoff of them being into it it would be pretty dismal. Or the payoff of them actively hating every second and pleading for me to stop, that would be novel! I'd probably go back to shoving my fingers in there in no time, and if I had a cock I'd be using it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

no way. if i didn't pipe up in these threads, it would be nothing but people going on and on about how much they freakin' love it. a different perspective needs to be heard/read.

You don't have a perspective, just a handful of gynophobias, like a million other hetero women.

You know, the only experience as a giver I've had has been with switch girls, girls who are really into it and completely unconcerned with "oh no I must not make it about me" and even then it's quite a bit of work, but without the payoff of them being into it it would be pretty dismal. Or the payoff of them actively hating every second and pleading for me to stop, that would be novel! I'd probably go back to shoving my fingers in there in no time, and if I had a cock I'd be using it.

I really love me a pillow queen! I gotta say I have almost never brought a woman to orgasm with only my mouth. Fingers and a lot of deep pressure make a big difference. And fists. I love it when I can get my whole hand inside her. Then-- the tongue is a truly precise instrument.

*sigh*

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I really love me a pillow queen! I gotta say I have almost never brought a woman to orgasm with only my mouth. Fingers and a lot of deep pressure make a big difference. And fists. I love it when I can get my whole hand inside her. Then-- the tongue is a truly precise instrument.

*sigh*

Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

 

[ownedsubgal]

Yeah, um, try that on the cock threads and see how it feels to choke on a bucket of shuthefuckupifyoudon'tLOVEit.

actually i like hearing from those folks, spices things up and makes for a real discussion as opposed to some cyber wankfest. one thing i can't stomach are wankfests, even if they're bent in the direction of my own sexuality.

 

[ownedsubgal]

You don't have a perspective, just a handful of gynophobias, like a million other hetero women.

yes, i do have a perspective, and no, i have no "gynophobias." a sexuality wildly different from your own does not a disorder make.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I dont like the stickiness in my mouth.

icky!

 

[Stella_Omega]

actually i like hearing from those folks, spices things up and makes for a real discussion as opposed to some cyber wankfest. one thing i can't stomach are wankfests, even if they're bent in the direction of my own sexuality.

I like wankfests. Wanking is why I come to literotica.

So, I'm going to wank.

http://wired-pussy.smut.com/files/2009/06/wired-pussy19.jpg

 

[red111a]

Never thought about it in terms of a dominant or submissive act.
Love doing it and love having it done to me.
Dont think its a less manly thing to do. I think if a guy likes having it done to him then he should be returning the favour.

 

[where]

Hope you don't mind some teeth, too.

oral ain't oral if there are no teeth involved.

I wouldn't repeat it if I found it didn't work. The art of sex, like I said, is to give pleasure, and I like to master the arts I practice. You need to be sensitive to your partner. But if you respond immediately to her every expression of displeasure, she's effectively topping from the bottom because you're letting her do it. Much better to make a mental note, take what you're doing to some conclusion which seems natural to you, and next time, not do whatever it was that didn't work.

But the receiver's response is exactly what I'm seeking to control and seeking to enhance. I am the actor: I have agency, she has none (or as little as I can let her have). She is the playing field, the canvas on which I work my art. Her orgasm is the tune I play on my instrument. My pleasure is always - has always been - that I can make her come, and as often and intensely as possible. Making me come is too easy to be a challenge.

All this applies just as much to forced anal penetration as it does to cunnilingus.

*sighs*

Honestly, I find going down on other women to be varying levels of interesting to interminably boring.

I can't lie, going down on my submissive is pretty boring.

She tends to power down quickly when any attention is turned towards her pleasure, probably a result of her extensive adolescent molestations. I know she's hoping I'll push through, but with 0 feedback the ADD kicks in quick.

I'm one of those, but it's not about losing interest (which is what it is often interpreted as), but more about having the need to focus intently and I can't do that if I'm writhing around moaning. This is how I got into BDSM. Being bound so tightly so I can't move allows me the space to focus on my orgasm without the oralist thinking they are mouth fucking a corpse.

I really love me a pillow queen! I gotta say I have almost never brought a woman to orgasm with only my mouth. Fingers and a lot of deep pressure make a big difference. And fists. I love it when I can get my whole hand inside her. Then-- the tongue is a truly precise instrument.

*sigh*

I always figured that with women I was more of a top than a bottom. I would kill to be topped by you.

 

[niv78]

A lot of good responses in here, this is generally how the discussion with friends went. My stand on it is that it's up to the individual person to make it either a dominate act or a submissive act. Usually when I do it my sub is tied up, blind folded and of course not allowed to cum without permission, plus it never gets old to feel her entire body shake and to listen to the sounds she makes during the act.

 

[the captians wench]

A lot of good responses in here, this is generally how the discussion with friends went. My stand on it is that it's up to the individual person to make it either a dominate act or a submissive act. Usually when I do it my sub is tied up, blind folded and of course not allowed to cum without permission, plus it never gets old to feel her entire body shake and to listen to the sounds she makes during the act.

I wonder if this is just the way I'm wired, but I've never needed any of those extras for me to feel his control in the mater.

Of course this could be because I'm usually not preped for it. One minute we are talking about the weather, the next holly fuck I have a mouth sucking my clit!

 

[niv78]

I wonder if this is just the way I'm wired, but I've never needed any of those extras for me to feel his control in the mater.

Of course this could be because I'm usually not preped for it. One minute we are talking about the weather, the next holly fuck I have a mouth sucking my clit!

Well each person is different, it's not a matter of if she needs it or not, it's a matter of what I want to do to her.

 

[eroticspank]

Agree

Well each person is different, it's not a matter of if she needs it or not, it's a matter of what I want to do to her.

I would agree with this. I really believe it is different for each person. To me D/s is more about what is in your mind than anything else. If you are convinced that you are the sub, it does not matter what is being done to you. You still are the sub.

I used to dominate my Asian girlfriend with oral sex while she was tied up. She would beg me to cum and I would just tease and torture her more. I would usually not let her cum until I entered her and that was always a big shock that sent her over the edge and made her yell my name or Master over and over again.

Sometimes if we had arguments and we were just in the house in a non play status, I would rip off her clothes and go down on here bringing her to several orgasms. She would try to not let me do it and fight me off because once I got between her legs she could not control herself and became putty in my hands doing whatever I said and admitting that she was wrong. I was amazing she would walk around the house after wards with her head down in full submissive mode.

ES

 

[Marquis]

I'm one of those, but it's not about losing interest (which is what it is often interpreted as), but more about having the need to focus intently and I can't do that if I'm writhing around moaning. This is how I got into BDSM. Being bound so tightly so I can't move allows me the space to focus on my orgasm without the oralist thinking they are mouth fucking a corpse.

This could be a strategy.

 

[Primalex]

You don't have a perspective, just a handful of gynophobias, like a million other hetero women.

So much hate and poison in a single sentence.


What is the next level? The girl who doesn't like to give head is mentally ill and suffers from androphobia?